British Attitudes
Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: Practice Makes Perfect! If we were an artist or an athlete, we could not expect to reach the top of our profession without practicing. To introduce good habits we need to practice them. As a consequence we become better with practice. This suggestion is nothing new, but we don't always apply these principles to our own life. We may apply it with reference to education from school, college or our workplace, but rarely will we practice to self develop the aspects of our mind related to the growth and development of wisdom. The very fact that you are reading this would suggest you are aiming to put that very observation and possible frailty correct. However we must not tap ourselves on the back just yet. QUOTE: "Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." (Dr. Martin Luther King Jnr). An athlete would see the results of practice in the next race he ran. An artist would see the benefits in the next sale of his painting. A person who practices wisdom cannot see the results so readily. Yet be assured the value is enormous. The lady in the next story had a belief, a faith and a determination that her perseverance would benefit her personally. If you believe you will benefit from greater wisdom remember this story... DEPEND ON MIRACLES One Sunday morning I heard my minister say if you want result from prayer, pray for thirty days without ceasing. I didn't know why it was thirty days, but I was willing to give it a try. The following became my daily prayer: I am available, Lord, to be used by You each day. Guide me, precious Lord, and lead me in what I say and do. May my words and actions be a witness that You are living in me. To the one that is lonely, may I be a friend. To those with heavy burdens, help me to meet their needs. Lord, I do not want fame or fortune. My prayer is that You will use me to glorify your name. I know I don't have much to offer, but I will give You my all. Guide me to be what You want me to be. Amen On the twenty-first day of this prayer, CPR took on a new meaning for me. I was working an extremely busy twelve-hour night shift in Labour and Delivery. I had just sat down for my first break when a phone call came from my friend working in the Emergency Room. I barely recognized her urgent voice. An eighteen-year-old boy had been brought to the ER for alcohol and drug overdose. The young man was very close to death and they had done all they could do to help him. The father of this boy was requesting a priest or minister and they were having difficulty locating one that could come to the ER quickly. My friend stated, "We know you're a Christian and we need you to come and try to comfort this father. Please help." Reluctantly, I said I would come down. As I waited for the elevator my thoughts became very judgmental and frustration welled up inside me. Then I remembered the prayer I'd been praying. I walked into the ER and approached the father. Taking his hand, I silently led him to the chapel. Before I could even say, "I am not a minister, " this six-foot, two-hundred-twenty-pound man sank into the chair and became a broken hearted child. Through his non-stop sobbing he spoke, "Christian, pray for Raymond. I remember the first time I held my boy. I felt so proud and I just kept saying, 'I have a son.' As the years passed those tiny feet became bigger and walked away from his family's love and entered a strange, hardened, and destructive world. Tonight, too much alcohol and an overdose of drugs are taking his life. It's as though he wants to rebel against everything his family stood for. He knew what he was doing was wrong. Sometimes he seemed so afraid, but he wouldn't stop. Now it is too late. Christian, you have to pray for Raymond." Those large hands trembled in mine and as I looked into his eyes, I mourned with him. Silence fell between us, as I searched for the words that would comfort this crumbling tower of a man. I felt so inadequate. I wanted to scream, "Lord it has only been twenty-one days since I began that prayer! I am not ready for this!" Time was running out and I knew I couldn't stall any longer. I clutched his hands, now wet with tears, and began to pray. The words came easy, much to my surprise. I finished praying with him and went to Raymond's bedside. I took his cold, lifeless hand and once again began to pray. "Lord I am asking for a miracle and I know You can do it." I stayed with them both until Raymond was taken to Intensive Care. I visited Raymond on a daily basis and continued to pray for him. Eight days passed with little improvement. On the ninth day I entered the ICU and a miracle had taken place. Raymond was awake and talking with his father. CPR had taken on a new meaning for me: "Christian Pray for Raymond". As I left the ICU with tears falling down my face, I realized, today is the 30th day of my prayer. Now I not only believe in miracles, I depend on them. (Author Unknown). QUOTE: "A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug." (Patricia Neal).
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Grey areas of sex...has the Welshman made the subject he raises a mature one...?
The Chief constable of Dyfed-Powys (Wales, UK) tells us the grey area of sex and age (thirteen to sixteen) should be made clearer, so if Horny Harry (17) gives Full Bodied Farrah (14) his full attention, would he indeed be judged as a paedophile - of course, this could happen the other way - a rip 'n' roar lass at 18 removing 13 year olds' Jerry's cherry. It will be argued that law is law - but despite the intense British attitude about sex (of all ages, it must be said) how on earth can we scream at a 17 year old boy who has had sex with someone who he has known for years - but is only 15? The Chief Constable's words are, as he added, personal...but could he have woken up the self-righteous dears who are eager to judge boys...who might (or might not) look older than the wee lass he's developing his sex skills with?
Oh dear...the question seems to have ended up in a different room - the Lesbian/Gay one...must have pressed the wrong button (in a manner of speaking). Mea culpa!
Know what you mean, Gerry...from rainbow one decade to smog the next!
That's true, Jack C - may be giving examples...but in the late sixties/early seventies when I reached the 'developing' age, can't remember girls on street corners wearing tease-tops, from the age of 12 onward, like 'Kiss me today, **** me tomorrow' (my stars, not Yahoo's) - and I'm sure you've seen likewise 'sexy' messages. Once upon a time, this was not much of a grey area as we didn't have the media sexing-up of everything from cars to cat food. The law indeed says sixteen is the age, but we're not talking about 41 year old males with 14 year olds. It seems nowadays, the new 'cool' with the young (girls especially) is to wear the most surreally termed message in order to keep in with her friends. You have stepped onto the populist tabloid step, with your 17 year old boy - and six year old girl scene. The Chief Constable - and many others are more concerned about the ages thirteen to nineteen - if a teenage boy gets it on with a 6 year old, punishment is the only option.
Nioce one, Xialou...I remember many male friends at school bragging that they lost their cherries at the most weirdest ages - it would have been amusing to have the police visit the school, and ask who was doing what to whom...who would be so eager to brag then?
Sorry, Jack C...it was David P who was being the Sun reading intellectual!
Sorry, Jack C...it was David P who was being the Sun reading intellectual!
Nice one, Lizzy...but have also discovered when the situation gets a wee bit too much for the 14/20 year old lass, she becomes the innocent rose again while her parents and the police are furiously looking for the 'nasty nonce', who despite honestly not knowing her age, will provide 'exclusives' for the tabloids for weeks to come, who will presume he's as guilty as sin.
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Can u help me understand? I've a round-about question re: British attitudes to punishing terrorists?
When I tell people (when asked) how we combat terrorism - [which never reach Western media & Indonesian media cares less]- people seem very horrified or shocked that we in Indo' can do these things.
(terrorist propaganda website will show selective footage ie www.aceh-online.com)
But to us they have hurt us & are attempting violent overthrow of the State- so we the security forces are fully justified in using whatever methods to eliminate them. Our public generally supports us (usually very poor simple villagers, farmers & workers are hurt most by terrorism).
Yes all very well to be polite and place them in jail- but what of justice for the victim and the dead?
We would not think to leave them in jail aside from awaiting their bullet and our jails are notorious for being as you call "hell-holes".
Your views on punishment I do not get?
Why do many Westerners attempt excusing/explaining the terrorist? He's a freedom fighter?
I dont understand this misplaced sympathy for perpetrator?
James- you will explain this ridiculous and weak position to my nations victims perhaps?
James- you may patronizingly label us uncivilized- but I hear more of your public advocating our use of a bullet or better yet a cane or machete for such animals you consider equal human beings than your bourgeoisie values.
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York Council banning November 5th?
York Council and the never ending red tape of Health & Safety has banned a bonfire in the local football ground because they can't ensure peoples safety and fireworks might fall on them? Is this just the start of the Anti-British attitude from our own councils and government? I've even heard that because of "sudden" insurance costs and a whole load more H&S rules, not many Christmas lights are going up across roads. I think it's time to get Labour and H&S out.
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Do British attitudes have any influence on their newspaper reading habits?
I'm learning British culture. I don't know whether their attitudes and education affect their reading habits say on broadsheets or tabloids.
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Your teams worst player?
I want to know who you think is the worst player at your team, and why? Im a Manchester United fan and id have to say Darren Fletcher, he epitomizes the whole british attitude to sport-Lots of effort but no talent
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