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How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...
Tiny Wisdom: This Moment Is Worth Savoring
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
by Lori Deschene ?The journey is the reward.? ~Chinese Proverb So much of our language about the things we enjoy in life revolves around getting ahead. We wonder where our relationships are going. ...
Releasing Judgment and Allowing Others to Have Their Process
by Tiela Garnett
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
Editor’s Note: This is a contribution by Tiela Garnett  ?Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest.?  ~Sri Chinmoy We live in ...
Start the Climb: Take One Purposeful Step
by Kirsten Tulsian
15 May 2012 at 12:10am
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Kirsten Tulsian ?Don?t be afraid to go out on a limb. That?s where the fruit is.? ~H. Jackson Browne When I close my eyes and ponder ...
What Does It Mean to Have Enough and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 12:05am
by Lori Deschene This is the 7th post in a 10-part series. If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will be redundant for you. ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Pain of Fighting Our Feelings
by Lori Deschene
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
by Lori Deschene ?Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists.? ~Eckhart Tolle Have you ever exacerbated difficult feelings by responding to them with resistance? Although I made peace with my ...
Creating an Inner Peace That Endures
by Marilyn Briant
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Marilyn Briant ?Peace of mind is not the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.? ~Unknown Like many people, I ...
Are Things Happening For You or Against You?
by Jeremy Britton
10 May 2012 at 9:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jeremy Britton ?We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world.? ~Buddha Your life ...

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Today's Story on SOLVING PROBLEMS: Letting go of the past is easy to say but not so easy to do. It is not until you see how effective it can be and to see how it benefits you first hand, do you begin to realise at all how big this small problem is! Nobody can expect after a life-time of experience, that you will drop old ideals and introduce fresh ones. What we can expect however is that you keep an open mind. If you try something new and it works, then you need to introduce that concept. Within my little world this week, I've had a chaotic, frustrating and 'emotionally trodden on' period. I can always tell when my attention is caught up with other matter. I may try texting on my mobile phone and suffer the frustration of tapping in the wrong information time after time, equalled only by my desperation to text the message quickly. These moments become a trigger that remind me to stop; calm down, stay still for a moment, take a deep breath and then allow myself to exhale very slowly. This begins the process of 'letting go' of all the troublesome matters. Being calm and collected, and generally of a happy nature, expands your skill, ability and judgement to deal with problems. Being 'on-edge' and uptight will be of no service to anyone. This next story explains how the desire and want for an item can make you refuse to let go. This is the parallel to us adults not letting go of our past, allowing it to effect our present moment and often damage its very beauty. HOLDING ON TO WHAT IS IMPORTANT This is a beautiful story I heard once about a child playing with a vase his mother had left on the table for a few moments. When the mother turned at the sound of her son crying she saw that his hand was in the vase and was apparently stuck. She tried to help him and pulled and pulled until the child cried out in pain. But the hand was stuck fast. How would they get it out? The father suggested breaking the vase but it was quite valuable and the child's hand might be cut in the process. Yet he knew that if all else failed there would be no other alternative. So he said to the boy, "Now, let's make one more try. Open your hand and stretch your fingers out straight, like I'm doing, and then pull!" "But Dad, " said the boy, "If I do that I'll lose my penny!" The boy had had a coin in his hand all the time and was holding it securely in his tight little fist. And he wasn't prepared to open his hand and lose the penny. But once he opened his hand it came out of the vase easily... I know that I hold onto things in my life that I think are so important to me. Early in my marriage all I cared about was becoming the best volleyball player in the state of Wisconsin. One year, when Kristi was working 2nd shift at General Motors, I played in 1400 games, competing four nights a week and 40 out of 52 weekends. My team won over 1000 games, 32 of the 40 tournaments, and two gold medals at the Badger State Games. Success on the volleyball court, but a huge loss in my relationship with my Kristi. I remember being so frustrated when she would ask me not to play on a certain weekend. When we would do things together, I would constantly be thinking about how I could be competing instead, and as I held so tightly to becoming a good player, I was losing my wife... I started to realize how self-centred I was being, and how I was working so hard at something that in the whole scheme of life, meant two things: Didley and Squat! When I finally let go, I looked back at what I had done and was ashamed. Not only did I show my wife she wasn't the most important thing to me, but I missed out on a lot of relationship building time. My life is so much richer now that I am not a slave to that drive to be the best player I could be... I still love to compete, and with all the great players I have surrounded myself with, we can still go anywhere in the tri-state area and expect to be in the finals. But now it's not the all-consuming fire. What is it in your life that you are afraid to let go of? What has a hold on you? Let go and watch the improvement unfold in front of your eyes. Michael P.S. And to think that my Kristi put up with all these things and still loved me, still had faith that I would become the man I should be, and stuck with me. A special lady indeed! I still have a way to go, and some growing up to do, but I owe her more than I can ever repay! QUOTE: 'The true measure of man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.' (Ann Launders)

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Would you move out and change your life?
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Have you been lied to by your church?
Few experience hurt more than learning that someone you trust has lied to you. You might feel humiliated, angry, or even betrayed. Lies destroy friendships and marriages; they defraud people of countless million of money. Imagine, then, how you would feel if you learned that you had been lied to about God. If you are devout, the effect could be profound. You might hesitate even to consider the possibility that you have been lied to about God. What you know may have come from someone whom you trust and who would never intentionally hurt you, your parents, a priest, a pastor, or a close friend. You may have believed a certain teaching all your life. But would you not agree that even a widely held idea can be false? Former U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt recognized this fact, for he said: ?Repetition does not transform a lie into a truth.? How can you determine whether you have been lied to? Jesus once said to God in prayer: ?Your word is truth.? (John 17:17) Yes, God?s Word, the Bible, contains what we need in order to distinguish the truth from lies. Why not let the Bible expose five common lies about God? You will see how the truth can change your life for the better. God Is a Mystery IS IT TRUE? God Does Not Really Care IS IT TRUE? God Is Vengeful IS IT TRUE? God Is Unfair IS IT TRUE? God Accepts All SincereWorship IS IT TRUE? The Answers to these questions are in THE WATCHTOWER ? OCTOBER 1, 2011 For more information on the worship that God approves, see chapter 15 of the book What Does the Bible Really Teach?

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How has 9/11 changed your life and your perspective on life?
I was 5 when it happened and had no idea what the WTC was and what was going on. I was not even aware until I went to my godmother's after school and saw my Godmother and mother watching the news. I saw the towers on fire but by then they had already collapsed because it was almost four o 'clock then. I got scared and thought that maybe the smoke will come over to my country and I kept looking out the windows, not knowing that it was not possible for the smoke to travel that long distance from New York to Trinidad and Tobago. Did not understand the value and grief caused then but when I had gotten old enough to understand I watched it over and over and cried and I read up on anything to do with 9/11. I'm not American but it hurts because at the end of the day we're all human beings. Every year on September 11th I sit and watch the television and news and all the documentaries and cried because though I did not lost a loved one someone else did and it was totally inhumane to do that. God Bless America!

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