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Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: Why do we choose to accept a first impression? It seems that we have grown up with accepting them and therefore it becomes a habitual act. This accepting a habitual act alone proves how many other aspects of our life can be clouded by judgements made from assumptions. Is accepting a first impression actually the first impression? More often than not it is the second impression. The first impression is a gut feeling that we discard incorrectly. I was out shopping with the family over the weekend and walked passed a tramp. The children stared intently at the tramp and after we had passed they gave me a barrage of questions. At eight and six years old my two girls were wondering was he a nice man or a naughty stranger, and why was he sitting on the floor? I explained the reasons for his need to sit and beg, but also continued with that we all would assume that he is a horrible person, because of his unshaven and unwashed appearance. Then I followed with, the way he appears on the outside doesn't mean that it is the way he is on the inside. He maybe able to laugh about his misgivings and have learnt some very valuable lessons in life, his soul maybe enriched with love and affection. We are better to reserve judgement than fill in the gaps and complete our first impression without all the facts. Yet, nevertheless as with our life, we seem to be making decisions with fewer facts than should be advised. To improve our self development we need introduce a goodness that prevents the proverbial first impression being accepted. Making assumptions means that you are taking risks, and taking risks causes heartache and problems. When you first see a tramp you show immediate empathy and sorrow; and only then do you put up your guard and make the recognizable 'first impression'. The more you assume the more you are making decisions without the full facts. This leads to inaccuracies in your life; you'll be continually going over ground you've already trodden. Spot the two first impressions accepted in this story. Watch also for the gathering of people who act as though they were sheep and follow everyone else's lead and make the same assumptions. HIS NAME IS JOHN His name is John. He has wild hair, wears a T-shirt with holes in it, jeans and no shoes. This was literally his wardrobe for his entire four years of college. He is brilliant. Kinda esoteric and very, very bright. He became a Christian while attending college. Across the street from the campus is a well-dressed, very conservative church. They want to develop a ministry to the students, but are not sure how to go about it. One day John decides to go there. He walks in with no shoes, jeans, his T-shirt, and wild hair. The service has already started and so John starts down the aisle looking for a seat. The church is completely packed and he can't find a seat. By now people are looking a bit uncomfortable, but no one says anything. John gets closer and closer and closer to the pulpit and when he realizes there are no seats, he just squats down right on the carpet. (Although perfectly acceptable behaviour at a college fellowship, trust me, this had never happened in this church before!) By now the people are really uptight, and the tension in the air is thick. About this time, the minister realizes that from way at the back of the church, a deacon is slowly making his way toward John. Now the deacon is in his eighties, has silver-grey hair, a three-piece suit, and a pocket watch. A godly man, very elegant, very dignified, very courtly. He walks with a cane and as he starts walking toward this boy, everyone is saying to themselves, "You can't blame him for what he's going to do. How can you expect a man of his age and of his background to understand some college kid on the floor?" It takes a long time for the man to reach the boy. The church is utterly silent except for the clicking of the man's cane. All eyes are focused on him. You can't even hear anyone breathing. The people are thinking, "The minister can't even preach the sermon until the deacon does what he has to do." And now they see this elderly man drop his cane on the floor. With great difficulty he lowers himself and sits down next to John and sits with him so he won't be alone. Everyone chokes up with emotion. When the minister gains control he says, "What I'm about to preach, you will never remember. What you have just seen, you will never forget." (Unknown Author) QUOTE: "Goodness is the only investment that never fails.' (Henry David Thoreau, Walden: Highest Laws, 1854)
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Hey is it true the Pope in his books say he is Jesus Christ ?
How many Popes have done this ??
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Do you know who Lionel Messi is....?
... he is the reincarnation of Christ. He is new Messiah.... do you accept him as your saviour??
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Is it true they're making a statue of Messi...?
... in Jerusalem, Mecca and Vatican???
Does that make CR the Dajjal/Anti Christ?? Or is Mourinho the Dajjal... poking Tito in his left eye... that would actually make Tito the dajjal but I'm sure this is just a trick by the REAL dajjal called Mourinho..... the deceiver!!!
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Christians don't believe the devils lie once saved always saved?
Mat 6:15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
1Co 15:1-2 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
Col 1:22-23 In the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight: If ye continue in the faith grounded and settled, and be not moved away from the hope of the gospel, which ye have heard,
Heb 3:6 But Christ as a son over his own house; whose house are we, if we hold fast the confidence and the rejoicing of the hope firm unto the end.
Rom 11:21-22 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee. Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou shall be cut off.
There is many more scriptures indicating you can lose your salvation (I have taken it all in context) I believe calvinism is heresy.
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Does this count as being two faced?
This boy I really like, he plays piano in church, just because he LOVES music. And we were at church today and my mum decided to go over and tell him how much she liked his choice of hymns. so she was talking to him and I was behind her rolling my eyes and all that. And he was smiling at me, and talking to my mum. He sounded all religious and everything and my mum keeps going on about how great he is now.
But like 2 hours later, we were skyping and started talking about religion. He was saying about how much he hates religion. He sent me this link to a song that was really anti Christ. And he was like 'yeah i play the piano in church, yet i listen to that music' Then we made up a couple of naughty and unreligious jokes. He said so much bad stuff that I jokily said 'are you a satanist or something?!' and he was like 'lol no I'm catholic'.
His opinions didnt really bother me, im not religious, i just get dragged along to church :( But wasn't that a bit 2 faced, acting all religious in front of my mum, then practically turning into a satanist when he was talking to me? I know it's good that he's like that in front of my mum because she REALLY approves of him now, but isn't it 2 faced?
Thanks in advance :) x
Ps I'm 14 he's 15 :)
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