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How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...
Tiny Wisdom: This Moment Is Worth Savoring
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
by Lori Deschene ?The journey is the reward.? ~Chinese Proverb So much of our language about the things we enjoy in life revolves around getting ahead. We wonder where our relationships are going. ...
Releasing Judgment and Allowing Others to Have Their Process
by Tiela Garnett
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
Editor’s Note: This is a contribution by Tiela Garnett  ?Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest.?  ~Sri Chinmoy We live in ...
Start the Climb: Take One Purposeful Step
by Kirsten Tulsian
15 May 2012 at 12:10am
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Kirsten Tulsian ?Don?t be afraid to go out on a limb. That?s where the fruit is.? ~H. Jackson Browne When I close my eyes and ponder ...
What Does It Mean to Have Enough and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 12:05am
by Lori Deschene This is the 7th post in a 10-part series. If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will be redundant for you. ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Pain of Fighting Our Feelings
by Lori Deschene
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
by Lori Deschene ?Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists.? ~Eckhart Tolle Have you ever exacerbated difficult feelings by responding to them with resistance? Although I made peace with my ...
Creating an Inner Peace That Endures
by Marilyn Briant
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Marilyn Briant ?Peace of mind is not the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.? ~Unknown Like many people, I ...
Are Things Happening For You or Against You?
by Jeremy Britton
10 May 2012 at 9:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jeremy Britton ?We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world.? ~Buddha Your life ...

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Today's Story on LOVE: I write today's Daily Wisdom knowing of its truth. We dream and read how love should be perfect. It is not too long before subconsciously that is how we expect it to be. So if it doesn't measure up we question its very existence. My life wouldn't be too dissimilar to most. I have a family I love and seldom does anything question its intensity, or for the purpose of today's subject, its perfection. I may know where to turn for some inspirational wisdom, but under pressure, these circumstances can alter. I use the word pressure, when it could be words such as stress or confusion. The route of my dilemma however was nothing so grand; it was toothache. This very pain had been frustrating my approach to everything. In other words I was on a short fuse. I would guess however my version of a short fuse will differ in time and intensity than most. My two children were to be annoying sooner than normal and this had caused me distress as I saw this play of frustration unfold. I also found that my normal politeness was lost and every comment was more forthright and demanding. Soon to be an explosion! All because of toothache... I am a man, and was sure the toothache would disappear. Rather than explain any more of my own personal story, I would hope you could see how a 'Stitch in time could save nine.' Had I realised sooner I needed attention at a dentist then my fuse would have remained long. When you are in love every imperfection is accepted, to the point of being an attribute to the love. When you live on a short fuse those small imperfections are not accepted anymore. The very fact you are questioning these imperfections is for a reason that is self inflicted. I can confirm that during this play of pain and anguish that I was experiencing, the more I realised I was doing it, the more the fuse shortened. I was becoming more and more frustrated. I was questioning the very perfection of each member of the family unit. Imperfections are tolerated, accepted and adored in love. Perfection does not exist, only in love. Do not search for perfection, search for love. Whilst this next story, a Zen story, means little on its own, if it is taken in context with 'Perfection comes after love, ' you'll understand it better. PERFECTION DOESN'T EXIST 'I'm getting married on the morrow, Mulla, ' pronounced his friend, smiling from ear to ear. Mulla Nusrudin was quiet and thoughtful. 'Isn't marriage wonderful, Mulla. It is quite the best! Have you ever considered getting married, Mulla?' Mulla Nasrudin sighed, 'In my youth I thought of nothing else. In fact, I so wanted to find the perfect wife I travelled the world searching for her. In Damascus, I met a woman who was beautiful, spiritual and loving, but, alas, she had no worldly knowledge. In Isphahan, I met a woman who was beautiful, loving and worldly, but, alas, she was not interested in the spiritual life.' 'Where did you travel to next, Mulla?' asked his friend. 'I forgot where, but I met a woman who was truly spiritual, loving and worldly, but, alas, she was not beautiful. Finally, I went to Cairo and there, after much searching, I found the perfect wife. She was everything I wanted her to be. She was perfect, ' sighed Mulla Nasrudin. 'If she was so perfect, why did you not marry her, Mulla?' asked the friend. 'Alas, ' said Mulla Nasrudin, shaking his head, 'she was, unfortunately, looking for the perfect husband!' (An old Sufi story) The clue here of course is that Mulla would need to be in love first! Before perfection would exist.The quote that follows also shows how, when in love, the world is better. QUOTE: 'When you have loved as she has loved, you grow old beautifully." (W. Somerset Maugham).

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In our view / Plastic grocery bags Follow Hawaiians' wisdom - HeraldNet

18 May 2012 at 1:21am 

In our view / Plastic grocery bags Follow Hawaiians' wisdom
HeraldNet
Unfortunately -- "out of sight, out of mind" -- is the reigning "environmental" philosophy of so many, right up there with "ignorance is bliss." But on the sparkling islands of Hawaii, an exquisite but vulnerable environmental paradise, ...

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Gu Kailai's French Middleman Found in Cambodia - China Digital Times

17 May 2012 at 9:10pm 

Gu Kailai's French Middleman Found in Cambodia
China Digital Times
He has an occasional wry smile, and a calm demeanor that may stem from his years of close study of Taoism, a mystical philosophy with deep roots in Chinese culture. Mr. Devillers declined to speak on the record at his modest home, a sparsely decorated ...
Bo Xilai: mystery French architect Patrick Devillers discovered in CambodiaTelegraph.co.uk

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On Philosophical Issues In Relation To Buddhism - Asian Tribune

17 May 2012 at 6:36pm 

On Philosophical Issues In Relation To Buddhism
Asian Tribune
By Dr. Granville Dharmawardena Ph.D.(Cambridge) The recent Asian Tribune article on ?Philosophical Issues In Relation To Buddhism? is very critical of Buddhism and complains that Buddhists criticize other religions. Criticizing other's religions is ...



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Student of truth - gulfnews.com

17 May 2012 at 2:05pm 

gulfnews.com

Student of truth
gulfnews.com
First, and based on his own experiences, Al Kindi understood that a person must undergo a long training and study period to become a philosopher. This was not a requirement for a prophet since only God could bestow divinely inspired wisdom upon someone ...



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IT: Information Technology or Independent Thinking ... Interesting Thought! -...

17 May 2012 at 4:10am 

IT: Information Technology or Independent Thinking ... Interesting Thought!
B-EYE-Network
Plato wrote that Socrates said philosophy is a necessary component in obtaining wisdom and knowledge. Without it, how can you agree or disagree with someone else? How can you question anything you hear, see, read or experience?



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Philosophy of Noble laureate Amartya Sen - Korea Times

17 May 2012 at 2:39am 

Korea Times

Philosophy of Noble laureate Amartya Sen
Korea Times
As an economist he is par excellence but as a philosopher, I have developed different opinions about his wisdom. Even at the risk of being misunderstood by his long list of friends across the world, including Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh, ...



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For Mother's Day, the gift of earned wisdom - News & Observer

12 May 2012 at 10:08pm 

For Mother's Day, the gift of earned wisdom
News & Observer
And I recently received some rude and uninvited parenting advice from a stranger that prompted me to think about what, if any, ?parenting philosophy? I hold. That question made me laugh aloud because I realized (a) my parenting style is pretty much ...

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Six Pieces of Wisdom and Advice for College Grads, Inspired By and Borrowed ....

11 May 2012 at 2:41pm 

Six Pieces of Wisdom and Advice for College Grads, Inspired By and Borrowed ...
Huffington Post
(This was paraphrased by Norman, but originally thought to have originated from the philosopher Goethe.) With a surface-level read, this may seem obvious and potentially overused -- as in, work hard and it will all work out for you.



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The "Wisdom" of Pearson's Pineapple Passage - Huffington Post

10 May 2012 at 9:30am 

The "Wisdom" of Pearson's Pineapple Passage
Huffington Post
Clearly Pearson and Tisch need some lessons in classical philosophy. I decided to read up about wisdom in the University of Chicago's The Great Ideas, A Syntopicon of Great Books of the Western World edited by noted philosopher Mortimer Adler and ...

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Why every government should keep an empty seat for a philosopher king - The G...

10 May 2012 at 6:30am 

Why every government should keep an empty seat for a philosopher king
The Guardian
Socrates has defined the philosopher as not just a lover of wisdom but as a special kind of seer, someone dedicated to knowledge of capital-T truth. It follows that this exceptional fellow is the sole person fit to rule any city, including the ideal ...



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