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How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...
Tiny Wisdom: This Moment Is Worth Savoring
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
by Lori Deschene ?The journey is the reward.? ~Chinese Proverb So much of our language about the things we enjoy in life revolves around getting ahead. We wonder where our relationships are going. ...
Releasing Judgment and Allowing Others to Have Their Process
by Tiela Garnett
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
Editor’s Note: This is a contribution by Tiela Garnett ?Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest.? ~Sri Chinmoy We live in ...
Start the Climb: Take One Purposeful Step
by Kirsten Tulsian
15 May 2012 at 12:10am
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Kirsten Tulsian ?Don?t be afraid to go out on a limb.That?s where the fruit is.? ~H. Jackson Browne When I close my eyes and ponder ...
What Does It Mean to Have Enough and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 12:05am
by Lori Deschene This is the 7th post in a 10-part series. If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will be redundant for you. ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Pain of Fighting Our Feelings
by Lori Deschene
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
by Lori Deschene ?Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists.? ~Eckhart Tolle Have you ever exacerbated difficult feelings by responding to them with resistance? Although I made peace with my ...
Creating an Inner Peace That Endures
by Marilyn Briant
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Marilyn Briant ?Peace of mind is not the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.? ~Unknown Like many people, I ...
Are Things Happening For You or Against You?
by Jeremy Britton
10 May 2012 at 9:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jeremy Britton ?We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world.? ~Buddha Your life ...

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Today's Story on CHILDREN: We often make judgements that children do not. We see ragged clothes and assume the wrong thing; children see beyond the clothes and see the person. So what are we doing wrong that children are doing right? Society encourages us to make a judgement too early. We should be aware of the few facts we possess and reserve judgement. As for assuming; ban the very word from your vocabulary. To assume is to have a few facts and logically add the rest to form an opinion. Today's story illustrates this principle, yet we cannot condone the women's reaction, it is a necessary mothering concern. However the reason for her apprehension was because of the ragged clothes, rather than the harm that may arise from a stranger. BECOMING AS LITTLE CHILDREN We were the only family with children in the restaurant. I sat Erik in a high chair and noticed everyone was quietly eating and talking. Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, "Hi there." He pounded his fat baby hands on the high chair tray. His eyes were crinkled in laughter and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin, as he wriggled and giggled with merriment. I looked around and saw the source of his merriment. It was a man whose pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map. We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled. His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists. Hi there, baby; Hi there, big boy. I see ya, buster, " the man said to Erik. My husband and I exchanged looks, "What do we do?" Erik continued to laugh and answer, "Hi, hi there." Everyone in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man. The old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby. Our meal came and the man began shouting from across the room, "Do ya patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows peek-a-boo." Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was obviously drunk. My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence; all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring skid row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments. We finally got through the meal and headed for the door. My husband went to pay the bill and told me to meet him in the parking lot. The old man sat poised between me and the door. "Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik, " I prayed. As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to sidestep him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby's "pick-me-up" position. Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms to the man's. Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby consummated their relationship. Erik in an act of total trust, love, and submission laid his tiny head upon the man's ragged shoulder. The man's eyes closed, and I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain, and hard labour, cradled my baby's bottom and stroked his back. No two beings have ever loved so deeply for so short a time. I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms and his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm commanding voice, "You take care of this baby." Somehow I managed, "I will, " from a throat that contained a stone. He pried Erik from his chest unwillingly, longingly, as though he were in pain. I received my baby, and the man said, "God bless you, ma'am, you've given me my Christmas gift." "You see, m'am, I never saw my child grow up. My wife and son were taken from me in an automobile accident when they were both too young. I was never able to get over it." I said nothing more than a muttered thanks and "I'm sorry to hear that." With Erik in my arms, I ran for the car. My husband was wondering why I was crying and holding Erik so tightly, and why I was saying, "My God, my God, forgive me." I had just witnessed Christ's love shown through the innocence of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes. I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not. I felt it was God asking, "Are you willing to share your son for a moment?" when He shared His for all eternity. The ragged old man, unwittingly, had reminded me, "To enter the Kingdom of God, we must become as little children." (Author Unknown) QUOTE: "No man can be happy without a friend, nor be sure of his friend till he is unhappy.' (Thomas Fuller)

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