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How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...
Tiny Wisdom: This Moment Is Worth Savoring
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
by Lori Deschene ?The journey is the reward.? ~Chinese Proverb So much of our language about the things we enjoy in life revolves around getting ahead. We wonder where our relationships are going. ...
Releasing Judgment and Allowing Others to Have Their Process
by Tiela Garnett
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
Editor’s Note: This is a contribution by Tiela Garnett  ?Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest.?  ~Sri Chinmoy We live in ...
Start the Climb: Take One Purposeful Step
by Kirsten Tulsian
15 May 2012 at 12:10am
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Kirsten Tulsian ?Don?t be afraid to go out on a limb. That?s where the fruit is.? ~H. Jackson Browne When I close my eyes and ponder ...
What Does It Mean to Have Enough and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 12:05am
by Lori Deschene This is the 7th post in a 10-part series. If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will be redundant for you. ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Pain of Fighting Our Feelings
by Lori Deschene
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
by Lori Deschene ?Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists.? ~Eckhart Tolle Have you ever exacerbated difficult feelings by responding to them with resistance? Although I made peace with my ...
Creating an Inner Peace That Endures
by Marilyn Briant
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Marilyn Briant ?Peace of mind is not the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.? ~Unknown Like many people, I ...
Are Things Happening For You or Against You?
by Jeremy Britton
10 May 2012 at 9:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jeremy Britton ?We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world.? ~Buddha Your life ...

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Today's Story on HAPPINESS: Do we ever do enough to maintain our capacity to be happy? Once we've ascertained some understanding on what feeds the roots of happiness, we actively need to replenish the fodder. I was once reading an article from a well known musician and singer from the 1960's. He maintained that one of the biggest attributes he possessed was his ability to talk and be polite. He said that there was one particular sentence that open more doors than you could imagine. Now before I tell you the sentence, a wise person would have used this on numerous occasions during every day. But what made this sentence particular impressive was this musician used it to advance his career, from a mere jobbing musician and singer to international artiste. The sentence was, 'Can you help me please.' The musician claimed that people have an incredible desire to help. So upon hearing this question people just naturally want to be HELPFUL. As with a ripple in a lake, if we ask for help 'more often' then that would start the ripple; however before that ripple reaches the edge of the lake we need to start another. This is how often we need to feed and maintain our level of happiness. One way is to encourage people, including you, is to never be too proud to ask for help. Today's story is a slight twist to this scenario, but nonetheless the main theme is being HELPFUL. AN AUSSIE STORY Years ago a hardworking man took his family from New York State to Australia to take advantage of a work opportunity there. Part of this man's family was a handsome young son who had aspirations of joining the circus as a trapeze artist or an actor. This young fellow, biding his time until a circus job or even one as a stagehand came along, worked at the local shipyards which bordered on the worse section of town. Walking home from work one evening this young man was attacked by five thugs who wanted to rob him. Instead of just giving up his money the young fellow resisted. However they bested him easily and proceeded to beat him to a pulp. They mashed his face with their boots, and kicked and beat his body brutally with clubs, leaving him for dead. When the police happened to find him lying in the road they assumed he was dead and called for the Morgue Wagon. On the way to the morgue a policeman heard him gasp for air, and they immediately took him to the emergency unit at the hospital. When he was placed on a gurney a nurse remarked to her horror, that this young man no longer had a face. Each eye socket was smashed, his skull, legs, and arms fractured, his nose literally hanging from his face, all is teeth were gone, and his jaw was almost completely torn from his skull. Although his life was spared, he spent over a year in the hospital. When he finally left, his body may have healed but his face was disgusting to look at. He was no longer the handsome youth that everyone admired. When the young man started to look for work again he was turned down by everyone just on account of the way he looked. One potential employer suggested to him that he join the freak show at the circus as The Man Who Had No Face. And he did this for a while. He was still rejected by everyone and no one wanted to be seen in his company. He had thoughts of suicide. This went on for five years. One day he passed a church and sought some solace there. Entering the church he encountered a priest who saw him sobbing while kneeling in a pew. The priest took pity on him and took him to the rectory where they talked at length. The priest was impressed with him to such a degree that he said that he would do everything possible for him that could be done to restore his dignity and life, if the young man would promise to be the best Catholic he could be, and trust in God's mercy to free him from his torturous life. The young man went to Mass and communion every day, and after thanking God for saving his life, asked God to only give him peace of mind and the grace to be the best man he could ever be in His eyes. The priest, through his personal contacts was able to secure the services of the best plastic surgeon in Australia. There would be no cost to the young man, as the doctor was the priest's best friend. The doctor too was so impressed by the young man. Whose outlook now on life, even though he had experienced the worst, was filled with good humor and love. The surgery was a miraculous success. All the best dental work was also done for him. The young man became everything he promised God he would be. He was also blessed with a wonderful, beautiful wife, many children, and success in an industry which would have been the furthest thing from his mind as a career, if not for the goodness of God and the love of the people who cared for him. This he acknowledges publicly. The young man's name is... Mel Gibson. (Attributed to Paul Harvey) QUOTE: 'Go often to the house of thy friend; for weeds soon choke up an unused path.' (Scandinavian Proverb)

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Obama as campaigner is 'just another politician'

17 May 2012 at 9:50am  President Obama's re-election team has turned the candidate of hope and change into a ferociously political animal: The outsider who flew above polarized politics now does nothing but campaign and polarize.

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Obama falls to Earth as just a politician

17 May 2012 at 9:20am  Conventional wisdom has it that President Barack Obama's campaign four years ago was a political masterpiece. Yes, the Republican brand was in the toilet; the economy had cratered; his real opponent, George Bush, was a political pariah; and the country despaired for a new direction. Still, we recall the Obama campaign as a crushing force, brilliantly harnessed, riding the tide of history.

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Meet Obama the campaigner

17 May 2012 at 9:00am  Alex Castellanos says that Team Obama has turned the onetime candidate of hope and change into a ferociously political animal.

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Maya Angelou Opens Women's Health And Wellness Center, Calls Disparities 'Emb...

15 May 2012 at 10:15am  Wisdom comes with age, and at 84 years old, Maya Angelou has lots of wisdom. But she says she picked up her most valuable piece of wisdom early on. "I learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side, be an advocate for myself and others like me," she said.

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Joey Barton quotes philosophy. That doesn't make him 'reformed' | Ellie Mae O...

15 May 2012 at 7:52am  It's pure snobbery to assume that a working class footballer can't be violent and also read books One of my best friends grew up in Huyton; the part of Liverpool Joey Barton calls home. When Barton was elevated to the role of media darling, I remember my friend saying to me: "We all knew Joey Barton around here, but I had no idea he was any good at football." She said his reputation rested ...

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For Mother?s Day, the gift of earned wisdom

11 May 2012 at 11:37am  Community writer Elizabeth Selby McCarthy questions the notion of a "parenting philosophy."

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Talking business

11 May 2012 at 7:22am  Interview Blair Singer will speak about time-tested business wisdom, philosophy of sales and purposeful education at a workshop on May 13

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Camilla Webster: Invest Like a Billionaire: The Seven Pearls of Financial Wisdom

6 May 2012 at 3:19pm  One of the best things you can do to build your own wealth is to copy the rich and develop an investment philosophy for yourself.

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Blackboard Rumble: Why Are Physicists Hating On Philosophy (and Philosophers)?

1 May 2012 at 11:02am  There are those in the physics community who have no room for philosophy. At stake in their stance is a critical question living deep in the foundations of modern physics: What are the limits of science?

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Invest Like A Billionaire: The Seven Pearls of Financial Wisdom

24 Apr 2012 at 10:03am  There are endless articles online encouraging ??investors to buy the same stocks as well-known billionaires like , or Carlos Slim. It's easy to get whirled up in the excitement of a major move in the market and headlines like??Buy Railways Like Gates! and??Consider China, Buffett?s Best Move! The problem is many potential investors who are ...

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I'm nice too?
Why do religious people think that their belief makes them nice, respecful giving people. I do not believe in any god or religion and I treat people with the courtesy they deserve and I am a nice guy even if I do say myself. There are lots of examples of fiendish so called religious people (percentage wise its probably worringly high) I say follow some common sense rules about what is right and wrong, we all have a capability to decide for ourselves. Outlaw religion, that would be a positive step. Agree?

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what does your house number mean?
For example, if you live at 193, add together 1+9+3 = 13 = 1+3 =4 (your numerology house number) If it's already a single digit such as 6, there is of course no need to do any sums. Once you've worked out your house number find out what it reveals in the descriptions below:- Number 1 This house provides a stimulating place for creativity and enterprise.Individuals living here may be inclined to start their own business and would probably find success working from home. Number 2 This house is ideal for kind, charming people. They enjoy socializing and would love having friends over for dinner. A soft simple interior with pastel walls and furnishing would enhance the peaceful atmosphere Number 3 This is a happy house that encourages celebration. It's ideal for large families or those with lots of friends. Comfortable and beautiful it can may bring out the need for extravagance of its inhabitants. Number 4 Common sense rules in this house. A structured routine is often followed closely and the house runs like clockwork. Harmony is achieved when all family members contribute to keeping the place tidy. Number 5 This house if a buzz of activity and often there is no routine or rules. It can be a little crazy at times but always interesting! Children will thrive here. Number 6 Family ties are of great importance in this house. Traditions are respected and time devoted to children, pets and extended family. Caring and sharing should be the philosophy here. Number 7 This home can be a peaceful retreat for those who need to escape the pressures of the world. It's ideal for people who like to be alone and would like time and space to explore the spirtual realm. Number 8 This home is ideal for confident individuals or someone who holds a position of responsibility. Nothing but the best interior designs and furnishing will do here. This home likes to make a positive impression. Number 9 This home favours those with patience and compassion. Life's misfits are drawn here and will find a welcoming reception from it's owners. It is often owned by those who have an appreciation of the Arts. This house is filled with beauty and encourages both idealism and honesty. So does your house number bring out the best in your personality or could there be room for improvement?

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church of satan how much do you know and understand?
i answered a qustion on here last night asking if the church of satan set up by Dr LeVey had the same legal rights and it set me thinking that i didn't know a thing about it, so i checked it out on their website and boy did it get me thinking! i'm baptised catholic but don't have any belief in god, (won't go into detail as i don't want to offend) but i do have my own beliefs which i'm happy with. back to the point, after reading their website for 3 hours until 5am this morning it made a lot of sense to me, i didn't agree with all aspects but it seems to be a religion based on common sense rules and basically how we live our lives now (i'm not inc the dealings in the occult etc) i was just wondering how many others had looked into it and what everyone else thought, anyhoo here's the website if you're interested http://www.churchofsatan.com/home please don't be offended by the topic i would just like to hear everyone's perspective ann thats a really good point, but to read the website you will find that it is not a case of worshiping satan infact it is a someone else said worshiping yourself and being self indulgent. i'm a strong believer in science over religion, i have more faith in evolution! i have to say tracey wow its great to get an opinion like that from someone who has read and knows a lot about it, that is the reason for my posting many thanks!!!!!!!!!!! TO DRAKE: you seem have a very regimented view to life through the teaching in which you believe, as stated i have my own beliefs and idea's on life and afterlife and my own philosiphies on god(s) and satan etc and would love to converse with you further about yours and how ours differ. i would love for you to email me so we can discuss this further. please don't think that i am going to mock or try to quash what you think as i am being very serious and hope hat you could answer many questions that i can't.

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Do you think prisonment for parking in a disabled bay is a good idea?
I had a long drive back home yesterday and was listening yo a debate about people parking in disabled bays and there was suggestions that offenders should be put in prison,how scary is it becoming to live in this country? I totaly agree that it is awful that people do this and that they should be punished but ..prison.When I came out of hospital after a serious op a few years ago my daughter would use the disabled parking spot so she could get me into the wheel chair so I could shop, The sad thing with these laws is it is usualy the wrong one who get punished. Oh if only we could all be nice to each other and common sense rule.

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Dog Walking Etiquette ~ what common sense?rules? would you like dog walkers to follow?
Don't ask "Is he friendly?" or "Does he bite?" ~ when looking at my Dobermann. Instead ask is okay to meet your dog, or for my dog to meet your dog? (I'm not an irresponsible idiot who walks a vicious dog in public) Don't let your dog toilet on my garden, not nice! What would you add?

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