Confidence Building
Today's Story on ADAPTING TO CHANGE: When you take on a new role or new profession you can easily become a different person. What suddenly happens is that your new role consumes your old identity. What you need to do is ADAPT TO CHANGE. This all consuming act may not be seen within a day, but it may be seen within a month. With all due respect to graduates, as we feature one within today's story, they may well be academic, but most every person suffers the trials and tribulations of our emotions. The Oxford graduate is succumbed by his own career and its very purpose, so much so he cannot see the obvious. It is almost as if he is wearing blinkers. This very trait, of not recognising when our emotions bulldoze our thought pattern, will only lead to headstrong decisions. Allow this next illustration to explain the problem in a regular day to day event. A SIMPLE LIFE An Oxford businessman was at a local bar when a small band of musicians were just finishing a gig. Inside the small pub was a very large audience who had been pleased immeasurably. The Oxford graduate complimented the Barnsley musician and lead singer on the quality of his performance and vocal talent and asked how long it had taken to become so accomplished. The Barnsley musician replied only a little while. The Oxford graduate then asked why didn't he perform more often and earn more money? The Barnsley musician said he had enough to support his family's immediate needs. The Oxford graduate then asked the Barnsley musician how he spent the rest of his time. The Barnsley man said, "I sleep late, I practice a little music, play with my children, take an afternoon nap with my wife, Yvonne, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my comrades. I have a full and busy life, sir." The Oxford graduate scoffed, "I am an Oxford Graduate in business Studies, with honours, and could help you. You should spend more time practicing and performing your skill, with the proceeds, buy bigger and better sound and lighting equipment. With the proceeds of a better sound, you could encourage the best musicians in the region to join your band; eventually you would have a masterful band who commands a huge fee. Instead of selling your services to the local pub, you could sell yourself onto the club circuit, then onto the theatre circuit and before long you could be supporting an international band. You would control the production and eventually write your own songs that could earn you millions around the world. "You would need to leave this small village you call Barnsley and move to London, then New York, Sydney and Los Angeles where you will run your expanding enterprise." The Barnsley musician asked, "But sir, how long will this all take?" To which the Oxford graduate replied, "3 - 6 years." "But what then, sir?" asked the Barnsley man. The Oxford graduate laughed, and said, "That's the best part! When the time is right, you would announce your band upon the stock market and sell your company stock to the public. You'll become very rich; you would make millions upon millions!" "Millions, sir?" replied the Barnsley musician, "Then what?" 'Once you had all that money and freedom, what would YOU do?' Said the Oxford graduate. The Barnsley musician replied, "Sir I would retire. Move to the small village life, as I experience here in Barnsley, where I would sleep late, practice a little music, play with my kids, take an afternoon nap with my wife, Yvonne, stroll to the village in the evenings where I could sip wine and play my guitar with my comrades." (Adapted by the Editor) QUOTE: 'Very little is needed to make life happy. It is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.' (Marcus Aurelius)
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Anyone know of any acting auditions for 14 year olds?
I've performed as an extra in my school We Will Rock You (I couldn't have a bigger part as all of those were given to sixth form.) And I've also attended a few other extra drama classes, although no regular ones. I'm planning to start Pauline Quirke's Academy soon, but before I join I want to find out about Auditions available in the West Midlands for teenage actresses. I would like to go to a few for experience and to build up confidence. I'd be interested in auditioning for any parts, even if I don't get accepted I still wont mind as it's just experience and practise. If I do then that's great! But it's more confidence building and experience that I'm looking for at the moment.
Does anyone know of any auditions for 14 year olds in the West Midlands? For anything including theatre work and TV. I'm not really bothered about different parts at the moment, and am happy to try out for most things.
Thanks for any help and advice anyone can give me!
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How to become a midwife??? help please..x?
Well im 16 now, and im going onto a e2e course for confidence building as i have been home tutored for 2 years and i am not mentally ready to go to a college. this is a one year course.
After this i would like to pursue into going to a Childcare apprenticeship (NVQ level 2). This is a one year course.
Then i would like to go onto Child care apprenticeship NVQ Level 3.
From this i have no clue what to do in uni to be a midwife, Ive read on some websites you have to go to university to train to be a general nurse first, and be employed for 1 year as a GN before you can do a 1year course on midwifery to be a qualified midwife, i dont want to be a general nurse.
Im interested in pregnancy and new borns and the thought of helping new life into the world gives me a lovely feeling, But being a general nurse doesnt really tickle me in anyways..
Do you absolutely HAVE to be a general nurse first?
Isnt there a degree course you could do to just be a midwife :S seems dumb you have to go to uni for 3 years to be something you dont want, to have to be employed for a year in a job that doesnt interest you, too just get onto a course.
Also is childcare NVQS going to help me get into university?
If there was a course on midwifery were i didnt have to become a general nurse first is child care the best thing to do at college? or health and social care??
Please help..x
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What courses to take to be a midwife please help x?
Well im 16 now, and im going onto a e2e course for confidence building as i have been home tutored for 2 years and i am not mentally ready to go to a college. this is a one year course.
After this i would like to pursue into going to a Childcare apprenticeship (NVQ level 2). This is a one year course.
Then i would like to go onto Child care apprenticeship NVQ Level 3.
From this i have no clue what to do in uni to be a midwife, Ive read on some websites you have to go to university to train to be a general nurse first, and be employed for 1 year as a GN before you can do a 1year course on midwifery to be a qualified midwife, i dont want to be a general nurse.
Im interested in pregnancy and new borns and the thought of helping new life into the world gives me a lovely feeling, But being a general nurse doesnt really tickle me in anyways..
Do you absolutely HAVE to be a general nurse first?
Isnt there a degree course you could do to just be a midwife :S seems dumb you have to go to uni for 3 years to be something you dont want, to have to be employed for a year in a job that doesnt interest you, too just get onto a course.
Also is childcare NVQS going to help me get into university?
If there was a course on midwifery were i didnt have to become a general nurse first is child care the best thing to do at college? or health and social care??
Please help..xx
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My self-esteem is going down again, help please?
it's too fragile, i try MY BEST to build it up and it works, i feel good about myself and love me for me.
but today....my friend, she's a good friend but she was critisizing about how i wear baggy clothes...well i am a bit of tomboy but the real reason why is because i want to hide my hourglass figure, i am ashamed of it.
but after years of exercise, confidence build up. now im 17 and im ready to be girly and feel good about it, but now it's been knocked down. i feel bad about myself again help me out please it's awful.
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CBT - it isn't working for me...?
Why does my Doctor think that CBT techniques are a "magic bullet" treatment for depression? I've been depressed for around four years now, have been on several CBT courses, including Assertiveness, Anxiety Management and Confidence Building. None of it seems to do any good, I end up suicidal again. I feel that my depression is "hard-wired" into my brain, and that I am using a depressed brain that cannot process these CBT techniques. My Doctor is getting fed up and angry with me, because I made another attempt on my life, I don't find him sympathetic at all. I'm going to see him on Tuesday and I am already feeling frightened about it. I have requested ECT several times and am going to ask again on Tues, because I cannot go on like this much longer.
At the moment I am on 60mg Citalopram in the morning and 50mg Quietapine at night. They have tried various medications with me.
I should clarify that the Doctor I am seeing on Tuesday is a Psychaiatrist, I have been seeing him for two years now, GP before that.
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