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How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...
Tiny Wisdom: This Moment Is Worth Savoring
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
by Lori Deschene ?The journey is the reward.? ~Chinese Proverb So much of our language about the things we enjoy in life revolves around getting ahead. We wonder where our relationships are going. ...
Releasing Judgment and Allowing Others to Have Their Process
by Tiela Garnett
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
Editor’s Note: This is a contribution by Tiela Garnett  ?Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest.?  ~Sri Chinmoy We live in ...
Start the Climb: Take One Purposeful Step
by Kirsten Tulsian
15 May 2012 at 12:10am
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Kirsten Tulsian ?Don?t be afraid to go out on a limb. That?s where the fruit is.? ~H. Jackson Browne When I close my eyes and ponder ...
What Does It Mean to Have Enough and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 12:05am
by Lori Deschene This is the 7th post in a 10-part series. If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will be redundant for you. ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Pain of Fighting Our Feelings
by Lori Deschene
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
by Lori Deschene ?Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists.? ~Eckhart Tolle Have you ever exacerbated difficult feelings by responding to them with resistance? Although I made peace with my ...
Creating an Inner Peace That Endures
by Marilyn Briant
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Marilyn Briant ?Peace of mind is not the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.? ~Unknown Like many people, I ...

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Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: We are all sometimes afraid to admit that our self development is totally down to us as an individual. Any guidance we get is ultimately asking us the question, 'Do we want to take action?' If we take no action, there is no self development! There is a belief that if we are given something free, we don't value it. But if we pay, it has value. I for example was given two concert tickets before Christmas and found the effort to go to the concert was enormous. Yet had I chose to buy the tickets I would have been eager to attend. Self development is no different! If you go to the gym for a year with an aim to shape your body, your tolerance increases. If you are presented with a box of chocolates, you become happy to except one, rather than binge on eight or nine. The value increases when you pay, not necessarily in money but effort too! The story today and subsequent quote is not about payment, but about being bound. If you get everything for free, it is easy not to improve; you haven't spent anything so it doesn't matter! You don't need to spend big, spending on a book once a month would do fine... THE TUNNEL Zenkai, the son of a samurai, journeyed to Edo and there became a retainer of a high official. This high official treated his wife like a slave and she looked frightened at each encounter with her husband. Zenkai fell in love with the official's wife and was discovered. Then in self-defence, he slew the official. This event caused Zenkai to run away with the wife. Both of them later became thieves. But the woman was so greedy that Zenkai grew disgusted. Finally, leaving her, he journeyed far away to the province of Buzen, where he became a wandering mendicant. To atone for his past, Zenkai resolved to accomplish some good deed in his lifetime. Knowing of a dangerous road over the cliff that had caused the death and injury of many persons, he resolved to cut a tunnel through the mountains there. Begging food in the daytime, Zenkai worked at night digging his tunnel. When thirty years had gone by, the tunnel was 2, 280 feet long, 20 feet high and 30 feet wide. Two years before the work was completed, the son of the official he had slain, who was a skilful swordsman, found Zenkai out and came to kill him in revenge. "I will give you my life willingly, " said Zenkai. "Only let me finish this work. On the day it is completed, then you may kill me." So the son awaited the day. Several months passed and Zenkai kept on digging. The son grew tired of doing nothing and began to help with the digging. After he had helped for more than a year, he came to admire Zenkai's strong will and character. At last the tunnel was completed and the people could use it and travel in safety. "Now cut off my head, " said Zenkai. "My work is done." "How can I cut off my own teacher's head?" asked the younger man with tears in his eyes. (A Zen Story) QUOTE: "People are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves; they therefore remain bound." (James Allen).

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The Really Big Guide Of Small Business Success Tips - Fast Company

21 May 2012 at 2:22pm 

Fast Company

The Really Big Guide Of Small Business Success Tips
Fast Company
So in the spirit of helping more startups and growing enterprises succeed, Fast Company is kicking off National Small Business Week with a compendium of wisdom we've gleaned over the years. Though his signature style is rife with cynical wit and wry ...



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Morikami Museum Gets Spooky With ?Ghosts, Goblins and Gods? Japanese Art Exhi...

21 May 2012 at 1:00pm  film and philosophy, shows such as Pokémon use the Japanese monsters as inspiration for its many characters. Along with Pokémon, the exhibit, which runs until Sept. 16, features deities of happiness, good fortune and wisdom, including Ebisu ...

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The bliss of reading - Hindustan Times

21 May 2012 at 12:05pm 

The bliss of reading
Hindustan Times
And Durant helps you build a world of philosophy ad philosophers so that you have all the points and counterpoints of philosophic wisdom in one go. For a peep into Indian history and civilisation, you have Nehru. He also makes you familiar with the ...



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Khamenei: Humans' Creation perfected the world - Iran Book News Agency

21 May 2012 at 6:19am 

Iran Book News Agency

Khamenei: Humans' Creation perfected the world
Iran Book News Agency
IBNA: Ayatollah Mohammad Khamenei made his comments in the 16th Molasadra Conference highlighting the human-nature interactions in Sadra's philosophy. The conference was arranged today (Monday, May 21, 2012) by Sadra Islamic Philosophy Research ...



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Local Curves owner Krupa got into business at 69 - Chippewa Herald

21 May 2012 at 5:56am 

Local Curves owner Krupa got into business at 69
Chippewa Herald
Conventional wisdom says the purpose of a business is to earn a profit for the owner. Call Elly Krupa's wisdom unconventional. She's not losing money as the owner of the Curves franchise in Chippewa Falls; it's really rather holding its own.

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Vote to influence Supreme Court - St. George Daily Spectrum

21 May 2012 at 4:56am 

Vote to influence Supreme Court
St. George Daily Spectrum
The average person, not being a wordsmith like Mr. Webster, thinks of wisdom as undefinable, but they know it when they see it. The observation of a person's acts is the basis of another person's definition of wisdom in someone.



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Islamic humanities discussed at international congress in Tehran - Iran Book ...

21 May 2012 at 3:17am 

Islamic humanities discussed at international congress in Tehran
Iran Book News Agency
?Meaning, nature and features of Islamic humanities?, ?philosophy and methodology of Islamic humanities?, ?ideas, approaches and theories raised in Islamic humanities?, and ?issues and barriers to making Islamic humanities functional? were among the ...

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Olympic weightlifter Holley Mangold is living large and loving it - Los Angel...

18 May 2012 at 6:47pm  Mangold says everything enthusiastically ? much of it with heavy doses of both wit and wisdom. So if this weightlifting thing ... was a triple major in theology, sociology and philosophy and maintained a social schedule that included partying into ...

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Student of truth - gulfnews.com

17 May 2012 at 2:05pm 

gulfnews.com

Student of truth
gulfnews.com
First, and based on his own experiences, Al Kindi understood that a person must undergo a long training and study period to become a philosopher. This was not a requirement for a prophet since only God could bestow divinely inspired wisdom upon someone ...



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Obama falls to Earth as just a politician - CNN

17 May 2012 at 11:10am  (CNN)-- Conventional wisdom has it that President Barack Obama's campaign ... He reviled the Bush tax cuts and the "tired and cynical philosophy," behind them. Then he pragmatically extended them, calling his pirouette a "substantial victory ...

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Philosophy of Noble laureate Amartya Sen - Korea Times

17 May 2012 at 2:39am 

Korea Times

Philosophy of Noble laureate Amartya Sen
Korea Times
As an economist he is par excellence but as a philosopher, I have developed different opinions about his wisdom. Even at the risk of being misunderstood by his long list of friends across the world, including Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh, ...



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Focus on the liberal arts at Campion - Newcastle Herald

15 May 2012 at 12:24pm  The college believes those subjects - history, philosophy, theology, science, and Latin - have a central importance in developing an individual's knowledge and wisdom. A liberal arts degree can lead to many jobs. Campion alumni have pursued a variety of ...

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Maya Angelou Opens Women's Health And Wellness Center, Calls Disparities 'Emb...

15 May 2012 at 11:34am  Wisdom comes with age, and at 84 years old ... "I know that some people think that's being selfish, I think that's being self-full." That philosophy is at the center of her latest effort, a partnership with Novant Health, a not-for-profit ...

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Six Pieces of Wisdom and Advice for College Grads, Inspired By and Borrowed ....

11 May 2012 at 2:41pm 

Six Pieces of Wisdom and Advice for College Grads, Inspired By and Borrowed ...
Huffington Post
(This was paraphrased by Norman, but originally thought to have originated from the philosopher Goethe.) With a surface-level read, this may seem obvious and potentially overused -- as in, work hard and it will all work out for you.



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Knicks Players Promise to ?Figure It Out? - New York Times

10 May 2012 at 9:06pm  GREENBURGH, N.Y. ? In their final defensive stand of the season, Carmelo Anthony and Amar?e Stoudemire planted their feet and swatted away conventional wisdom ? namely ... with a new coach and a new philosophy. ?It?s just a matter ...

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In your experience: What is an effective stress reliever?
I am about to endure a week of stress due to the presence of a very unwelcome house guest. She is a family member and causes no end of trouble. Any tips - greatly appreciated!

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Basic Geotechnics.............Effective stress?
Here is just a basic question the ground next to a river consists of clay and the water table is 1m below the ground level. This means that some of the clay is fully saturated and some is not. However the river then floods so the ground is submerged below 1m of water. So the water table is obviously above the ground level now What happens to the -Total vertical stress - Pore water pressure -Effective vertical stress This is immediate effects not long term

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can anyone please tell me what is wrong with fighting?
some people like to drink, some people like to play sports, some people like to read, others to do gardening. some people find a really good fight is a very effective stress reliever and after all, fight or flight is programmed into our bodies as a survival instinct - which is rarely ignited but still there. so what is wrong with a good fight among willing participants? preferably alcohol fuelled and after some really good shouting

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Really effective stress management techniques?
I very much doubt that I would get much response from here, but it's worth a shot. I have recently been taking an exam that is 4 hours long and I really have problems with stress. The stress has made me lost 20-30% of the marks that I would have otherwise got (I know because I have done quite a few practice tests where I have scored high 80s and 90s). The stress hasn't really been a problem before since it was pretty much under control and had little influence over my marks. This recent exam had been a real test to me and I experienced all sorts of symptoms that I would have otherwise not experienced at all - this coming from a postgraduate who has spent about 20 years in education and undertaken many exams before. The following are the symptoms I managed to recognise during the course of the day: Before: I was trying to look through some of the material to get my brain up to pace for the exam. However, I have found that not only I had failed to concentrate on the way there (I keep drifting off) but I keep getting mind blocks when I do try. In other words, I can't get my mind to look at the stuff. I also feel like I was going to vomit after having breakfast; I suppose it was the butterflies in the stomach, but I never had the feeling before so I wouldn't know. During the exam: I started the exam calmly and clearly, remembering everything that I had learnt as well noting the pitfalls and weaknesses that I have. However, it then slowly and progressively got worse and I got a whole lot more tense as time went on. Throughout the exam, I had to leave for 5 toilet breaks (not that I need them) and 2 occassions where I had to eat chocolate and drank water because I needed to calm down. After: After the test, I have got my results and I experienced the whole rush of symptoms that you would associate with stress: I started sweating my throat got really dry really quickly I started to do irrational things I could barely string a sentence together to make sense I started calling people to find ways of solving my problems, even though I know there was no rush I had a hard time breathing The only thing I could think about was the test I got tense and lost my cool I tried to rectify things by requesting a retake I started to get very edgy even for the smallest of things I almost got on the wrong train home I started to notice things around me less and became less alert I felt hot for no apparent reason I could barely think clearly and get my act together - I started to miss things that are so obvious All of this continued for 3-4 hours after the test. In a way, it's like a father worrying about the birth of his child (not as it is anything as nearly as nerve racking of course) I have tried the following methods before, after and during the test, but to no avail: shifting the focus from your mind to the paper positive mental reinforcement - apparently I am immune to self talk lowering the emphasis on the end result and implications of the exam deep breathing and taking moments to recollect yourself pretended the test was like any other practice test tried to think logically and remember all the pratices and training that I had Take notes and disect the thing apart Monitor my time Try to recognise my feelings, observe that I have the choice of not feeling them and disconnect those feelings Recognise excessive stress under such circumstances will not help you in the exam Shifting my mind to the most effective trance possible (there is this trance that everybody goes into when they are on a role and it brings out the best in them. Unfortunately my stress inhibited me from getting to this, instead it made me delay time). Do note, when I do use self talk, my brain says 'I will get top marks by the end of the exam', by mind on the other hand says, 'who do you think you're kidding with that attitude? Get cracking or you won't get what you need' My mind also has a habit of ignoring any self realisations or advice I give myself. e.g. I realise and know that talking to people about retakes or getting worked up about it doesn't help the situation. However, my mind ignores that and keep letting my emotions flooding in and lead me to doing irrational things. As you can see, the stress is very likely to originate from an unconscious source. I understand that there is something called emotional intelligence and I have read about it. I also have tried the techniques that they recommended - a few of which are mentioned above. I also know that you do need a certain level of stress in order to keep yourself motivated, otherwise not only will you get too cocky but you will do yourself disfavours. However, too much stress can cost you more like I have explained in this post. So my question is for all stress management experts, psychiatrists, psychologists specialising on stress management or someone with brilliant skills in managing their own stress is what I can do to make ...the stress a less of a problem and remain calm most of the time? Do note, I am normally a very calm and chilled out person. e.g. in a few narrowly escaped car accidents, I was still able to remain calm and do the right thing - this wasn't the case. I would also make note that it is likely the stress is caused unconsciously which is a place I have little or no control over. I understand that NLP, meditation and self hypnosis is recommended, but I am very much sceptical of what they say about them.

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Minimum horizontal effective stress at this point?
At a point in cohesionless soil the vertical total stress is 100 kPa and the pore pressure is 40 kPa. The soil has an angle of friction of 30 degrees. That is all the detail I have, how do I work out the horizontal effective stress? Usually I would use k.(y.z + q - u) however I don't have the values to satisfy this.

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