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How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...
Tiny Wisdom: This Moment Is Worth Savoring
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
by Lori Deschene ?The journey is the reward.? ~Chinese Proverb So much of our language about the things we enjoy in life revolves around getting ahead. We wonder where our relationships are going. ...
Releasing Judgment and Allowing Others to Have Their Process
by Tiela Garnett
15 May 2012 at 10:58pm
Editor’s Note: This is a contribution by Tiela Garnett  ?Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest.?  ~Sri Chinmoy We live in ...
Start the Climb: Take One Purposeful Step
by Kirsten Tulsian
15 May 2012 at 12:10am
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Kirsten Tulsian ?Don?t be afraid to go out on a limb. That?s where the fruit is.? ~H. Jackson Browne When I close my eyes and ponder ...
What Does It Mean to Have Enough and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
15 May 2012 at 12:05am
by Lori Deschene This is the 7th post in a 10-part series. If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will be redundant for you. ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Pain of Fighting Our Feelings
by Lori Deschene
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
by Lori Deschene ?Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists.? ~Eckhart Tolle Have you ever exacerbated difficult feelings by responding to them with resistance? Although I made peace with my ...
Creating an Inner Peace That Endures
by Marilyn Briant
13 May 2012 at 9:06pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Marilyn Briant ?Peace of mind is not the absence of conflict from life, but the ability to cope with it.? ~Unknown Like many people, I ...

Empathy

Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: The same way use of self development is found in both motivation and self esteem, and that is to plan using small and achievable goals. If you have an absence of goals, you have an absence of self development. To remind you we are not talking about huge goals but small achievable ones. QUOTE: 'Look for more and more things in every day to appreciate. Then watch your life in the days and weeks ahead blossom before you.' (Eva). As with any goal planning, they needed to be routed using fundamental principles. Doing this ensures that you are creating positive actions. Today's story examines the benefits of being routed with sound principles. FREEDOM TO SOAR One windy spring day, I observed young people having fun using the wind to fly their kites. Multicoloured creations of varying shapes and sizes filled the skies like beautiful birds darting and dancing in the heady atmosphere above the earth. As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check. Instead of blowing away with the wind, they arose against it to achieve great heights. They shook and pulled, but the restraining string and the cumbersome tail kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and trembled against the string, they seemed to say, "Let me go! Let me go! I want to be free!" They soared beautifully even as they fought the imposed restriction of the string. Finally, one of the kites succeeded in breaking loose. "Freedom at last" it seemed to say. "Freedom to fly with the wind." Yet freedom from restraint simply put it at the mercy of an unsympathetic breeze. It fluttered ungracefully to the ground and landed in a tangled mass of weeds and string against a dead bush. "Freedom at last, " freedom to lie powerless in the dirt, to be blown helplessly along the ground, and to lodge lifeless against the first obstruction. How much like kites we sometimes are. The Lord gives us adversity and restrictions, rules to follow from which we can grow and gain strength. Restraint is a necessary counterpart to the winds of opposition. Some of us tug at the rules so hard that we never soar to reach the heights we might have obtained. We keep part of the commandment and (pardon the pun) never rise high enough to get our tails off the ground. Let us each rise to the great heights our Heavenly Father has in store for us, recognizing that some of the restraints that we may chafe under are actually the steadying force that helps us ascend and achieve. (Lessons From Life, Chapter 12 - Free To Soar - Wayne B. Lynn) QUOTE: 'In absence of clearly defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily acts of trivia." (Unknown Author).

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More bad news for Romney - Washington Post

21 May 2012 at 3:45pm  Not only does the poll reveal Romney?s ?empathy? problem ? the sense that he is ?not on people?s side? ? it also reveals that, on the question of who will do a better job solving the unemployment problem, Romney is tied with Obama.

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NAACP regains relevance with support of gay marriage - Chicago Sun-Times

21 May 2012 at 1:50pm  The NAACP?s 64-member board approved a resolution Saturday supporting ?marriage equality? not as a matter of empathy or compassion but as a right guaranteed by the 14th Amendment. In citing this rationale, the 103-year-old organization founded by W.E ...

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Same-sex marriage: Empathy or right? - Jerusalem Post

21 May 2012 at 1:07pm  Many people, feeling the weight of longing among their gay friends, are willing to redefine marriage for the sake of human sympathy. WASHINGTON ? There are two ways to defend gay marriage. Argument A is empathy: One is influenced by gay friends in ...

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Educational Games to Train Middle Schoolers? Attention, Empathy - Newswise

21 May 2012 at 12:39pm  Newswise ? MADISON ? Two years ago, at a meeting on science and education, Richard Davidson challenged video game manufacturers to develop games that emphasize kindness and compassion instead of violence and aggression. With a grant from the Bill ...

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The Hearts and Minds of Animals: A Discussion with Dr. Marc Bekoff - Forbes

21 May 2012 at 12:39pm  Michael Tobias: So few scientists ever speak of animal consciousness, inter-species empathy, deep ethology, the sentience that surrounds us?. Michael Tobias: Where have the myriad of interpretations of Darwin led many researchers down blind ...

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Rare Neurons Linked to Empathy and Self-Awareness Discovered in Monkey Brains...

21 May 2012 at 11:20am  ScienceDaily (May 21, 2012) ? Max Planck scientists have discovered brain cells in monkeys that may be linked to self-awareness and empathy in humans. The anterior insular cortex is a small brain region that plays a crucial role in human self-awareness ...

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MindSnacks CEO: ?Shut up and listen,? the importance of empathy - CNN Money

21 May 2012 at 10:58am  (gigaom.com) -- Do you put yourself in your customers? shoes? Not literally, of course, but are you able to step our of your hectic workday and really imagine what it?s like for someone to use your product? MindSnacks CEO, Jesse Pickard ...

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Babies on their way to primary school - MadeForMums

21 May 2012 at 7:59am  Led by the charity Action for Children (AfC), the project, called Roots of Empathy, has been running in Scotland for two years with great success. Debra Ennis from the charity said the drop in children?s anti-social behaviour has been ?amazing?.

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Same-sex marriage: empathy or human right? - Deseret News

21 May 2012 at 12:21am  There are two ways to defend gay marriage. Argument A is empathy: One is influenced by gay friends in committed relationships yearning for the fulfillment and acceptance that marriage conveys upon heterosexuals. WASHINGTON ? There are two ways ...

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Empathy goes AWOL as cliches rain - The Australian

20 May 2012 at 8:15am  Lyric Theatre, Sydney, May 18. Tickets: $40-$112.90. Bookings: 1300 795 267. AS An Officer and a Gentleman: The Musical came to its close at Friday night's world-premiere performance, the women in front of me exchanged excited glances and started wriggling ...

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I think i have Aspergers and dyslexia but i have never been officially diagnosed and my parents say i'm not.?
I'm 16 and my symptoms for Aspergers include: I don't like any change in routine i lack empathy i don't generally understand jokes like sarcasm i have a formal way of speaking that is supposedly advanced for my age i cannot stand eye contact and will avoid it as much as possible I am quite clumsy I usually talk about a favourite subject and my conversations are usually one sided. I sometimes say what I'm thinking without thinking of the consequences And i am overly interested in unusual activities. My symptoms of dyslexia are: I am labelled lazy, dumb, careless, immature, not trying hard enough or have a behaviour problem I am not behind or bad enough to be helped in school I test well orally but not written I have a very low attention span and am usually labelled as hyper or a day dreamer I have an excellent long term memory for faces, places, experiences I have an awful short term memory I sometimes hear things that are not said I have difficulty putting thoughts into words I have a tendency for being the class clown or trouble maker I have an unusually high tolerance for pain And i have a strong sense of justice, so i have been told, I hope someone can give me an answer after being bothered to read all of this but i really would appreciate it if someone could. Thanks!

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What is wrong with me?
I don't know if this is just a 'phase' of the sort in life, but it's been going on since about October 2010, and I'm really scared. For a start, I have a completely made up character in my head based slightly from myself only a little more talented and slightly more beautiful. Everything that happens in my life happens in her life too. Even Facebook pictures and Tumblr reblogs. It doesn't happen to me; it happens to her. I distance myself from people because of this, because I'm always thinking about how she would react and behave in this sort of situation and it annoys people because I always have this other world dreamy look, or so I've been told. And I have 0 empathy for people. Absolutely none. Things that people approach gently, (rape, incest, child abuse) I could talk about as if I was reviewing My Little Pony. I don't understand them, and I certainly don't agree with them, but I don't have any empathy for the sufferers. Only thing that can truly make me want to kill people is animal cruelty. I don't give a sh!t about people being battered by their parents, but if they were knocking lumps out their pet dog I would have something to say. It's scaring me. I self-harm too, and I don't have a valid reason. I just.. do it. It's just something about me. I don't wish attention at all, and I'm not ashamed or scared of people seeing my scars. I'm still the same person underneath I guess. I don't believe I have narcissistic personality disorder, because my confidence is quite low. I do see myself as being fairly attractive, but I do get shy when talking in front of an audience. I have no feelings towards other people, at all. I could send anon hate on Tumblr and not care about the consequences. I just really don't care and I don't know myself any more. I think I'm asexual as well, I have no sexual desires towards anyone and although I do want to get married and have kids, the idea of sex is just 'okay then' for me. What could possibly be wrong with me? :/

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I'm male, but I dislike the lack of compassion and tolerance most other male's show. Anyone else found this?
I've noticed, in my own life, that there's a lack of tolerance towards difference. That might be the colour of a person's skin, their religion, their sexual orientation or just a general difference in their opinions. I find also, especially with homosexuality, that there's a definite lack of compassion by heterosexual men towards those who are "gay". They have no empathy, they don't attempt to understand things from their point of view, they use hateful words, anger, anything to make the person feel low. Are human's by nature mostly an angry, aggressive barbarian, or are there actually males who have feelings, sensitivities, emotions...a heart? I don't see many. Just too much machismo.

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Define this behaviour please...?
Heres some details: >Age 16. >Male. >Nothing unusual as far as appearance/background goes. Heres a list of my problems: >Sexual/Violent intrusive thoughts constantly. >Lack of empathy/sympathy. >Suicidal thoughts,but somewhere down the line i started to see suicide as beautiful. >Social deprivation,i avoid people as much as possible and spend most of my time alone,out of fear of others,hate of others and habit. >Lack of motivation,sometimes i feel like collapsing and dying,in situations when im not in school or in company of others i will often lay down and not get up. >Paranoia,i think people are always talking behind my back and doing stuff to annoy me. >Constant acting,ive been acting like fictional characters or people i admire most of my life because my dad was never there to look up to,but ive forgotten what i was like before i started this. >Brief bursts of hyper activity in contrast to my usual depressive self. >Self harm,sometimes i cut,sometimes i apply blunt force. Can anyone define whats up with me?I hate being in the dark as to if this is average behaviour or if there is something different about me. I dont want to contain anything i just want to know if there is anything linked with my behaviour.

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I get waves of sadness, like I could cry?
Basically, sometimes different things set of like triggers which make me want to cry. I get like an overwhelming sadness and I always feel like if I wanted to, or thought about it too much, i'd cry. I get a lump in my throat, my eyes start to water and I always end up thinking about the situation/person/thing for ages after. The thing is, they can be everyday things like people who look sad, people eating, shouting, songs, when people are happy and smiling/laughing, little children, old people, even dead animals at the side of the road or just seeing lone animals. It even sometimes stretches to inanimate objects, once for example, I saw an old mattress outside someone's house and I had this again. I used to have to put all my rubbish in one bin, wherever I was so that MY rubbish wasn't away from MY other rubbish, I think it was with the thought that then it wouldn't get lonely on it's own in a bin.... It's so stupid! It's like I kind of have huge empathy for people and read too much into their lives at just face value. The thing is, I don't know how to stop it. I've had it for ages and it's really frustrating and embarrassing if I do cry because I have to lie and say it's nothing. How am I supposed to explain that to friends without sounding crazy? Does anyone else have this? Also, what is it and how can I stop it? It makes me feel really childish and over sensitive :( By the way, i'm 18

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