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Today's Story on LOVE: Whilst LOVE is a beautiful component of life it also can be a hindrance. When a close friend passes away that immediate love is lost and a subsequent depression can set in if we allow it. The whole subject of death is a vast area for discussion, but today we look at one way we can overcome this feeling of depression. The simple answer is to love. We need to both love the memory of the person who has passed away and we need to offer the intensity of love we had to other people. This of course is easy to say but not so easy to do. Having taken the subject to an extreme we must also realise that any form of sadness or depression can be overcome with love. If we can focus onto another, the intensity of which we know we can do, then the sense and mood will change. You cannot remain sad for long when you are offering love. It would be true to say, following those two paragraphs, that to encourage happiness you must also encourage love. Today's story illustrates a family's need to see when love will bring another family out from sadness. THE BIG RED BOX February came and as usual, depression set in. With holidays behind her, she could no longer look forward to the parade of friends and relatives that helped her chase away the loneliness. The gloomy, grey mornings only made it worse. She hated Februarys. She remembered how much she used to cherish Valentine's Day, the way he began a week ahead of time, with a different gift each day, building to a huge bouquet of flowers and some special, intimate present that seemed so well thought-out. He always surprised her somehow. She loved that about him. After Jim passed away, her life force seemed to seep out of her like a huge balloon with a slow leak, a little more each day. Deflated, she struggled to get up, pull herself together and function with any sense of normalcy. "Maybe today will be better, " she tried to convince herself. The box shocked her. She knew she hadn't ordered anything because she couldn't afford it. When she first saw the UPS man at her door half hidden by an enormous cardboard thing, she thought for sure that he had made a mistake. "Sign here, " the man said. "Where would you like me to put this?" Flustered, she pointed to the chair in the hallway, the one where Jim always dropped his coat. She stood in the foyer staring at the box, afraid to touch it. No return address, no indication of where it came from. "Should I open it?" she questioned, uncertain and timid. "Why am I acting so ridiculous?" she fussed at herself. She walked to the kitchen, picked up a knife and returned, cut the tape that held the package together and lifted the flaps. Underneath the white Styrofoam peanuts, she could see a vivid red. "What's that?" she wondered and began to dig. Despite herself, she could feel her adrenalin surge. She let the peanuts fall to the ground. There, inside the box, sat another one, a bright cherry colour, with a pink bow that held a single silk rose. Her heartbeat quickened and her face flushed. She reached in and removed the mystery, set it on the neighbouring table. "Who sent this? What is it?" Suddenly, she chuckled. She saw her own smile in the mirror above the counter and barely recognized it. It had been so long. Her excitement took over. She ripped off the ribbon, kept the rose in one hand and pulled off the top. A purple boa wrapped around matching slippers rested on top of a satiny camisole of the same colour. "My favourite!" she squealed. She nestled the boa around her neck and picked up the card with a huge heart on the front. With much trepidation, she opened it and felt her eyes mist. She cried her way through the words. "Mom, I love you so much. Will you be my Valentine? Jim, Jnr." Who might you reach out to next Valentine's Day who might otherwise be alone? Could you find it within yourself to do it? Thanks for your heart. (Ridgely Goldsborough) QUOTE: "Love is a union with somebody, or something, outside oneself, under the condition of retaining the separateness and integrity of one's self. (Erich Fromm)
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Should I allow an athesist friend to my Baptism tomorrow? (Answers: 18) (Comments: 0)
I am a little troubled as to what to say to a close friend who has disagreed about what I believe in, about the idea that I am really going to put my old life ie: homosexuality etc to death with Christ and that By the sacrament of Baptism, I am washed with water, and regenerated by the spirit, and that
washing is a token to me that I am the child of God. He is a Gay man as I was/am and although I happen to believe what God says I just don't understand why he wants to come to my baptism now. He is my friend but I just feel it conflicts everything I am declaring tomorrow. My Vicar says that he'll leave that for Gods Wisdom unto me. How should I respond, ideally I'd like him to be saved himself but he is adamant that God does not exist and moreover that one can not be celibate. I am 29, he is 51. The other conflict is that he has sinned against me when I was vulnerable, but over time I forgave him and set new boundaries and found our friendship to be a good one. He does a lot of good towards everyone but I think it would be unchristian like to say No to coming to my Baptism. Only because he could possibly see the light himself and if I said No to him coming i could potentially indirectly deny him eternal life. Its seem far fetched but I am taken my faith seriously not just something I felt like doing. I know he may just want to share in something that is everything to me but is that the reason I should say Yes, your very welcome please come?
I can see and even as I wrote that it may anger some. I didn't mean allow or not to but I asked my question because this is all very new to me, Jesus came only a few weeks ago to save from the miserable life I was leading. I mean he is so good and I know he is loved by God, but I see the drunkenness, the gay saunas, the cruising, the lust of porn in him. It maybe that I can show that all this immorality which is what I (me) believe now,has been put to death and that it may encourage him not to at least boast of his sexual desires and want of beer everyday I see him. I have been shown forgiveness real love and hope for the faith I believe has turned my Remember I am only asking this most probably immature question because of the very new life I wish to lead.
I see there is a the sacrament of baptism and the sacrament of the Lords Supper only just two. Baptism to me is that I am washed with water and regenerated by the spirit and that washing is a token to me that I am a child of God. The Lords Supper is a seal and testimony that by the blood of Christ for my sins which was shed on the cross and that I am partaker in that as remembrance with Bread and Wine.It is all part of my salvation. Maybe the Case will be that my friend if he disrespects my faith let alone my morals and my body I will have to consider the friendship. The original question was for you to see how very great the conflict for my love of the Lord and the friendship which can be tiresome. I do not want to be lead into temptation by a friends actions I consider very wrong. It is my friends actions and defiance against my faith that had brought me to that question. As I said he came he showed no sign in affirming it my Baptism he was silent however he was there it felt right
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Boredom has been defined by C. D. Fisher in terms of its central psychological processes: ?an unpleasant, transient affective state in which the individual feels a pervasive lack of interest in and difficulty concentrating on the current activity.?[4] M. R. Leary and others describe boredom as ?an affective experience associated with cognitive attentional processes.?[5] In positive psychology, anxiety is described as a response to a moderate challenge for which the subject has more than enough skill.[3]. These definitions make it clear that boredom arises not from a lack of things to do but from the inability to latch onto any specific activity.
There are three types of boredom, all of which involve problems of engagement of attention. These include times when we are prevented from engaging in something, when we are forced to engage in some unwanted activity, or when we are simply unable, for no apparent reason, to maintain engagement in any activity or spectacle.[6] Boredom proneness is a tendency to experience boredom of all types. This is typically assessed by the Boredom Proneness Scale.[7] Consistent with the definition provided above, recent research has found that boredom proneness is clearly and consistently associated with failures of attention.[8] Boredom and boredom proneness are both theoretically and empirically linked to depression and depressive symptoms.[9][10][11] Nonetheless, boredom proneness has been found to be as strongly correlated with attentional lapses as with depression.[9] Although boredom is often viewed as a trivial and mild irritant, proneness to boredom has been linked to a very diverse range of possible psychological, physical, educational, and social problems.
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Boredom is a condition characterized by perception of one's environment as dull, tedious, and lacking in stimulation. This can result from leisure and a lack of aesthetic interests. Labor, however, and even art may be alienated and passive, or immersed in tedium (see Marx's theory of alienation). There is an inherent anxiety in boredom; people will expend considerable effort to prevent or remedy it, yet in many circumstances, it is accepted as suffering to be endured. Common passive ways to escape boredom are to sleep or to think creative thoughts (daydream). Typical active solutions consist in an intentional activity of some sort, often something new, as familiarity and repetition lead to the tedious.
Boredom also plays a role in existentialist thought. In contexts where one is confined, spatially or otherwise, boredom may be met with various religious activities, not because religion would want to associate itself with tedium, but rather, partly because boredom may be taken as the essential human condition, to which God, wisdom, or morality are the ultimate answers. Boredom is in fact taken in this sense by virtually all existentialist philosophers as well as by Schopenhauer. Heidegger wrote about boredom in two texts available in English, in the 1929/30 semester lecture course The Fundamental Concepts of Metaphysics, and again in the essay What is Metaphysics? published in the same year. In the lecture, Heidegger included about 100 pages on boredom, probably the most extensive philosophical treatment ever of the subject. He focused on waiting at train stations in particular as a major context of boredom.[12] In Kierkegaard's remark in Either/Or, that "patience cannot be depicted" visually, there is a sense that any immediate moment of life may be fundamentally tedious.
Without stimulus or focus, the individual is confronted with nothingness, the meaninglessness of existence, and experiences existential anxiety. Heidegger states this idea nicely: "Profound boredom, drifting here and there in the abysses of our existence like a muffling fog, removes all things and men and oneself along with it into a remarkable indifference. This boredom reveals being as a whole."[13] Arthur Schopenhauer used the existence of boredom in an attempt to prove the vanity of human existence, stating, "...for if life, in the desire for which our essence and existence consists, possessed in itself a positive value and real content, there would be no such thing as boredom: mere existence would fulfil and satisfy us."[14]
Erich Fromm and other similar thinkers of critical theory speak of bourgeois society in terms similar to boredom, and Fromm mentions sex and the automobile as fundamental outlets of postmodern boredom. Above and beyond taste and character, the universal case of boredom consists in any instance of waiting, as Heidegger noted, such as in line, for someone else to arrive or finish a task, or while one is travelling. Boredom, however, may also increase as travel becomes more convenient, as the vehicle may become more like the windowless monad in Leibniz's monadology.[citation needed] The automobile requires fast reflexes, making its operator busy and hence, perhaps for other reasons as well, making t
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Would Jesus have confronted Atheists in the way that some people on Q & A do? (Answers: 13) (Comments: 0)
Jesus was not confrontational but waited for people to approach him and when they did he replied to them with the truth of God, wisdom and understanding.
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christians, is your gods wisdom greater than your own? (Answers: 7) (Comments: 0)
because, to be fair, it wouldn't take much for that to be true would it?
atheists must be wiser than god then.
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