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Today's Story on LOVE: Love can be an area of fear for many people, yet it is the paradise for others. Why would that be? It is the viewing, the seeing and the perception. QUOTE: 'The best way to pay for a lovely moment is to enjoy it.' (Richard David Bach) We all can easily say that in loving someone else we must be careful not to get hurt. But this very resistance to let ourselves go, prohibits any likely advancement and success in love. As we go through life we have an opportunity to gain from our experiences. If we can do this with a certain degree of success we can call this having WISDOM. This principle also applies to love, although agreeably the understanding isn't so simple. But nevertheless we can expect to use wisdom to guide us where necessary. We must learn to enjoy the moments we encounter together. As humans we have the skill to adjust our life, gain knowledge, gain experience and plot a more fulfilling loving relationship. We are the controller! If we cannot find the knowledge we need to move forward in our reasoning, we must trust in the 'allowing'. Allow events to happen and go with the flow. This encourages a freedom and ALLOWS a new experience to develop. Today's excerpt is one that plots the way to paradise. Discover whether this resembles your proposed route. MY HEART SPEAKS Ah, Paradise exists in so very many places. It can be found in a quaint little restaurant, dimly lit by candlelight; on a beach at twilight, with a dinghy's bell heard in the distance; it exists in a park, on a blanket, spread beneath the trees, with gaiety and laughter heard all around. It's a state of mind between two people that occurs when love - sometimes gently and quietly, sometimes with intensity and fervour - enters the threshold of the mind, and swiftly carries them into a warm, revered mood, and a locus* filled with awe. If you've never been to Paradise, it's Magic - the possibilities, limitless. To get there, you must close your eyes and open your heart; let the real you unfold and blossom. Once Paradise is discovered, your heart and soul will flourish and both will dance in jubilation. You'll see life in a way you may never have imagined. It's metaphorically flying... It's Euphoria. Paradise is a way of life between two and is a constant behaviour. It stays steady regardless of what life presents. It takes time and doesn't happen instantaneously. It must be nurtured and protected, by two mature people who realize life not only has great trials, but also offers tremendous joy, especially when shared. Yes, everyone wants the fairy tale - to be loved, and love that one special person they have been seeking their whole life. But very few are willing to share their heart and soul in the manner required and, initially perhaps, they don't realize when they've made that connection. We are a very quick people. We want instant gratification - we want soul connection and instantaneous love. When we don't get it, we, quite simply, forsake those who offer that which we seek because those offerings may not be readily apparent and take time to unearth. Instead, we choose to take the road most travelled, awaiting the next opportunity; we cling to the hope that Paradise might be found when we knock upon the next available door. Very few want to board the slow train to Paradise, because taking the slow train means being patient. It means not only offering our strengths to support the other's weaknesses but also accepting the other's strengths to provide a foundation for our own weaknesses. Taking the slow train means giving freely of ourselves and being open and willingly receptive to the offerings of others. Where does the slow train go? On a metaphorical flight - to Euphoria. Ultimate destination? Paradise. *Locus - a line, plane, or place, every point of which satisfies a given condition and which contains no point that does not satisfy this condition. (Tami C Ryan, October 20, 2002) QUOTE: 'As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world - that is the myth of the 'atomic age' - as in the being able to remake ourselves.' (Mohandas Karamchand Ghandi)
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I don't care if you like or hate John Cena, just answer do you like better?
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Does anyone else think that England don't deserve to win anyhing in football with their attitude? (Answers: 23) (Comments: 0)
The cricket and rugby teams have a good attitude and so do their fans. They win deservedly if they do unlike the council estate football team who go around saying how good their are and tell everyone they are going to win the World Cup (even Brazilians aren't that cocky).
Their fans are lager louts who don't have a clue (not all actually you can't label all England fans as such just like not all Muslims can be blamed for the actions of the bad) and the media rightly portrayed them as thugs who turn to violence when they are losing.
What's the point of inventing a game you can't play?! It's like Edison inventing a light bulb but not able to work out how to work the switch.
How can you say England are going to win the World Cup in 2010? I am not saying they definitely won't we don't know until the final whistle at the final. It's a silly attitude because it puts alot of pressure on an average team. How exactly were England going to win in 2006? Only if Brazil , Argentina, Italy, France, Germany, Spain etc didn't exist. There's no point saying that they got further than some of these, they didn't have the same competition. Argentina played against Germany, Italy played against Germany, a clash of the Titans. Also the media are to blame for all the bulls*it, and Rooney.
Typical English (not British, the Scots are great) attitude to find a scapegoat (always a foreigner- Ronaldo, Sven)- Look closer to home at Rooney the over hyped palyer that the rest of the world didn't notice unlike Ronaldo.
Don't patronise me. I like football, I have supported Italy for 11 years- no glory hunting there, they just happened to win ( not 100% deservedly this year). Also the matter in question is not the violence of other countries but mainly the media and the players attitude towards their chances an then they let their fans down who lash out (I did say not ALL, but some, I also blamed the media mainly)
THANK YOU.
I SUPPORT ENGLAND IN CRICKET I LIKE THEIR TEAM AND ATTITUDE SO DON'T SAY I AM CLUELESS ABOUT SPORT. YOU CAN'T GARNER MY ENTIRE KNOWLEDGE FROM ONE PARAGRAPH BECAUSE YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY IN DISAGREEMENT WHICH IS FINE.
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Does anyone know a good reliable modelling agency for 14 year olds or just over? (Answers: 2) (Comments: 0)
It is my sister not me this question is from.
She would love to know of any modelling agencies that have a good past which is also secure and reliable to their clients.
Please send a link if they have a website and any extra information.
P.S We live in North West England so not too far away if possible for 14 years old or just over.
She has the looks, confidence and good attitude to all the parts of her life.
Thanks xxx
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What does mean when a guy refers to you as a 'good girl'...? (Answers: 4) (Comments: 0)
and an innocent girl. And also mentions 'street whores' and 'bitches'. I dont think this is a very good attitude but I wondered what others think?
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Good looking black women, decent, hard working, good attitude are single? (Answers: 4) (Comments: 0)
Many of my female friends are black, yet single...I don't get it. I think they have everything a man would want.
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