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The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts & Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...

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Today's Story on LOVE OF WISDOM: Wisdom is a strange subject, what may be right for one person isn't always right for another. What is equally important, other than the wisdom being right for you, is that is empowers you. Each day you are getting stories of wisdom, you may understand the wisdom being expressed but it may not suit your lifestyle. This is how we must expect it to be. But if a particular piece of editorial empowers your soul and it shakes your very roots, then we need to be thankful for this encounter. If you were in a situation and the very best possible result, was your happiness, yet as you study the worst possible scenario, this results in your happiness too. This may not happen too often, but what you have done is think positive. When others may strive for greatness and finish up with the opposite of their desire, they can almost certainly expect sadness and depression. Try and see the good in everything. If you have two possible solutions to a problem and the outcome doesn't depend on you, then if you have the ability to make the most of whatever is presented to you, you'll survive happier. Today's story is a tussle with circumstances. But accepting them rather than fight them has proven in this example to be more fulfilling. MAMA'S ADVICE Last Friday I came home from work and as I entered my home, I realised that someone had been in the house. As I walked through the house assessing the damage, I found polished furniture, made and changed beds, vacuum and mopped floors, clean bathrooms, laundered and folded clothes, a sparkling kitchen - in general I had a very clean house. I assure you that this is not how I had left my house that morning. I immediately knew that my daughter had visited and cleaned my house for me. Of course, I was elated but I also felt bad because I knew what a sacrifice it was for her to do this, with three children, a business and a house of her own to manage. As I was looking at all the deeds she had done, I suddenly heard my mama's voice in my ear screaming at me, "Will you ever learn this lesson?" I realized then that I was going around unconsciously moving things and putting them in their 'proper order.' The lesson that my mental ear was hearing was some advice my mama gave me when I got married. "If your husband helps you in the house doing anything, never go behind him and change it. When I was first married, your daddy would help me by making the beds, washing dishes or whatever. I never liked the way he did it, so I always went behind him and did it my way. Before long, he stopped helping me and never offered to help me with anything else. So, even if it doesn't meet your standards or is not done your way, accept it as a gift or he will stop giving." Boy, did that lesson ring true today and so many other times in my life. Why is that we cannot accept help without wanting to customize it to our way of thinking? As long as the job gets done well, does it really matter how it gets done? I reflected back, and realised that I had a tendency to always change or rearrange things to my way of doing or thinking. Could it be that this had kept me from growth in my life? Could it be that I had failed to see a better way, just because it was not my way? Could I have missed blessings because of my narrow-minded view? Were there others in my life that wanted to help but were afraid their efforts would not meet my standards? Had I made others feel inferior and unimportant because I had to change them to my liking? Well, I sat down in my clean house, keeping everything just as my daughter had so painstakingly left it, and thanked God for children that loved me and for His grace in giving me one more chance to pass the test. I hope I have learned to follow Mama's advice this time! (Maxine Wright) QUOTE: "The essence of greatness is the ability to choose personal fulfilment in the circumstances where others choose madness.' (Dr. Wayne W. Dyer., American Psychotherapist, Author, Lecturer).

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How does this little idea for a story sound?
Tonight a little idea formed in my head, and it's been nagging at me. I already have a few paragraphs in my mind-version of Microsoft Word, so... here you go! Please tell me what you think? I watch Zerrin walk down the empty hallway, his hands shoved into his pockets and his eyes glinting under his long dark fringe. There's something off about him. Well, he's always like that. I wonder where he's going? Maybe to the bathroom... I don't know. All I know is that there's something different about that boy. Suddenly, the door I'm leaning against opens, and I fall forward, landing into the arms of the very boy I was thinking about. He helps me get balanced and looks at me with his strange yellow eyes. "Do you wear contacts?" I ask. He shifts his feet nervously and glances around. "Yes. They make my eyes look yellow. They're actually.... Brown. Yeah, they're brown," he says in his quiet voice. Something in his tone sounds suspicious to me. I don't think he's telling the truth, but... Yellow eyes? How could that be natural?

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what should i do...please help?
so i myself, and many women (all ages) find me attractive. I dont want to sound cocky, but normally i am. The only problem is that the right side of my face is messed up, due to a facial trauma when i was younger. My face in opinion, looks messed up sort of deformed on the right side, but that's not the case on the left side, since its very attractive looking. My parents and sisters, think im crazy (and you people probably think so too), but i know i am not. In any event, i sometimes hate when women look at me, because of this, and many women (all ages) typically look at me from the front of my face and left side of my face, are convinced that i am good looking, in which i know i am. However, the messed up right side of my face, makes me feel terrible and horrible, and makes me feel like im not. I have come to the conclusion (its very painful emotionally), when girls look at me from the right side of my face, since in my mind and probably they are probably thinking eeww,ugh,gross. Once i tried, to see certain girls reactions...once two girls in the mall, saw me from the right side and then they started to touch their hair and i could tell they felt attracted to me, because in the store they would look at me and smile. Later, i saw another group of girls, in another part of the mall, and i turned and made them see me from the left side, and i am almost positively sure they were disgusted when they saw the right side of my face (e.g. weird look in their face and kind of like a disgusted look). It hurt me so bad inside, because i truly am not ugly, its just that this facial truaam on the right side has left me scared physically and mentally. In any event, i think this has truly been catching up to me mentally, since sometimes i hear these words. I really cant stand it and its ruining my life emotionally. For this reason, i feel i wont be able to live my life, and move on. I have come to the conclusion, that i dont want to get a girl, get married, or even have children, because i dont want no ones pity or sympathy. My parents tell me, that they dont see nothing wrong, with the right side of my face, but i dont believe them simply because they are my parents. What should i do, to overcome this. Believe me, i try, but sometimes i feel like i no longer can and i am only 21 years old. Please help im sorry..the right side of my face is messed up, not the left side OK...so i think most of you got the wrong idea. Had, i not had this facial trauma on the right side of my face, i would be 100% attractive. Once again, i had girls who have told me i am attractive and given me signs that i am attracted, however that's when they see the front and left side of my face. When girls see me on the right side of my face that's a different story. I want to know, what to do not a lesson, on "looks aren't everything," cause deep inside we all know they are. once again, i dont feel attractive (not to be cocky), i know i am, but its sad, that the other side (the right side) is messed up, thus makes me feel miserable and insecure.

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Why can I not imagine others valuing me or seeing me as important?
Okay so, i'm a girl, nearly 17 and i guess i've always had this problem. I look at mainly other girls and create a clear picture in my mind of who they are and what their personality is like. Them as an individual important person. It seems like they don't have this issue of not thinking they're important, and other guys look at them and interact with them and see them as them, and they have no insecurities of who they are. Yeah, maybe they have insecurities of guys using them or whatnot,or their looks, but they seem to feel so important/sure in themselves. And this characteristic attracts guys. With me, i just can't imagine someone looking in me in that way, and actually valuing me and seeing me as important. I can't imagine how other guys see me and have worried that they think completely something horrible of me. WHY CAN I JUST NOT IMAGINE IT OR FEEL LIKE I AM IMPORTANT?!.. I can't actually get out of this frame of mind, and just don't wanna think like this. It's really hard for me to say this... any help would be appreciated on how to overcome this.. thanks :)

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Struggle to meditate. Thinking too much. ?
I really struggle with meditating. I am constantly thinking about stuff. I don't think I have ever cleared my mind. Even taking long baths , quiet rooms with candles or music or whatever, I still think and reel over things in my mind. Even in bed when going to sleep, my mind races. Are some people just unable to clear their minds and meditate?

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Struggling to clear mind? Meditation?
I really struggle with meditating. I am constantly thinking about stuff. I don't think I have ever cleared my mind. Even taking long baths , quiet rooms with candles or music or whatever, I still think and reel over things in my mind. Even in bed when going to sleep, my mind races. Are some people just unable to clear their minds and meditate?

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