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The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts & Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...
Are We Happier When We Have Purpose and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
17 May 2012 at 10:02pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
Finding Positive Ways to Express Difficult Emotions
by Dina Weldin
16 May 2012 at 3:43pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Dina Weldin ?Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.? ~Benjamin Disraeli Each day, month, or year I want ...

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Today's Story on SOLVING PROBLEMS: For you; what is a problem? Is a problem just another noose around your neck, or is it a blessing in disguise? I guess the appropriate answer is how you perceive it to be. That perception is generally determined by the emotion you're in at that moment. A change in perception can change the whole view of a problem. Today's story illustrates the same principle but calls it an adjustment in attitude. As a few small problems seem to follow on from each other, is this not a sign that you're not fully in control? You're beginning to drift into the wrong emotion and no amount of effort will prevent further calamities. We cannot prevent this shift of emotion, but we can see it for what it is and correct it. When was the last time you looked at something beautiful and said it was an effort? All you are doing is SEEING, you're not involving effort! Instead of falling into despair as nothing is going right, we can use it as a trigger to remind us that our state of mind is weak. So rather than think a noose is being tightened around your neck, you are actually getting a reminder to change. What more of a blessing could you ask for? If you can understand this principle, then I'm sure you'll introduce it. Instead of ducking and diving during the day to avoid all the problems, you be shouting, 'Bring them on!' So it would appear that the total reverse is true, to overcome problems you must experience them. Rather than avoid them you need to get very good at solving them; so without the proper practice you'll never get the skill. Invite them on! In doing this the fear of problems will disappear. What will eventually happen is that you'll be solving 50 problems every day and not realising you had any. We need to perceive problems as healthy and not unhealthy. CHIP DANCING Not too long ago I had "one of those days." I was feeling pressure from a writing deadline. I had company arriving in a couple days and the toilet was clogged. I went to the bank, and the trainee teller processing my deposit had to start re-process my money three times. A detour took me by the supermarket to pick up a few things and the lines I wanted were all sold out; I decided on something from the freezer. By the time I got home, I was frazzled and sweaty and in a hurry to get something on the table for dinner. Deciding on Cream of Mushroom Soup, I grabbed a can opener, cranked open the can, then remembered I had forgotten to buy milk at the store to double to portion. Nix the soup idea. Setting the can aside, I went to plan B, which happened to be leftover baked beans. I grabbed a Tupperware from the fridge, popped the seal, took a look and groaned. My husband isn't a picky eater, but even he won't eat baked beans that look like caterpillars. Really frustrated, now, I decided on a menu that promised to be as foolproof as it is nutrition-free: hot dogs and potato crisps. Retrieving a brand new bag of crisps from the cupboard, I grabbed the cellophane and gave a hearty pull. The bag didn't open. I tried again. Nothing happened. I took a breath, doubled my muscle, and gave the bag a hearty wrestle. With a loud pop, the cellophane suddenly gave way, ripping wide from top to bottom. Crisps flew sky high. I was left holding the bag, and it was empty. It was the final straw. I let out a blood curdling scream. "I can't take it anymore!!!" My husband heard my unorthodox cry for help. Within minutes he was standing at the doorway to the kitchen, where he surveyed the damage: an opened can of soup, melting groceries, mouldy baked beans, and one quivering wife standing ankle deep in potato crisps. My husband did the most helpful thing he could think of at the moment. He took a flying leap, landing flat-footed in the pile of crisps. And then he began to stomp and dance and twirl, grinding those crisps into my linoleum in the process! I stared. I fumed. Pretty soon I was working to stifle a smile. Eventually I had to laugh. And finally I decided to join him. I, too, took a leap onto the crisps. And then I danced. Now I'll be the first to admit that my husband's response wasn't the one I was looking for. But the truth is it was exactly what I needed. I didn't need a cleanup crew as much as I needed an attitude adjustment, and the laughter from that rather funky moment provided just that. Now I have a question for you, and it's simply this: Has anyone ever stomped on your crisps? I know that, in my life, there have been plenty of times when I've gotten myself into frustrating situations and I've cried out for help, all the while hoping someone would show up with a celestial broom and clean up the mess I've made of things. What often happens instead is that you get someone who dances on my crisps, answering my prayer in a completely different manner than I had expected, but in the manner that is best for me after all. Do I trust this brave new concept? Even when answering my prayers in a way that is completely different from my expectations? Even when someone is dancing and stomping instead of sweeping and mopping? Can I embrace what they're offering? Can I let their joy adjust my attitude? Am I going to stand on the sidelines and sulk, or am I willing to learn the steps of the dance? I'll be honest with you: Sometimes I sulk. Sometimes I dance. I'm working on doing more of the latter than the former. QUOTE: "The person interested in success has to learn to view failure as a healthy, inevitable part of the process of getting to the top.' (Dr. Joyce Brothers, Psychologist)

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24 May 2012 at 6:23am  Conventional wisdom is that if you cannot make something better ... allowed for HTML5 on its systems makes those predictions true or not. HTML5 background and philosophy The Web Hypertext Application Technology Working Group (WHATWG) is a group comprised ...

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Relating to the convert - Jerusalem Post

24 May 2012 at 12:25am  Despite the conventional wisdom that Judaism attempts to ?push away? converts ... as long as by the end of the process they have sincerely become enamored with Judaism as a philosophy and lifestyle. In the authoritative words of Shabtai Ben-Meir ...

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Xinhua Insight: Global harmony-themed conference mulls Confucian wisdom - Xin...

22 May 2012 at 2:07am  At the ongoing Second Nishan Forum on World Civilizations in Confucius' birthplace - Qufu city in eastern China's Shandong province, experts on philosophy, theology and religious studies from different cultural backgrounds have gathered to discuss the way ...

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Obama falls to Earth as just a politician - CNN

17 May 2012 at 8:04am  (CNN)-- Conventional wisdom has it that President Barack Obama's campaign ... He reviled the Bush tax cuts and the "tired and cynical philosophy," behind them. Then he pragmatically extended them, calling his pirouette a "substantial victory ...

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Maya Angelou Opens Women's Health And Wellness Center, Calls Disparities 'Emb...

15 May 2012 at 5:54pm  Wisdom comes with age, and at 84 years old ... "I know that some people think that's being selfish, I think that's being self-full." That philosophy is at the center of her latest effort, a partnership with Novant Health, a not-for-profit ...

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Focus on the liberal arts at Campion - Newcastle Herald

15 May 2012 at 12:24pm  The college believes those subjects - history, philosophy, theology, science, and Latin - have a central importance in developing an individual's knowledge and wisdom. A liberal arts degree can lead to many jobs. Campion alumni have pursued a variety of ...

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College of Wooster graduates ready for the road ahead - Daily Record

15 May 2012 at 1:47am  "Your Wooster education has equipped you with the foundation for both wisdom and happiness," Cornwell said ... said Aaron Novick, a philosophy and biology double major from Nashville, Tennessee, also speaking on behalf of graduates, what ...

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Knicks Players Promise to ?Figure It Out? - New York Times

10 May 2012 at 9:06pm  GREENBURGH, N.Y. ? In their final defensive stand of the season, Carmelo Anthony and Amar?e Stoudemire planted their feet and swatted away conventional wisdom ? namely ... with a new coach and a new philosophy. ?It?s just a matter ...

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Jews unwelcome on campus - YNET News

6 May 2012 at 12:56pm  From the outside, Western faculties appear as genteel oases of wisdom and knowledge ... In an article titled ?Judar, ta avstånd,? Stockholm University Professor of Philosophy Torbjörn Tännsjö argued that Jews should distance themselves from ...

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