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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

Mind Games

Today's Story on THE LOVE OF WISDOM: We are soon to pass judgement, it seems we are taught this and subsequently our reactions feature this trait. We make an early judgement invariably to satisfy a selfish desire. We selfishly want to be okay. If we see a tramp for example, we do not want that tramp to dwell long in our thoughts, so we justify that depravity is self inflicted and they ought to pull themselves out of it. That justification allows us to walk away and drop any thoughts about the hurt, anguish and lack of food this tramp is suffering from. We can still walk by following a blessing or donation and forget the tramp. To part with money may infringe on our beliefs, to part with a blessing may infringe on our time. It would seem our emotion at that specific time dictates our reaction to the tramp. Today's story is a beautiful tale of how one young student sought advice on how to overcome a poor working relationship, because an early judgement could have caused her career to falter at the first hurdle. A LESSON FOR A LIFETIME When I arrived at 6 a.m. in the large hospital kitchen, Rose was already checking name tags on the trays against the patient roster. Stainless steel shelves held rows of breakfast trays which we would soon be serving. "Hi, I'm Janet." I tried to sound cheerful, although I already knew Rose's reputation for being impossible to work with. "I'm scheduled to work with you this week." Rose, a middle-aged woman with greying hair, stopped what she was doing and peered over her reading glasses. I could tell from her expression she wasn't pleased to see a student worker. "What do you want me to do? Start the coffee?" Rose sullenly nodded and went back to checking name tags. I filled the 40-cup pot with cold water and began making the coffee when Rose gruffly snapped, "That's not the way to make coffee." She stepped in and took over. "I was just doing it the way our supervisor showed us to do it, " I said in astonishment. "The patients like the coffee better the way I do it, " she replied curtly. Nothing I did pleased her. All morning her eagle eyes missed nothing and her sharp words stung. She literally trailed me around the kitchen. Later, after breakfast had been served and the dishes had been washed, I set up my share of trays for the next meal. Then I busied myself cleaning the sink. Certainly Rose couldn't criticize the way I did that. When I turned around, there stood Rose, rearranging all of the trays I had just set up! Totally exhausted, I trudged the six blocks home from the University of Minnesota Hospital late that June afternoon. As a third year university student working my way through school, I had never before encountered anyone like Rose. Fighting back tears, I wrestled with my dilemma alone in my room. "Lord, what do you want me to do? I can't take much more of Rose." I turned the possibilities over in my mind. Should I see if my supervisor would switch me to work with someone else? Scheduling was fairly flexible. On the other hand, I didn't want to be a quitter. I knew my older co-workers were watching to see if my actions matched my words. The answer to my prayer caught me completely by surprise -- I needed to love Rose. Love her? No way! Tolerate, yes, but loving her was impossible. "Lord, I can't love Rose. You'll have to do it through me." Working with Rose the next morning, I ignored the barbs thrown in my direction and did things Rose's way as much as possible to avoid friction. As I worked, I silently began to surround Rose with a warm blanket of prayers. "Lord, help me love Rose. Lord, bless Rose." Over the next few days an amazing thing began to happen. As I prayed for this irritating woman, my focus shifted from what she was doing to me, and I started seeing Rose as the hurting person she was. The icy tension began to melt away. Throughout the rest of the summer, we had numerous opportunities to work together. Each time she seemed genuinely happy to see me. As I worked with this lonely woman, I listened to her--something no one else had done. I learned that she was burdened by elderly parents who needed her care, her own health problems, and an alcoholic husband she was thinking of leaving. The days slipped by quickly as I finished the last several weeks of my summer job. Leaves were starting to turn yellow and red, and there was a cool, crispness in the air. I soon would be returning as a full-time university student. One day, while I was working alone in one of the hospital kitchens, Rose entered the room. Instead of her blue uniform, she was wearing street clothes. I looked at her in surprise. "Aren't you working today?" "I got me another job and won't be working here no more, " she said as she walked over and gave me a quick hug. "I just came to say good-bye." Then she turned abruptly and walked out the door. Although I never saw Rose again, I still remember her vividly. That summer I learned a lesson I've never forgotten. The world is full of people like Rose--irritating, demanding, unlovable--yet hurting inside. I've found that love is the best way to turn an enemy into a friend. 2002 Janet Seever Janet Seever, the mother of two adult children, lives with her husband in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, where she is a writer for Word Alive magazine. Her articles have previously appeared in a variety publications and Web sites. A short story of hers was published last year in The Essence Collection: Celebrating the Season. "A Lesson for a Lifetime" took place in 1966. QUOTE: "A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver 5 minutes longer.' (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

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MOVIE REVIEW; ?American Animal,? a Matt D?Elia Production

18 May 2012 at 12:00am  “It’s showtime!” says Jimmy, the one-man band of “American Animal.” And for Matt D’Elia , who plays him in this hour and a half of pretentious mind games, it certainly is. There are other players, but it’s all about Jimmy, portrayed with a free-associative, Jim Carrey-like mania. Jimmy is dying from an...

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Mind Games: Sometimes a White Coat Isn't Just a White Coat

3 Apr 2012 at 12:00am  If you wear a white coat that you believe belongs to a doctor, your ability to pay attention increases sharply. But if you wear the same white coat believing it belongs to a painter, you will show no such improvement. So scientists report after studying a phenomenon they call enclothed cognition: the effects of clothing on cognitive processes. It...

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Mind Games

31 Jan 2012 at 5:00pm  Whitney and Alex visit a couples therapist to improve their communication and intimacy Lily is worried that Neal is not on her same ... tags: AlexChris_D'EliaComedycouples_therapyCraigDr._GrantfeminineMind Games
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Brain Game Benefits

8 Jan 2012 at 2:48am  Who knew mind games are a good thing The human brain requires brain training to help improve concentration and counteract the memory loss ... tags: alzheimer's:_Healthamnesiabrainpowerbrain_challenge:_chessbrain_gameschess_gamesconcentrationBrain Game Benefits
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Ways to make my husband Jealous... Or make him wake up?
Okay well ;3 Don't think I'm doing this out of spite... I love Maison. And well, He got a girl pregnant during our Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship... Then once we got married... His friend (Girl) Said to me she saw him dancing with another girl... And It's getting to the point I think he's making me jealous.... And... To be awfully honest... I don't perticually want to play childish mind games... But sometimes... You need to... I've asked him he says ''I feel like we don't spend enough time together since Jasmine was born'' But I have to admit I agree... And I do all effort. I wan't him to take me away and book holidays and restaurants ... It's not fair on me ... I've told him this and he goes ''Oh well then what's the point'' I feel like were worthless in this relationship and there's no winners or losers... ALL my friends say I should divorce him... But when you've been through so much with a person... And also given birth to his first child... It makes you wonder, .... Hercules Vang ~ Thanks... But we don't have regular sex, So I'm not sure of that... I don't think I can divorce him I love him way to much D:

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Why are a lot of women insecure?
Just the fact that they give birth in itself is one of the biggest gifts. Society places them way above men along with children. I mean men can except them for being a woman in terms of physicality (not the mind games a lot play). They can get sex anytime they want. I've been hearing and reading about how women are special, the gatekeepers of life throughout my life and having to respect them so shouldn't a lot of them not be insecure. I mean I would rarely feel insecure if I was uplifted in such a way (not that I'm insecure, I am pretty darn secure and confident with myself). What do you think?

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Why some older men play mind games?
I'm 27 and this guy is 46. I can't help but like him. When we were seeing each other he was so possessive and jealous which I could deal with! He then started playing mind games like he would take forever to text or wait for me. He would also purposely let me down when arranging dates and expect me to get upset? But then if I let him down he hated it or If I ever spoke about other guys he would get completely angry! He also watches me on Facebook the whole time? Why does he play head games?

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Did Mancini Mind Games Work?
Or did he seriously think they had no chance of winning the title

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Are Real Madrid scared of Bayern?
I think they are, there's all this talk and mind games about how they are going to demolish Bayern, it's NOT going to happen. Maybe they will win it 3-2 but Bayern will go through on away goals. Madrid's arrogance will surely be their downfall tomorrow. HALA BAYERN, MIA SAN MIA!!!!

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