Motivation
Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: Practice Makes Perfect! If we were an artist or an athlete, we could not expect to reach the top of our profession without practicing. To introduce good habits we need to practice them. As a consequence we become better with practice. This suggestion is nothing new, but we don't always apply these principles to our own life. We may apply it with reference to education from school, college or our workplace, but rarely will we practice to self develop the aspects of our mind related to the growth and development of wisdom. The very fact that you are reading this would suggest you are aiming to put that very observation and possible frailty correct. However we must not tap ourselves on the back just yet. QUOTE: "Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." (Dr. Martin Luther King Jnr). An athlete would see the results of practice in the next race he ran. An artist would see the benefits in the next sale of his painting. A person who practices wisdom cannot see the results so readily. Yet be assured the value is enormous. The lady in the next story had a belief, a faith and a determination that her perseverance would benefit her personally. If you believe you will benefit from greater wisdom remember this story... DEPEND ON MIRACLES One Sunday morning I heard my minister say if you want result from prayer, pray for thirty days without ceasing. I didn't know why it was thirty days, but I was willing to give it a try. The following became my daily prayer: I am available, Lord, to be used by You each day. Guide me, precious Lord, and lead me in what I say and do. May my words and actions be a witness that You are living in me. To the one that is lonely, may I be a friend. To those with heavy burdens, help me to meet their needs. Lord, I do not want fame or fortune. My prayer is that You will use me to glorify your name. I know I don't have much to offer, but I will give You my all. Guide me to be what You want me to be. Amen On the twenty-first day of this prayer, CPR took on a new meaning for me. I was working an extremely busy twelve-hour night shift in Labour and Delivery. I had just sat down for my first break when a phone call came from my friend working in the Emergency Room. I barely recognized her urgent voice. An eighteen-year-old boy had been brought to the ER for alcohol and drug overdose. The young man was very close to death and they had done all they could do to help him. The father of this boy was requesting a priest or minister and they were having difficulty locating one that could come to the ER quickly. My friend stated, "We know you're a Christian and we need you to come and try to comfort this father. Please help." Reluctantly, I said I would come down. As I waited for the elevator my thoughts became very judgmental and frustration welled up inside me. Then I remembered the prayer I'd been praying. I walked into the ER and approached the father. Taking his hand, I silently led him to the chapel. Before I could even say, "I am not a minister, " this six-foot, two-hundred-twenty-pound man sank into the chair and became a broken hearted child. Through his non-stop sobbing he spoke, "Christian, pray for Raymond. I remember the first time I held my boy. I felt so proud and I just kept saying, 'I have a son.' As the years passed those tiny feet became bigger and walked away from his family's love and entered a strange, hardened, and destructive world. Tonight, too much alcohol and an overdose of drugs are taking his life. It's as though he wants to rebel against everything his family stood for. He knew what he was doing was wrong. Sometimes he seemed so afraid, but he wouldn't stop. Now it is too late. Christian, you have to pray for Raymond." Those large hands trembled in mine and as I looked into his eyes, I mourned with him. Silence fell between us, as I searched for the words that would comfort this crumbling tower of a man. I felt so inadequate. I wanted to scream, "Lord it has only been twenty-one days since I began that prayer! I am not ready for this!" Time was running out and I knew I couldn't stall any longer. I clutched his hands, now wet with tears, and began to pray. The words came easy, much to my surprise. I finished praying with him and went to Raymond's bedside. I took his cold, lifeless hand and once again began to pray. "Lord I am asking for a miracle and I know You can do it." I stayed with them both until Raymond was taken to Intensive Care. I visited Raymond on a daily basis and continued to pray for him. Eight days passed with little improvement. On the ninth day I entered the ICU and a miracle had taken place. Raymond was awake and talking with his father. CPR had taken on a new meaning for me: "Christian Pray for Raymond". As I left the ICU with tears falling down my face, I realized, today is the 30th day of my prayer. Now I not only believe in miracles, I depend on them. (Author Unknown). QUOTE: "A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug." (Patricia Neal).
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Am i being pathetic and petty to feel like this?
Hi there
I've been friends with my university mate since the very beginning of Uni, to be totally honest we became friends because we lived in the same halls and were studying the same thing. However it's now the end of the course and this last year i have become to totally dislike my friend. And the more i think about it, we have nothing in common at all to hold our friendship together so i think this could be it. But EVERYTHING she does drives me up the wall, to the point where i can't even look at her in the face as the way she looks back at me annoys me? So am i just being pathetic? Let me list a few reasons as to what annoys me the most:
1. she is very lazy. I mean very lazy to the point where we have our exams in 10 days time and has only started to revise for them as she says herself she is lazy and has no motivation. She also spends a lot of time in bed and when she's not in bed, she's slumped on the sofa looking like she's had the hardest day ever......when we live together and i know she hasn't. She also will not walk a 9 minute walk to the shopping centre when its a beautiful day, she'll drive instead and make up any excuse for us not to walk (foot hurts, she needs to get back quick, shes too tired.)
2. She is ALWAYS ill - and i mean she is always ill. Now i'm not attacking her as i can understand that some people have weakened immune systems and are more susceptible to some illnesses but it's the fact that she does nothing about it and it affects her life so much. She is constantly saying she thinks she lactose intolerant, gluten intolerant, allergic to chocolate, allergic to nuts, diabetic, wheat intolerant. Each week its a different 'intolerance' and this is all self diagnoses. I have asked her time and time again why she doesnt seek help and go for tests but she always says that her doctors pay no attention to her. This baffles me - why would a doctor not listen and advise? Also she has the worst diet (no fruit and vege, all processed food etc) and that cant help can it? Ive once again told her how essential fruit vege and a balanced diet is for your immune system and general overall health but she makes us excuses like....fruit irritates her stomach and vegetables gives her heart burn. really??
3. last one i promise! She is very very unindependant (is that a word?) She doesn't like to do anything independant, even go to the grocery store or make a phone call to a service. She always has to ask before she does anything (like ask me how she should get to some place when she has a working sat nav.) It's everything though, has to almost get reassurance she is doing the right thing before she does anything, but on things you really don't need to ask questions like....'how should i cross this roundabout?' when she's been driving for 7 years.
I'm really sorry for this rant and if this rant seems really bitchy. Please tell me if you think it's me being the pathetic one that just needs to ignore her but i live with her and everything she does affects me so much. It's making me become very hostile to her and i've read that the more you dislike someone, the more everything they can do will annoy.
Many thanks for your help.
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I actually need your help people plz save me :(?
I have already faced so my trouble which one should nt face in my age like break up, death of one of my boyfrnd, then badly ditched by boyfrnd and many other family troubles. some how i manage myself by consoling but i have noticed that i do a lot of imagination while listening to music the reason behind it is, that i dnt hv family, frnds and worst break up so i do imagination which takes me away frm the situation and after that when i face the reality i face that normally and zeal-fully and i myself encourage to study hard and motivate myself but after some time that motivation goes vanished and i find my self deviated but i knw that i have to work hard, is there any way which keeps me passionate and motivated all the time to study hard.lastly in bad situation i feel anxious and with gud imagination i come out of that so i feel getting relaxed. plz suggest me something which can stick me to the path bcz i hv so many challenges in my life & i hv to prove my self. i hope u people got my point that wht i am exactly asking. plz reply positively i am waiting.
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Would it be bad to do your a levels at 18?
Ok so I'm currently 18 and in the process of failing my AS's. If Im honest this is completely my own fault, lack of motivation/commitment and stupid enough to think A levels require the same effort as GCSE's to which they obviously they require a lot more!
Anyway I'm increasingly frustrated with myself because I no I have the potential to do well yet I feel it is too late (for this year anyway), all my exams were last week and my last one is on Monday and obviously because of my stupidity in the year, the chances of me passing are very slim.
I just don't no what to do, do I carry on with my A2's and just do resists for AS's in January or do I completely resist my AS year with a result of higher grades.
Any advice please?
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Why do I want a baby so bad?
I'm only 18. Right now I think I'm pregnant. Everytime I have sex I convince myself I'm pregnant. I have no job, I live with my mom & I quit school my senior year. It seems very stupid & when I told my mom I thought I was pregnant she went off on me. I know I can't finacially support another person. But its something I want so bad I cant stand it. I have no friends, no family & absolutely no motivation. Im very depressed & its been this way for years now. I feel like being pregnant would motivate me to make something of my life & give my child everything I never had. Like if im pregnant i would be soo happy. But I know its not fair to the child. I dont try to get pregnant. Its just something I want. If im not pregnant i feel ill be devistated. What can I do about this??
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Do I not care about anything? What is it?
I honestly don't have a passion for anything. I have no drive. I feel like I have honestly really never felt anything as far as love for something or someone. There's things that I really enjoy, but very limited. Music being the most. I know how the world works and I know just how shitty people can be and that if you ever find one person in your life that you can call a true friend, you should consider yourself very fortunate. I just don't feel as if i care about anything or anyone. I don't necessarily think its depression, because I've felt happiness. Not saying I couldn't be because I've been happy before or at least thought I have. I see right through people and their intentions are usually for their own benefit. I'm typically a positive person, but if something can fuck up with me, it will. Just for as long as I can remember I haven't cared about anything. How does a positive person have such a negative outlook? How does a positive person not care about anything or anyone? I know life is a bitch but come on. I by no means have it worse than other people but I feel like if I had some kind of motivation towards something or someone, just some kind of drive to something, if I could bring myself to care, things might be better. I'd be better. Is it some kind of mental problem I have? Is it possible to want to care but you just simply can't bring yourself to do it?
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