Mypersonality
Today's Story on LOVE: The extent to which we GIVE to a person is the extent to which we feel them giving love to us. If we are not totally giving, we will not be open enough to receive what they are giving back to us. In this recognition is the very quality of receiving. We get to receive the very gift or feeling that we give. How often is one kiss enough? Imagine a five or six year old when you give them a loving kiss. It is only a moment later that they give you one back. Most adults are aware of the principle 'to give is to receive, ' but many will have not practiced it too often. To practice and receive the benefits will allow you to practice the principle more frequently. Whichever way that you choose to operate your life, there will be areas you have never tried and tested. Let me explain with a story. A story about understanding! If you are not willing to understand a new principle, belief or fundamental piece of knowledge, then you will never experience its delights... THE FISH AND THE TURTLE Once upon a time there was a fish. And just because it was a fish, it had lived all its life in the water and knew nothing whatever about anything else but water. And one day as it swam about in the lake where all its days had been spent, it happened to meet a turtle of its acquaintance who had just come back from a little excursion on the land. "Good day, Mr. Turtle!" said the fish. "I have not seen you for a long time. Where have you been?" "Oh", said the turtle, "I have just been for a trip on dry land." "On dry land!" exclaimed the fish. "What do you mean by on dry land? There is no dry land. I had never seen such a thing. Dry land is nothing." "Well, " said the turtle good-naturedly. "If you want to think so, of course you may; there is no one who can hinder you. But that's where I've been, all the same." "Oh, come, " said the fish. "Try to talk sense. Just tell me now what is this land of yours like? Is it all wet?" "No, it is not wet, " said the turtle. "Is it nice and fresh and cool?" asked the fish. "No, it is not nice and fresh and cool, " the turtle replied. "Is it clear so that light can come through it?" "No, it is not clear. Light cannot come through it." "Is it soft and yielding, so that I can move my fins about in it and push my nose through it?" "No, it is not soft and yielding. You could not swim in it." "Does it move or flow in streams?" "No, it neither moves nor flows in streams." "Does it ever rise up into waves then, with white foams in them?" asked the fish, impatient at this string of No's. "No!" replied the turtle, truthfully. "It never rises up into waves that I have seen." "There now, " exclaimed the fish triumphantly. "Didn't I tell you that this land of yours was just nothing? I have just asked, and you have answered me that it is neither wet nor cool, not clear nor soft and that it does not flow in streams nor rise up into waves. And if it isn't a single one of these things what else is it but nothing? Don't tell me." "Well, well", said the turtle, "If you are determined to think that dry land is nothing, I suppose you must just go on thinking so. But any one who knows what is water and what is land would say you were just a silly fish, for you think that anything you have never known is nothing just because you have never known it." And with that the turtle turned away and, leaving the fish behind in its little pond of water, set out on another excursion over the dry land that was nothing. (Source: "The Buddha and His Teachings" by Maha Thera Narada.) QUOTE: "The more we care for the happiness of others, the greater our own sense of well-being." (His Holliness the Dalai Lama).
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Parton song deemed 'historically significant' - The Murfreesboro Post
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Local biochemist cooks up a tastier new profession - Chestnut Hill Local
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World Wisdom Launches Children's/YA Imprint - Publishers Weekly
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Xinhua Insight: Global harmony-themed conference mulls Confucian wisdom - Xin...
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Mulla Sadra: Accomplished philosopher of the mystics - Tehran Times
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Obama falls to Earth as just a politician - CNN
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Focus on the liberal arts at Campion - Newcastle Herald
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College of Wooster graduates ready for the road ahead - Daily Record
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Jews unwelcome on campus - YNET News
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-Is it okay to go out with a guy you don't find attractive at all but like his personality a lot? (Answers: 3) (Comments: 0)
This guy likes me. He loves mypersonality and I like his too. He finds me physically attractive, but I don't find him physically attractive. He con imagine us kissing, being very intimate etc while I can't. I know looks shouldn't be important. I am not shallow. I don't ask to sate models because I know that I am not one myself. I at least like my bf to be cute average, you know? To me, not to other girls. I liked this one guy when I was younger, he was slightly on the heavy side but he was cute to me because I found his personality so attractive. And he has been there for me when times were tough. I did imagine us having an intimate time before. As for this guy, his personality was great. But I don't find him attractive physically or sexually at all... is it right to go out with him? Will I learn to be physically/sexually attractive to him? I guess if a guy meets my standards I would be open to giving them a chance to see if we connect and stuff. I know the insides matter more on the outside because the outside will fade one day. I am 19 by the way. Thanks
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Is it okay to go out with a guy you don't find attractive at all but like his personality a lot? (Answers: 10) (Comments: 0)
This guy likes me. He loves mypersonality and I like his too. He finds me physically attractive, but I don't find him physically attractive. He con imagine us kissing, being very intimate etc while I can't. I know looks shouldn't be important. I am not shallow. I don't ask to sate models because I know that I am not one myself. I at least like my bf to be cute average, you know? To me, not to other girls. I liked this one guy when I was younger, he was slightly on the heavy side but he was cute to me because I found his personality so attractive. And he has been there for me when times were tough. I did imagine us having an intimate time before. As for this guy, his personality was great. But I don't find him attractive physically or sexually at all... is it right to go out with him? Will I learn to be physically/sexually attractive to him? I guess if a guy meets my standards I would be open to giving them a chance to see if we connect and stuff. I know the insides matter more on the outside because the outside will fade one day. I am 19 by the way. Thanks
No, no, no... some of you misinterpret. I said that when I was YOUNGER I liked a guy who wasn't very attractive to me at first--he was slightly chubby but because I liked his personality so much and that he was there for me I didn't care for flaws--I didn't see any. I began to see him as "cute".
BUT with THIS guy I like his personality. He is sweet and romantic but I am not physically/sexually attracted to him AT ALL. I see him more as a friend I believe. I am wondering if you should be with a person who you couldn't really be intimate with at all! Do you guys understand now? The differences that I seen in these two guys? Sorry if I wasn't clear the first time.
No, no, no... some of you misinterpret. I said that when I was YOUNGER I liked a guy who wasn't very attractive to me at first--he was slightly chubby but because I liked his personality so much and that he was there for me I didn't care for flaws--I didn't see any. I began to see him as "cute".
BUT with THIS guy I like his personality. He is sweet and romantic but I am not physically/sexually attracted to him AT ALL. I see him more as a friend I believe. I am wondering if you should be with a person who you couldn't really be intimate with at all! Do you guys understand now? The differences that I seen in these two guys? Sorry if I wasn't clear the first time.
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