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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

Negative Attitude

Today's Story on SOLVING PROBLEMS: If you have all the academic skills in the world you may never be prepared for some situations that life throws at us. I have witnessed students in my fair city, of who could well embarrass most with their academic skills, but they seem to lack the quality of common sense. Common sense comes from experience of life. Eventually it becomes second nature to respond to difficulties with a confident and understanding attitude. We all know someone with this frailty. Too much knowledge, but not enough common sense, they seem to lack this important understanding. Why? It is because they don't realise that knowledge, although an important key, if not used or applied properly is wasted. Good instinct and intuition are as a result of a good application of common sense. See in this next story, how well a young child knows what to do from instinct. BIG BROTHER'S WATCHIN The little Downs' syndrome girl, a teenager the size of a ten year old, made her way through the McDonald's restaurant to the back and turned toward the restroom. After stopping and looking closely at the word on the door to make absolutely certain she was entering the appropriate one, she walked in. This was a happy evening for her. She and her family had just come from the roller rink with a group of friends from her church, and although trying to stay in an upright position while skating had been more work than fun for her, she knew now that it was certainly well worth the effort: was there, after all, any place in the world offering greater rewards than McDonald's? Her younger but bigger brother sat quietly, looking after her and noticed what she, thankfully, had not. A group of four teenagers, two couples, had taken an interest in the little girl from the moment they spotted her. Their eyes on her like magnets as she walked to the bathroom, they sniggered and whispered behind their hands, one even openly laughing, another pointing. Her brother watched them for a minute or so, then stood slowly, almost wearily, and walked casually across the restaurant to the booth where the merry couples were sitting. The two guys paled slightly, and the girls looked a little alarmed as this total stranger, a year or two their junior, placed his hands boldly on their table, leaning down slightly toward them. He, clearly in their space, and they, most definitely out of their comfort zones, studied each other. The stoic intruder stood up straight after several seconds and motioned with one hand for one of the couples to scoot over. Clearly, he intended to sit right down next to them. Somewhat in shock, and thrown completely off-guard, they made space for him and he lowered himself and sat, hunched slightly forward, his forearms resting on the table. When the silent tension reached ear-splitting proportions, the stranger spoke to this now-serious party of four. Quietly, he informed them, "I was watching you making fun of my sister." All four faces before him were now pale, and the boys stumbled over their words in their rush to defend themselves. "Who? Your sister? Where?" "We weren't making fun of anyone!" "Oh, that was your sister? We weren't making fun of her!" "We would never make fun of someone like that!" But he told them again, "I watched you." They babbled whatever came to their minds, knowing they had been caught red-handed and maybe, just maybe, even realizing that they had been not only rude, but cruel to boot. Maybe they even got a little glimpse of the love this fifth wheel had for his sister, and an inkling of the emotions he was dealing with. The brother appeared not to be listening to their denials as he turned and watched his sister head back to where she had been sitting with the church group. Each of the four looked away, making sure they looked absolutely anywhere besides at that little girl. Somehow, on her return trip from the restroom, not one of them found her the least bit amusing. Her brother watched her sit down with the others, then he slid out of the booth and stood. As he turned to walk away, one of the boys tried for one last line of defence: "Hey, we would not make fun of her. We feel sorry for people like that!" The little girl's defender stopped and turned back to their table, and placing the palms of his hands again on its surface, and leaning in close to his new acquaintances, he said hoarsely, "And I feel sorry for people like YOU." Then he turned and walked away. And, somehow, he suddenly blended right in with the Happy Meal atmosphere as he took his place next to his little sister. Just as if he were your average, basic McDonald's customer. And not a hero at all. (By Alison) Alison's story has appeared in Stories for the Teen's Heart, under the title "Brotherly Love." She also has a story in "Chicken Soup for the Grandparent's Soul." This one is called "Home Run." QUOTE: 'Having ability and intelligence is not the key. It's recognising that ability, confessing it, appreciating it, developing it, and then using it.' (Zig Zagler).

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Converting From A Negative Attitude To Positive Attitude Video

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How to solve my university fear?
Im in my second year of university now.....Everytime I would go to a lecture or start a new subject, I would always have the thought in the back of my mind....... ' Im not going to understand this at all......im going to fail etc etc' Come results day though, i have done brilliantly well in all my exams and assignments. Im in my second semester of year 2 now and performing very well. However i cant seem to shrug the whole negative attitude everytime i go into a lecture. Anybody had this? Any tips how to be more optimistic with my studies?

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Not breastfeeding, sharing a bed with baby and putting your child in nursery!!?
All of these subjects seem to make a lot of women angry. From my experience of being on here for years i have noticed that if anyone posts anything about any of the topics above then general response is not a great one. I thought Yahoo Answers was to help others when they had a problem and/or to give your opinion on a subject. This opinion should really be based on fact when answering a question the topics above. Why do some many women have such a negative attitude towards those who don't breastfeed, who share a bed with baby (in a safe way) and who choose to put their child in nursery and go back to work through choice, those who choose to do controlled crying, dont spend time making organic puree or who are young mums. The main problem with feeling like a failure when you become a new mum is the attitude of other mums. They pretend like they know best when in actual fact only you as a mum knows whats best for baby. Any thoughts? And have you found that choosing to do things your own way and not the 'norm' has led to you not getting a helpful answer on here or even from your midwife or health visitor? (mum to 2 year old & 29w3days pregnant)

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Men only (help with my negative attitude)?
Hi guys, Im in a bit of a pickle and I only want the lads to answer this one cos only they will understand where I am coming from (obviously not all of them) and the ladies will probs just hate on me. My problem is that I have a negative attitude towards women, I dont want to have it, but I do. Everytime I see one, for whatever reason, they act cold and distant without a just reason, and I feel they act like this just because I have a penis, they do not act like this around other women. They tend to look away, not just away a little, but completely 180 their heads away if they even see me looking at them by accident. But this isnt the main issue here, I dont have a GF, every forum I read on how to get one just makes me feel like more of a loser than I already am and it makes women seem as if they are some sort of superior human beings, which makes me feel even more pathetic. I know Im a great guy with loads to offer, but it seems no one cares, Ive tried being positive but it doesnt seem to work. Ive noticed Black guys are very positive in this aspect and have quite alot of success with women, that is probably why women like them, and I hope to get a little of what they have in that respect, but a guy like me feels like crap about this most of the time even when Im at home alone. So guys can you give me some advice as to how to get rid of this negative attitude? because it is almost ruining my life now and I cant keep pretending that I am ok all the time around people. Thanks in advance to all of you that gave positive contributions. @Jaweed, no Im not gay people have a great variety of problems not everyone is Gay for having problems with women.

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would you be so kind and correct my english homework? it's about prejudices...?
Prejudices Having a prejudice means judging someone or having an opinion about them before you actually know anything about them. It is a preconceived opinion that is not based on reason, experience or knowledge. Prejudices are mostly intolerance or dislike for people of a specific group and a negative attitude towards its members. I think that racial, religious, and sexual orientation prejudices are the most common ones. But also gender, economic status and age prejudices are very actual. To me, it seems very immature to me to have an opinion on something or someone you know nothing about. But in fact, everyone has prejudices against something or someone and I believe that it is impossible not to have any. Unfortunately, many people do not always recognize that they are having prejudices. They might get so influenced by families and friends and grow up in a community where these prejudices are normal that they do not see that they judge people without knowing them. There is no doubt that prejudices have a very negative effect on the society. It prevents us from living together in tolerance and peace. But sometimes prejudices may be good as well, because they can protect you from dangerous people or situations. Anyway I think that it is very important to give people a chance to prove that your prejudice is wrong and in my view it is absolutely necessary that we learn to respect each other's differences. There are good and bad people everywhere in the world, but that does not depend on the origin, gender or religion! To come to a conclusion I would say that we all are different and have different beliefs. But we are not entitled to prejudge or even harass people just because they aren't like us. To my mind, prejudice has no place in modern society and everyone should try to avoid them.

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How to help my boyfriend?
Okay so basically the short of it is my boyfriend didn't have the nicest of upbringings. His mam was very emotionally abusive and sometimes physical as well. I can really see the side effects of this lately and i want to know how to help him. He gets so stressed so easily and allows things to effect him all the time. He always thinks people say things to get at him when they don't in the slightest. Also sometimes his temper can get quite scary ... Now he's never hit or direct it at me but he'll punch is hand really hard or punch furniture to release the pain. HE hates doing things wrong as this makes him feel so stupid like he can never laugh at himself. Very negative attitude on his life and MANY achievements which he cant see. I love him so much and know that it really isn't his fault ... Any ideas on how to help?

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