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Here is your Monday STORY on: LOVE: Sometimes you need to experiences the lower depths and emotion without love to no know what love really is and what love really means. The occasional disagreement with your loved ones, the argument with your work colleagues, the anger with your family, are all contributory to dilute the love that is current. It is these lower depths that have little or no love present. The emptiness, the loneliness, the sadness and the fear of no love seems to make us more tolerant when the next discourse starts. Tolerance has value! It allows a few moments to re-evaluate your position. Do you want NO love or do you value your love enough to quieten your objections? There is a part of us that dominates our thoughts when we're under pressure. Often it will guide us along the wrong path. Our tolerance gives us that few moments to reconsider our position. What being tolerant does is allow us to jump between emotions. From the negative emotion of despair we can jump momentarily back into the positive emotion of love. This jump will almost definitely dissipate the negativity. It is almost as if we have a thief within our own head who tries to steal our happiness; and occasionally it will convince us of its truth. Allow this next story illustrate how our ego can prevent positive events happening. THIEF! I remember as a small child when we would have these gatherings with either family or friends. Invariably someone would come up and mention my "cuteness" and ask, "What are you going to be when you grow up?" Well, it started out being a cowboy or some super hero. Later it was fireman, policeman, lawyer... As I grew older my dreams of the future changed. When, at last, I was in college, I was asked, "What will you major in?" Another question designed to find out what I would be when I "grew up." By then I had my heart set on becoming a preacher as my father before me. So I studied and prepared for that life. I reached success in that endeavour. I was preaching nearly full-time for much of my adult life. Physical disability keeps me from plying my trade full-time anymore, but I still am called upon to preach here and there. I am content that I could realize my dream and perhaps have a positive influence on someone's life. My kids are now reaching their dreams and it thrills me to watch them achieve their goals. However, for many, there is a "thief" which goes around stealing our dreams and robbing us of the necessary mental state to attain our goals. Sometimes, the thief will come as a parent, a relative, a friend or a co-worker, but the greatest thief is, so many times, just ourselves. We find ourselves just about reaching the pinnacle, and this "small" voice inside says, "You'll never make it." "You can't possibly do this." "Very few have ever done this successfully." And on and on the "small" voice predicts some kind of failure. Failure, though, is exactly how dreams are realized. It is one of the most important tools we have, because it teaches us invaluable lessons. And, when we learn these lessons well, we are poised and ready for success, which is probably just around the corner. The message I always gave my children was, you are capable of doing anything your heart desires. You are smart enough, good-looking enough, strong enough, and worthy of reaching the stars. The human spirit is indomitable. Remember the saying, "If you can conceive it, and your heart can believe it, you can achieve it." There are no "overnight" successes, but with perseverance, it will come. Imagine yourself in the life you dream of living. Then in your heart, believe it will happen for you, as it has for others. Then work, work, work, work. You get the picture. So, be true to your dream, and don't let anyone steal it from you -- especially yourself. You can do anything your heart desires, so don't give up or give in. Let the dream in you live. (Larry Harp) QUOTE: 'Sometimes adversity is what you need to face in order to become successful.' (Zig Ziglar)
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