Positive Attitudes
Today's Story on LOVE: What are the right actions to take in love? As with any big question you'll need to split the problem into smaller sections and deal with them individually. You may have to split the one big problem into 100 parts if necessary, as the smaller they are the easier they are to resolve. Intuitively we know the action to take, but more often than not we have an inner driving force that steers us away from this. It is this pull that wisdom needs to defeat. To not accept that a pull is there will only lead to further anguish, we need to be aware of its presence to actually see its activity. If you have followed an action that has not been strictly correct, but done so nonetheless, will make you fully appreciate the power this force has. For want of a better explanation we appear to forget. Then on top of that forgetting we have some apparent justification. Love is open and free, and not full of justification for not doing. Today's story illustrates how simple love can be if it is allowed to happen. Forgetting becomes the barrier we use and we are better to operate instinctively. CHAIN OF LOVE "How do you account for your remarkable accomplishment in life?" Queen Victoria of England asked Helen Keller. "How do you explain the fact that even though you were both blind and deaf, you were able to accomplish so much?" Ms. Keller's answer is a tribute to her dedicated teacher. "If it had not been for Anne Sullivan, the name of Helen Keller would have remained unknown." According to speaker Zig Ziglar, "Little Annie" Sullivan, as she was called when she was young, was no stranger to hardship. She was almost sightless herself (due to a childhood fever) and was, at one time, diagnosed as hopelessly "insane" by her by caregivers. She was locked in the basement of a mental institution outside of Boston. On occasion, Little Annie would violently attack anyone who came near. Most of the time she generally ignored everyone in her presence. An elderly nurse believed there was hope, however, and she made it her mission to show love to the child. Every day she visited Little Annie. For the most part, the child did not acknowledge the nurse's presence, but she still continued to visit. The kindly woman left cookies for her and spoke words of love and encouragement. She believed Little Annie could recover, if only she were shown love. Eventually, doctors noticed a change in the girl. Where they once witnessed anger and hostility, they now noted an emerging gentleness and love. They moved her upstairs where she continued to improve. Then the day finally came when this seemingly "hopeless" child was released. Anne Sullivan grew into a young woman with a desire to help others as she, herself, was helped by the kindly nurse. It was she who saw the great potential in Helen Keller. She loved her, disciplined her, played with her, pushed her and worked with her until the flickering candle that was her life became a beacon of light to the world. Anne Sullivan worked wonders in Helen's life; but it was a loving nurse who first believed in Little Annie and lovingly transformed an uncommunicative child into a compassionate teacher. "If it had not been for Anne Sullivan, the name of Helen Keller would have remained unknown." But if it had not been for a kind and dedicated nurse, the name of Anne Sullivan would have remained unknown. And so it goes. Just how far back does the chain of redemption extend? And how for forward will it lead? Those you have sought to reach, whether they be in your family or elsewhere, are part of a chain of love that can extend through the generations. Your influence on their lives, whether or not you see results, is immeasurable. Your legacy of dedicated kindness and caring can transform lost and hopeless lives for years to come. You can never overestimate the power of your love. It is a fire that, once lit, may burn forever. (Unknown Author) QUOTE: 'You better live your best and act your best and think your best today, for today is a sure preparation for tomorrow and all the other tomorrows that follow.' (Harriet Martineau)
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Do teachers have to tell your parents you self harm?
Im 15 in year 10 and I have been feeling really crap for about 4 month my maths teacher saw I was failing, not concetrating and she kept me after class to talk to me and I was telling her what why I felt crap but I didnt tell her about my arms, during on ev of her lessons I rolled my sleeves up as I was hot and she saw and kept me after class and spoke to me about it I told her because I trusted her, she said she had to tell PAD (positive attitude department) and they were aware but they didnt tell my mum are they aloud not to tell your parents, plus I did ask them not to
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Why is hard for my mum to understand?
As I have said in my last question I self harm but, there was one time when I felt like s**t and I couldnt take it any more so I tried to OD but it didnt work and I told my maths teacher and she told PAD (positive attitude department and they told my mum but she didnt understand she thought I was faking and she didnt believe me pad told my mum to take m ev to the doctora because they thought I had depression but she wouldnt take me and now we keep arguing an a I dont like it, it make a me feel worse and ive tried telling he fb but she wont listen
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If I develop a positive attitude,will I find that helpful and lucky people and events come my way?
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Why is there not a disorder something like this DSM-IV-TR manual ...?
"Compulsive Obsession with compensating for problems and lack of self-esteem and self-empowerment by attempting to destroy any third-party indications of diversity or additional functioning with harmful drugs disorder" or something along those lines. (Obviously, the actual term for the disorder could be more succinct and more scientific sounding, so that it projects the right image in the public mind and people would be more likely to be influenced to believe it had validity.)
As the above condition seems to dominate all of the control and put down paradigm, negativity, pessimism, expectations, insights, decisions and perceptions and assessments and view of outcomes in the mental health services, would it not be a useful diagnostic category on at least a par with the other arbitrary ones that are already included?
If it was then more open-minded and highly and expansively functioning and constructive, lift up and and respectful and optimistic and positively and internal control oriented people who get assessed, would arguably have equal insight and decision making capacity to those of the people who are currently making the decisions. So either both sides of the fence could agree to either be or not be undermined and invalidated and detained and tortured and harmed and damaged and die early from drugs.
It would be a fairer and more open and more equal system, rather than the kind of load all the problems in one direction and exercise maximum self-denial and self-deception and ignore the facts and control and act out with detention and drugs kind of approach that is prevalent at the moment.
It's a bit strange at the moment that if we have no problems at all and a very high quality of life and we don't harm anyone or anything but we have expansive functioning and a positive attitude, and won't give up, then we have to be completely constrained and destroyed in order to serve the drugs. And any suggestion that there may be other insights and documentary evidence available is considered lacking insight into mental illness.
If the psychiatric establishment can make up mental illness categories and subjectively assign them and then try to alter people by force without any regard for the consequences, then why can't the much greater number (currently estimated at a quarter) of people who usually have a broader and more diverse life experience do the same thing back?
We could have categories and guidelines and rules and auditing mechanisms added or removed on a democratic basis, instead of just having laws that give all the control to people who want to put other people into categories and fill them with drugs that all available scientific research shows are only associated with negative aggregate outcomes on any meaningful basis at all.
Clearly if people are self-empowered, and open-minded then they don't act in those controlling and damaging ways because they are content in themselves, but this is so opposite to the blind faith in psychiatry that it's these most positive and constructive people that don't fit in with the expectations of a very limited and empty existence and therefor must be most subjected to destruction via drugs.
Do people not like anything positive, opening, respectful, constructive and integrative? Is this what psychiatry is for, to ensure that all perceived divisions and fears are realised and brought into being, and we have the most aggressive and least common denominator left at the end (like in that film that has the words "There can be only one" and they chop each each others heads off because they are invincible otherwise)?
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OK, I can understand how a subset of the population ...?
... might have caved in under pressure to the beliefs that the world is about status and power and control over other people, and that there are strict norms that have to be observed and this that and the other falls outside those expectations, and there may of been domineering parents, or should do better, or have talents or syllabuses to complete ,and theory can't be questioned and no time to contemplate own experience or research anything for self.
And I can see how psychiatrists and people who work in mental health services and even others such as doctors and associated professionals may have fallen into that trap, and even believe that they are helping other people when they forcibly perpetuate the pattern and be attracted to those professions when they've suffered something of it themselves.
But it is more difficult to understand why a significant minority of those that are subjected to the kind of "treatment" that arises from it continue to comply with it, when it's the most glaringly obvious indication that the themes don't and can't work.
Why do even more people not break out and realise that life can be much more positive and peaceful and harmonious and they don't need any kind of oppression at all and can be self-empowered and increasingly holistically healthy and balanced and positive and open-minded instead, in all that they are, without the imposed boundaries and negative beliefs and expectations and outcomes that psychiatry attempts to demand and impose and aggressively enforce?
IMO there is more to life, than living in the miserable, limited, destructive and self-destructive world that psychiatry to wants to tie people up in with the assistance of the horrific damage that arises from psychiatric drugs.
IMO we can be positive and do anything we like, and almost the entire society is moving towards a positive attitude to diversity and wholeness and integration, so the current psychiatric paradigm would seem to be doomed and likely to be short lived. Why wait, when we can do what we like now?
IMO if people in the mental health services have problems, they can sort the out themselves. We are not here as a compensatory sacrifice to keep them comfortably limited and tied up in their negative beliefs and their denial of their own self-empowerment and feelings that they have to cave in and stretch to fit psychiatric orders and made up categories in books. If they don't like positivity and self-empowerment and/or are afraid of things they don't understand, is that not their problem rather than ours?
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