Positive Words
Today's Story on HAPPINESS: Happiness is to know you are happy. Whilst most people will heartedly agree with that comment, it would follow that the complete opposite must also be true. 'Happiness is to know when you are sad!' Admission and acceptance are important factors. If you refuse to do either you'll be always wondering why life is against you. If you recognise you are sad you are halfway to removing the sadness. More often than not this recognition will only arise during a brief spell of trying to knock on the door of happiness. At the moment your emotional state has risen because you've almost created a smile, a sudden acknowledgement of wanting more happiness makes you remember vividly the moments earlier when you were sad; thus providing you with the necessary evidence of sadness. To move from sadness to happiness needs determination and action, both of which need strength of character. Sadness is a drain on your energy, so the first effort needed is to gather whatever energy you can. Sleep as you well know invigorates the soul, but as the remembrance of all that makes you sad floods into mind during the few moments of being awake, that energy is zapped. The key, although you maybe sad, is to introduce a little happiness. This maybe getting dressed in your best bib and tucker and visiting friends or going to a restaurant, your favourite restaurant. Whilst the sadness will still loom heavily, you're gaining strength and a new determination is born. Try and introduce 20 or 30 small events, such as a chocolate drink or a cocktail that reminds you of a holiday. All these will top of the strength of your new conviction. Today's story is an illustration of how we can gain strength from our family, our memories that many would consider inconvenient, but most would love the thought of. For example when your children visit your bed at 5am; which maybe tiresome at the time, but if you work away from home they'll be memories you wish you could share again. Too many of us put values onto the wrong aspects of our life. This, if we did but know, are contributory factors in being sad. If we have trouble at work we bring the sadness home. Why? Simply because we attach too much value! When our real values as such should be with the more important aspects of our life. NOTHING BEATS FAMILY I stepped into my hotel room to a pleasant surprise. Lots of room surrounded an inviting king-size bed, flanked by overstuffed armchairs that rested against sliding glass doors that opened onto a private patio. A small dining table sat next to a kitchenette with a separate sink, refrigerator and coffee machine. "Wow, " I thought to myself. "Nice place." I love hotels - from the Holiday Inn Express to the Ritz-Carlton and everything in between. I love to enter a clean room, hang my clothes and gaze out the window, walk out in the morning knowing that each afternoon when I return, someone else will have made the bed. I like in-room dining and the way they greet you so professionally. "Nice to have you with us again, Mr. Goldsborough." Very cool. The problem is that unless Alison travels with me, I never sleep well in hotels. I miss my family. Even though Linus and Camille, at ages 4 and almost 2, find a way to interrupt even the best night's sleep at home, still, I'd rather be with them. I'll take Linus clamouring over me at five AM or a kick in the chin from Camille over the finest linens and a chocolate on my pillow. When I'm on the road I yearn for my loved ones. I'm deeply troubled by the number of parents who wake up too late with the realization: "My children grew up too fast. In the hustle-bustle of career and corporate rat race, I missed their childhood." What they fail to say but too often inwardly think causes me even more pain: "...and I barely even know them." This applies to couples as well - so in a hurry to get who-knows-where - a destination seldom defined. Relationships turn into co-habitations, romance into convenience. Very disturbing. A hundred years from now, no one will remember the size of your bank account, the car you drove or the square footage of your house. The world might differ greatly however, based on your impact in the life of a small child. Your life will most certainly improve, if you pay attention to your significant other, make the choice to put her or him first. Your example will benefit the rest of us. Our world cries out for role models and heroes of every day living. What could you do today to let your loved ones know how much they mean to you? What will you do tomorrow? And the next day? Think of one specific action that you can take, and take it. Then think of another one and take that, too. Challenge yourself to find new ways to express your appreciation and love on a daily basis. It will pay off ten-fold at home. On those slightly stressful days when the grass looks a little greener and you feel like maybe you need a break, remember this. Room service will never kiss you goodnight! (Ridgely Goldsborough) QUOTE: 'I truly feel that there are as many ways of loving as there are people in the world and as there are days in the life of those people.' (Mary S. Calderone)
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Positive Words: The Glue to Social Interaction - Science Daily (press release)
Positive Words: The Glue to Social Interaction Science Daily (press release) ScienceDaily (May 24, 2012) — Words charged with a positive emotional content are used more frequently, thus enhancing human communication. Scientists at ETH Zurich have studied the use of language, finding that words with a positive emotional content ... |
Art Cummings: Words of Wisdom: 'Always cherish your good health' - Danbury News Times
Art Cummings: Words of Wisdom: 'Always cherish your good health' Danbury News Times When I was a little kid, I remember my mother frequently counseling my siblings and me to appreciate our good health. Mom was a registered nurse, and she took a serious interest in making sure her children took good care of themselves. |
Sixers taking positive attitude into tonight's Game 7 in Boston - Philadelphia Inquirer (blog)
![]() Philadelphia Inquirer (blog) | Sixers taking positive attitude into tonight's Game 7 in Boston Philadelphia Inquirer (blog) His words were echoed by mostly all the players, as they know they aren't expected to win tonight against the veteran Celtics. But the Sixers also weren't even expected to be in this series, let alone on the fringe of winning it. |
Dean Stroud: Christian message can't just focus on positive, popular - La Crosse Tribune
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Black, Gay, HIV-Positive... And Now a College Graduate! - Huffington Post (blog)
Black, Gay, HIV-Positive... And Now a College Graduate! Huffington Post (blog) Life fed me another slice of negativity when I was told that I was HIV-positive. This revelation gave birth my to my words of doubt; at just 18 years old, I felt that I'd been dealt an unfair hand. I was supposed to have had an open world in front of ... |
Creating the enemy through words - Jamaica Observer
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'Ferrari Ki Sawaari' music offers happy ride (IANS Music Review) New York Daily News It has an array of tracks, which can manage to generate a happy and positive response from listeners. The album starts off with 'Maara re', penned by Swanand Kirkire and crooned by Sonu Nigam, Rana Majumdar, Aishwarya Nigam and Ashish. |
Book on courage is a good gift for grads - Worcester Telegram
Book on courage is a good gift for grads Worcester Telegram Their answers fill this wonderful guide on achieving genuine leadership — a clear set of values, intense preparation, lifelong learning, making one's actions match one's words, creating a culture of trust and caring for those one leads. |
Noonan's positive words for abroad fall flat at home - Irish Independent
Noonan's positive words for abroad fall flat at home Irish Independent He may not have been talking it up, but I don't recall him ever using words like "banjaxed", unlike some of his Cabinet colleagues. While he might regret his 'feta cheese' moment and other comments, (though not nearly as much as Richard Bruton will ... |
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Busy Signal addresses fans, promises good music while in custody Examiner.com “To my legal team, KD Knight, Bert Samuels and Roxanne Mars, your positive words and unfailing belief and support in me and my case have made this situation a little easier to bear. Thank you very much.” Finally my friends, my fans and my family, ... |
psychology courswork! help :)?
i am doing psychology courswork and i am stuck on what to write for my intorduction , it is on repression and i am going to hand out a wordsearch with negative and positive words, then a memory test to see which is remembered .. i am also stuck on what to right in my methodology could someone please help :) thanks
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What is a negative word and positive word connotation for the word wet?
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Can someone help me with this, I'm so down......?
I'm 27. My husband and I have been ttc (when we can) as he works away so is home every other week. I came off the pill after 10 years of being on it, after we got married in June, we started trying straight away, I had my period after a couple of weeks and have been on a regular cycle of 25 days from then, never late, early or anything. I've never missed or had a late period either on or off the pill. I have not had any alcohol or caffeine since June, and I've been taking my vitamin and folic acid supplements since then too. Well I should of come on last Sunday but nothing happened, of course I was soooo happy because I was sure I'd conceived, I was even off my food during the week (strange feeling, I couldn't stomach anything), I was extremely bloated (now I know when ttc that people can think things up because they are so desperate for a baby) but I was walking round looking like I was 6 months pregnant, so I was sure I was. Then last night I started bleeding, got some minor stomach cramps and today I'm really heavy, so my periods started! I've cried, my husband doesn't know what to say and is trying very hard. I just need to ask, because he's away it's difficult to ttc and I don't even know when's the best time too as now my cycle is all messed up. Might it just be a one off that this cycle was 31 days long instead of 25, or do you think it will vary from now on? Why would the first 3 months be exactly the same and then this one longer? I certainly haven't been anymore stressed. I now don't know when I ovulate (although I do tend to get the pains in my abdomen) but dont even know if these signal the end or beginning of ovulation? My husband is home on Tuesday, but then goes back to work on Sunday, this will be 10 days into my cycle, if we have sex that day do you think that may work, otherwise I'm afraid we'll miss our chance this month too. How on earth do these people get pregnant after one night stands or flings is beyond me, I would find tight rope walking in a blind fold easier!!! So sorry about rambling on, just need some positive words to keep my chin up today. I perked myself up enough to go out shopping earlier and everyone I saw either had a baby or was pregnant - I'm fed up of feeling like the only person in the world who can't have a baby!
Thank you all so much for your help and support. Good luck to you all. x
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Trying for a Baby........advice?
My husband and i have been together for 7 years, we have 1 daughter who is turning 3 soon, we both have our careers and financially stability. Having another child was out of the question because our first wasn't planned and we are only 21.
My husband really wants another child because he feels our daughter would benefit from a sibling, plus she keeps on at us for a sister or brother.
My question is, is now the right time for us? my husband is 100% sure im 95% i just need some positive words to help me take the next step!.
Thanks x
ps as far as my job is concerned, it will be available for me when i am ready to return and in the mean time we have 2 incomes anyway, 1 from his work and 1 from his share of a buisness. so financially we could cope.
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Wish me luck............?
My husband and i have decided to start ttc in the new year for our 2nd child, we tried for nearly a year with no luck, mainly because our daughter has trouble sleeping, she's 3 soon and now is in a better sleeping pattern which leaves us more time to BD lol!
I really need some positive words because i believe in the power of positivity (heres hoping!) please send me some baby dust!
good luck to everyone who is ttc and Baby dust to you all!!! x
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