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Today's Story on LOVE: Whilst LOVE is a beautiful component of life it also can be a hindrance. When a close friend passes away that immediate love is lost and a subsequent depression can set in if we allow it. The whole subject of death is a vast area for discussion, but today we look at one way we can overcome this feeling of depression. The simple answer is to love. We need to both love the memory of the person who has passed away and we need to offer the intensity of love we had to other people. This of course is easy to say but not so easy to do. Having taken the subject to an extreme we must also realise that any form of sadness or depression can be overcome with love. If we can focus onto another, the intensity of which we know we can do, then the sense and mood will change. You cannot remain sad for long when you are offering love. It would be true to say, following those two paragraphs, that to encourage happiness you must also encourage love. Today's story illustrates a family's need to see when love will bring another family out from sadness. THE BIG RED BOX February came and as usual, depression set in. With holidays behind her, she could no longer look forward to the parade of friends and relatives that helped her chase away the loneliness. The gloomy, grey mornings only made it worse. She hated Februarys. She remembered how much she used to cherish Valentine's Day, the way he began a week ahead of time, with a different gift each day, building to a huge bouquet of flowers and some special, intimate present that seemed so well thought-out. He always surprised her somehow. She loved that about him. After Jim passed away, her life force seemed to seep out of her like a huge balloon with a slow leak, a little more each day. Deflated, she struggled to get up, pull herself together and function with any sense of normalcy. "Maybe today will be better, " she tried to convince herself. The box shocked her. She knew she hadn't ordered anything because she couldn't afford it. When she first saw the UPS man at her door half hidden by an enormous cardboard thing, she thought for sure that he had made a mistake. "Sign here, " the man said. "Where would you like me to put this?" Flustered, she pointed to the chair in the hallway, the one where Jim always dropped his coat. She stood in the foyer staring at the box, afraid to touch it. No return address, no indication of where it came from. "Should I open it?" she questioned, uncertain and timid. "Why am I acting so ridiculous?" she fussed at herself. She walked to the kitchen, picked up a knife and returned, cut the tape that held the package together and lifted the flaps. Underneath the white Styrofoam peanuts, she could see a vivid red. "What's that?" she wondered and began to dig. Despite herself, she could feel her adrenalin surge. She let the peanuts fall to the ground. There, inside the box, sat another one, a bright cherry colour, with a pink bow that held a single silk rose. Her heartbeat quickened and her face flushed. She reached in and removed the mystery, set it on the neighbouring table. "Who sent this? What is it?" Suddenly, she chuckled. She saw her own smile in the mirror above the counter and barely recognized it. It had been so long. Her excitement took over. She ripped off the ribbon, kept the rose in one hand and pulled off the top. A purple boa wrapped around matching slippers rested on top of a satiny camisole of the same colour. "My favourite!" she squealed. She nestled the boa around her neck and picked up the card with a huge heart on the front. With much trepidation, she opened it and felt her eyes mist. She cried her way through the words. "Mom, I love you so much. Will you be my Valentine? Jim, Jnr." Who might you reach out to next Valentine's Day who might otherwise be alone? Could you find it within yourself to do it? Thanks for your heart. (Ridgely Goldsborough) QUOTE: "Love is a union with somebody, or something, outside oneself, under the condition of retaining the separateness and integrity of one's self. (Erich Fromm)
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What do you think of a man's right to divorce his wife by verbal annoucement in Islamic countries?
A man can divorce his wife by saying "I divorce thee" three times to her face and he can do this for any reason including that she is no longer physically desireable. Many men continously upgrade their wives (a man is only allowed 4 wives at any one time). The divorce process which is called the "Triple Talaq" is easy and quick. Of course, he gets custody of the children, the house and other assets and is no longer financially responsible for her. Women must go through a court process to divorce and divorce is only granted in exceptional circumstances (cheating or abusive husbands are not a grounds for divorce).
The Triple Talaq is recognized in all Arab states, as well as Turkey, Iran, Iraq, Pakistan, India, Malayasia and Indonesia.
Man marries 58 times in 50 years
Saleh Al-Saieri, a Saudi businessman has married 58 women and then divorced 54 of them. Every time the wives hear that Al-Saieri has found a new prospect, they begin wondering who is next to go.
http://archive.arabnews.com/?page=1§ion=0&article=41504&d=19&m=3&y=2004
Judge rules that Talaq given in a drunken state is valid
http://www.thehindu.com/news/national/article3259035.ece
Triple Talaq and Islamic Divorce
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_(Islamic)
http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/Quran/005-triple-talaq.htm
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I'm frightened of a paperless future?
Okay, I can understand a few people (most likely futurists) will condemn my opinion here, but do please hear me out.
I'm 16 years old and have a love for books, drawing and writing (by hand). There something about all of these things that are sort of authentic, and keep me happy. I tend to keep away from computers and technology. I don't know why, but I feel depressed and bored when around it, even now as I'm typing this, I feel strangely upset lol.
But recently, I've learnt that all of this non-electronic stuff will become obsolete in the future, due to excessive advances in technology. While I think it's great that trees will be saved, I cannot help but feel upset that all of my recreational activities will done on a screen, for the rest of my life. Surely there's another way of keeping books and drawing material physical, and save trees, like another form of paper? Why must everything be virtual?
It's also depressing me, because I want to be a librarian when I'm older, but the prospect of that happening seems rather small, now that libraries are dying out, in favour of this paperless future.
So, why must technology advance in this way? Why are people deliberately going for a future that's efficient, but not necessarily happy or rewarding? Is it possible to save the physical book, or is it hopeless now? Is anyone else feeling like this?
Please answer, thanks.
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FASHION CAREER CHOICE: I'M AFRAID MY FAMILY WILL HATE/DESPISE ME!?!?
Well, basically, in a nutshell - I am an 18 year old male and for about two and a half years now have developed this deep interest and passion for designing.... Both Women & Men's Fashion.
There's just something extremely attractive and interesting to me about the fashion art-form and process. I absolutely adore women's clothing as much as men's clothing but, obviously, women's clothing/fashion is much more fundamental and regarded in the industry.
However, I have never mentioned this to any of my Uncles, Mom or Dad, instead I've only told my God-Mother. (who was a professional tailorer)
I really want to go and start looking for courses in which I can start developing my sewing & pattern-making skills etc... but I am so frightened of the back-lash I may get. My family aren't monsters and I love them to pieces, but they are so traditionalist and have always looked at fashion & arts as a second-rate prospect and not "true" career paths. I am afraid that, being a man, going into fashion will cause some controversy amongst my family in terms of my sexuality, especially with Mom & Dad and they will just look down on me and despise me.
Also, my Dad and Uncles do have, to an extent, STRONG-HOMOPHOBIC tendencies and can be VERY predjudice - as do most people from that generation. My Mom doesn't as much but she doesn't necessarily agree with the LGBT's either and so I for fact that if I tell them I'm into fashion, they'll automatically assume that their son is Gay...
(I have questioned my sexuality before and have thought of boys obviously, but I only seem "sexually-attracted and comfortable" with women therefore I must be hetero-sexual... I am a bit confused)
It really is a passion of mine (fashion) and I want to start pursuing but I'm just really scared. I want to go and look for part-time courses that will teach me the basics of designing/creating etc... but I feel like I am going to have to keep it a secret from my family for quite a while.
What should I do? I really need help here because I am quite confused and feel like I have to hold back on my desires and passions just to suit people!!!
By the way, should I start LOOKING for courses that will help me???
Thank You!!!!!!!
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Will having a deviantart account hinder my chances of becoming a published author?
Right, I have a dream of becoming a published author one day (as do a lot of us).
Recently, I got my own deviantart account which features some of my work (like imagery featuring the characters that I want to feature in my book, as well as other completely unrelated stories that involve these characters).
I know the process involved in trying to get published; writing a manuscript of the novel, finding an agent and finding a publisher (which will most likely have me getting rejected a lot of times).
But I fear, if I do manage to find an agent and a publisher for my novel, that they will search up on the internet for information relating to my novel, and find my deviant art account.
This has occurred to me, because not many published authors are on deviantart. I don't know whether or not having the account will have an impact on my publishing prospects.
If it does have a negative impact, I can easily close the account. Obviously, I need to know if it's an issue or not first.
So... Is it?
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Becoming an artist...?
In year 11 I loved art, but saw a career in art as unrealistic... it just seemed like I wouldn't make any money from it. So I chose A levels in unrelated subjects (such as biology, maths, etc). I'm coming up to finishing my AS year (and I've got As in my subjects so far), so I've got one year left, but I've suddenly had this huge change of heart and don't think I can do these subject any more as art is such a love of mine. It's probably possible to change subject next year (which would probably involve staying an extra year at college), but I'm just so unsure about my situation. I've got to think about job prospects as well. If it was just down to doing the course/job, I would choose art any day, but I think it may be an unrealistic career choise. Please give me your oppinions...
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