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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

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Today's Story on CHILDREN: Children are often like a sponge, they soak up everything. Along with all the good they soak up the bad. We must be aware then when this happens, because children can be afraid of words; they hear a word and attach a meaning that often isn't true. If we can see a disturbance within the mind of a child we must ask and see how we can dissipate the anguish. To simply listen is all that is needed, as what becomes anguish for children can be resolved in minutes by an adult. In fact the whole situation can be amusing as we reflect back a few weeks later. Having said that, how often do you hear that we adults still have an element of child like attitude within us? The instruction above therefore applies to us also. We can be disturbed by events that leave a scar forever. Yet had we shared the problem or discussed it with an authority the disturbance wouldn't have even left a scratch. We may build our own fortress, but we cannot tend to our own wounds easily. If we have a dilemma we need to share it or have the fullness of the wound treated by a person of experience. It is said that an answer is often seen within the question. We all have unanswered questions about our life and the path it takes. If you have a question that needs an answer but don't have an authority to ask, try asking it to the universe. Prepare your question and say it out aloud. You may have to repeat the question over several weeks. The answer will arrive sooner than you think. It maybe weeks, it maybe months, it depends on the size of the question. In effect what you're actually doing is asking your subconscious mind. You're skilled at answering questions, but the ones close to your heart require a separateness that is difficult to create. By asking to the universe, the question is asked and then let go of. It may not work for everyone, or should I say, we may not spot the answer when it arrives. Today's story illustrates two aspects we need to remember. Firstly how a child can be affected with words. Secondly is that when we are focused little can knock us of our pedestal. As we approach a new year and resolutions are made, try to remember to make the resolution palatable. Shift the perspective so it fits within our realm. Rather than say, 'I must diet, ' say, 'I must enjoy a new food programme.' Words affect a psychic ability to meet our goals. Treat these words delicately and they will treat you the same. Invest in resolutions that include words you can relate to. A CHEERLEADER FOR LIFE I practiced hard all summer, honing my skills. I did high kicks, straight moves and even smiled through a cartwheel. I had reached a goal I'd dreamed of since I was in grammar school. I'd been chosen to be a Cheerleader! Me! I could not ask for more. My prayer was answered. I knew it was going to be a great year for this 9th grader as I planned on cheering my heart out for my Junior High school. Cheerleader tryouts had been pretty difficult. Even though I had the moves down and the rhythm of a jitterbug dancer, I doubted that I would be picked. Surely, they would choose the gorgeous girls rather than the girl next door type. Popularity had to be a prerequisite, I concluded. Although I was an honour student and well liked, I was not part of the "in crowd." On the day the selections were made, I waited anxiously as the Cheer Director counted the votes. When my name was among the seven announced winners, I couldn't believe my ears! Some of my friends tried out as well, but there was no jealousy when I won the position. My attitude was one of gratefulness and humility. I could cheer and be the best friend ever, all at the same time. The only draw back came in the form of a small, athletic woman more than twice my age. Her name was Miss Allen. She was the cheerleading coach as well as a P.E. teacher. Although she was a pretty thing, she had a pointed nose that would turn ruby red when she was angry. Her eyes could pierce through you like a dagger on a mission. One would never want to cross her, I decided. Nothing I did that summer even won me a "good job Ginger, " from Miss Allen. A smile from her was a rarity. Up 'till then, my teachers had given me praise for my efforts in keeping a straight A-average, so I treated cheerleading just like I did my studies. I hoped that, in time, I would win the coach's approval. Cheer Camp was enlightening and I readily bonded with the other girls. Shopping for our uniforms, taking photos and practicing daily left little time for other activities. The school year began with a heavy schedule. At the end of each day I was pooped, yet no one, including Miss Allen, knew what was going on in my home. Diagnosed with congestive heart failure, my Mom had been sick since I was thirteen. I hated to see her suffer. My Dad was a good father but he was an alcoholic. I rarely brought anyone home for fear of embarrassment. It felt like I was living a double life between home and school. I worried daily about my mother's condition while I pretended all was fine with me. Mom actually made it to one of our football games that year to watch me cheer. She never came again, though, as her health steadily declined. Soon, the insecurity of my world began to show in my cheerleading. I mastered the routines, but Miss Allen began picking on me anyway. "Ginger, what kind of cheer leader can you be if you stick your tongue out to the side like that?" I guess I hadn't noticed. She intimidated me with those critical daggers. Her pointed nose flaring open and closed, like a bull preparing to charge its target, definitely clued me in on her disappointment. Nevertheless, the more I tried to tame my tongue, the more insecure I became. Miss Allen never asked me about my family or anything, for that matter. She could not see that I was struggling to find my bearings at a very tumultuous time in my life. She apparently had no clue as to how her words might affect a young girl's self esteem. Miss Allen was unaware that my Mom was dying. My performance was all that mattered to her. The cheer squad was serious business to her, for sure. One day at practice, I was shot with another one of her lethal looks. On this occasion, Miss Allen stopped our routine, and singled me out in front of the girls. Pointing her finger at me, she yelled, "You're still doing that thing with your tongue, Ginger! You will never be successful in cheerleading or anything else for that matter, with your tongue sticking out of the side of your mouth. It looks stupid!" At that point, you could hear a blade of grass grow on that field, and I felt my face turning as red as her nose. Tears welled up in my eyes, but I gulped back my emotion and agreed quickly with a "Yes Ma'am." She was right, I am sure it looked stupid, but now I felt stupid. From that moment on, I concentrated harder on keeping my tongue in my mouth as I led the cheers for the crowd. Eventually the annoying habit disappeared, but the hurtful comments lingered. In between graduating from junior high and starting high school, I lost some of the confidence I had gained. I decided not to try out for any extra curricular activities. In the 10th grade, I got the dreaded call at school that there was a family emergency. School may have been hard, but life was harder. I lost my Mom that April. She was my best friend. Three years later my Dad passed away. After that, I made some wrong choices in life, which nearly caused me to live out Miss Allen's words. Fortunately for me, God intervened, and became the anchor I hung onto for dear life. I knew that one day he would make sense of it all, and he did. Four years after graduation, I married my high school sweetheart, and was blessed with three wonderful children who I have cheered on each day of their lives. At a trophy ceremony for my son's Little League team, I was awarded "Best Team Mom and Cheerleader ever." My husband and my kids smiled proudly at me. We joked about the award, but my success in life was evident in the faces of my family and the friends that filled my world with "good cheer." The love and approval, that was mutually invested, came back to me day after day. It sure didn't take a performance to see that. I could not have asked for more. Through the years, I've thought about those hurtful words spoken to me at the impressionable age of fourteen, and how desperately I wanted Miss Allen's approval. An utterance by one in authority can often make a difference in how we view ourselves. It's a shame that she didn't really know how "to cheer." Now, there's probably a lesson to be learned here, but in this case I'd say it was more for the teacher than for the student. As for me, I can assure you that I have successfully become - with tongue in cheek - a "Cheerleader for Life!" (Ginger Boda, Copyright 2003) QUOTE: 'Always bear in mind, that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other thing.' (Abraham Lincoln)

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Mount Shasta a mixture of mysticism and majesty - The Register-Guard

27 May 2012 at 2:27pm 

Mount Shasta a mixture of mysticism and majesty
The Register-Guard
Armed with powerful crystals, they hire guides to show them portals to secret vortexes, while aficionados of Native American philosophy venture out on vision quests. The dormant volcanic peak, which presides over most of Northern California and a good ...

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Tribute to a departed comrade - The Daily Star

27 May 2012 at 11:41am  But his integrity, non-partisan standing, along with his wisdom and commonsense made him an iconic figure ... professional skills could be deployed in the service of his economic philosophy of building up a strong public sector. During his tenure the ...

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An app for wisdom - Boston Globe

26 May 2012 at 5:49pm 

An app for wisdom
Boston Globe
Created by real philosophers for real people, PhiloQuote provides instant wisdom tailored to your particular situation and delivered noiselessly to your smart phone. Looking for the perfect sentiment to express at your least favorite nephew's ...



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Factors leading to ruin - Sunday Observer

26 May 2012 at 1:44pm  The Buddha was an embodiment of virtue. He conquered the world with compassion, kindness and wisdom. Buddhism is not only a religion, but a great philosophy ? a way of life. Buddhist philosophy helps mould character. What is Buddhist philosophy?

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International students Visit Somaiya Vidyavihar for Launch of Book and Sessio...

25 May 2012 at 10:23pm 

ChakraNews.com

International students Visit Somaiya Vidyavihar for Launch of Book and Session ...
ChakraNews.com
... As Jainism encourages spiritual development through cultivation of one's own personal wisdom and reliance on self control through vows, Somaiya has taken a step further as a part of their teaching and educating students through Jain philosophy.



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Veteran counsels wisdom of listening - River Forest Leaves

24 May 2012 at 12:01pm 

Veteran counsels wisdom of listening
River Forest Leaves
For the Oak Park resident and Triton College philosophy teacher, the past is prologue. ?The past is very relevant to the present,? he said. ?I want to keep the continuity with the past alive.? As he grows older, Griffin said life is getting better for ...

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Local biochemist cooks up a tastier new profession - Chestnut Hill Local

24 May 2012 at 11:09am  It?s a philosophy of cooking that incorporates the awareness ... Grandma?s cooking seems to be just as much about grandma?s love and wisdom as it is about what?s for dinner. Traditional Ayurvedic cooking maintains that certain foods ...

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Canucks GM's philosophy of change doesn't include Vigneault - Canada.com

23 May 2012 at 8:18pm 

Canucks GM's philosophy of change doesn't include Vigneault
Canada.com
And, over the last month, that philosophy was put to the test. While the precise details haven't been fully disclosed, the accepted wisdom has it that Canucks ownership wasn't as enthusiastic about retaining the head coach as the general manager.

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CPLC to Honor Two Remarkable Hispanic Families for their Contributions to Sou...

22 May 2012 at 5:09pm  ?CPLC?s guiding philosophy is that by creating economic opportunities ... empowering them to overcome challenges. The Wisdom Family is comprised of successful entrepreneurs with nearly 70 years in the private sector who have deep roots ...

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Xinhua Insight: Global harmony-themed conference mulls Confucian wisdom - Xin...

22 May 2012 at 2:07am  At the ongoing Second Nishan Forum on World Civilizations in Confucius' birthplace - Qufu city in eastern China's Shandong province, experts on philosophy, theology and religious studies from different cultural backgrounds have gathered to discuss the way ...

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Philip K. Dick, Sci-Fi Philosopher, Part 1 - New York Times (blog)

20 May 2012 at 3:00pm 

New York Times (blog)

Philip K. Dick, Sci-Fi Philosopher, Part 1
New York Times (blog)
20, 1974, Dick was hit with the force of an extraordinary revelation after a visit to the dentist for an impacted wisdom tooth for which he had received a dose of sodium pentothal. A young woman delivered a bottle of Darvon tablets to his apartment in ...

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Obama falls to Earth as just a politician - CNN

16 May 2012 at 8:08pm  (CNN)-- Conventional wisdom has it that President Barack Obama's campaign ... He reviled the Bush tax cuts and the "tired and cynical philosophy," behind them. Then he pragmatically extended them, calling his pirouette a "substantial victory ...

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Maya Angelou Opens Women's Health And Wellness Center, Calls Disparities 'Emb...

15 May 2012 at 5:39pm  Wisdom comes with age, and at 84 years old ... "I know that some people think that's being selfish, I think that's being self-full." That philosophy is at the center of her latest effort, a partnership with Novant Health, a not-for-profit ...

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Focus on the liberal arts at Campion - Newcastle Herald

15 May 2012 at 12:24pm  The college believes those subjects - history, philosophy, theology, science, and Latin - have a central importance in developing an individual's knowledge and wisdom. A liberal arts degree can lead to many jobs. Campion alumni have pursued a variety of ...

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College of Wooster graduates ready for the road ahead - Daily Record

15 May 2012 at 1:47am  "Your Wooster education has equipped you with the foundation for both wisdom and happiness," Cornwell said ... said Aaron Novick, a philosophy and biology double major from Nashville, Tennessee, also speaking on behalf of graduates, what ...

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