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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

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Today's Story on THE LOVE OF WISDOM: Various studies have shown that if you enjoy your work and work for joy, it has a positive effect on your health and aging. That of course is following a medical survey, but within WISDOM it is sensible to be aware that too much stress for example can cause health problems. So here we have the CAUSE and EFFECT theory. If we have a career that gives us ill-health we should seriously consider the value of that position. In other words source out the reason for the stress and try and either eliminate it or come to terms with the problem and try and reduce its impact upon your health. Today's illustration is an excerpt from a book. It explains that following a serious incident with health we can remain positive or we can allow its implications to destroy what life we have left. 'A stitch in time saves nine, ' a proverb we can use to help us with our health. If we ever have warning signals that our job is too stressful. We need to reduce the stress or eliminate it. This is WISE. In Wisdom we need to see the beauty of this statement and act. We can see the CAUSE and need to act to save our health from deteriorating. This is not some new glaring piece of news you are hearing, but a timely reminder that WISDOM travels throughout every aspect of our life. If we know what is WISE then we ought to actively apply it. Adversity can strike us all, but the fight against it must be positive. POSITIVE ACTION DURING REHABILITATION Duni Chand was a business executive in his early fifties who suffered a sudden heart attack. His cardiac evaluation and long-term prognosis were excellent. Despite the assurance that he had only a minor, uncomplicated attack and was making an excellent recovery, he simply couldn't get over the mental shock of "having a heart attack." Neither psychotherapy nor physiotherapy helped him during his rehabilitation period. He was somehow convinced that he could no longer lead an active, productive life, and he gave up all efforts in this direction. He started suffering from depression and felt he was growing old rather fast. As a matter of fact, he soon began looking much older than his age, and asked for early retirement from his job. Then there was Shyman Aunder, about the same age and holding a comparable position, who suffered a rather similar heart attack. Although his long-term prognosis wasn't quite as good as Duni Chand's, he returned to work after two months and said, "I like my job better than ever before. It may seem surprising but it is true that I work fewer hours now but achieve more. I'm no longer rushing for the deadline; somehow I just seem to plan things better. I'm more productive, and I enjoy life. I find time to relax and look around; I have time to stand and stare. I never knew the world was so beautiful." Speaking of his wife, Shyman Sunder said appreciatively, "Earlier I never took time to see her lips enrich as she smiled, or her eyes brighten as we talked." (An extract from "Your Life Is In Your Hands." By Krishan Chopra M.D.) QUOTE: "We need quite time to examine our lives openly and honestly... Spending quiet time alone gives your mind an opportunity to renew itSelf and create order." (Susan L. Taylor, U.S. Journalist).

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LETTER FROM WASHINGTON; Obama's Counterterrorism Self-Correction

28 May 2012 at 12:00am  Critics of President George W. Bush’s anti-terrorism efforts, mainly Democrats and some Republicans, rejoiced when Barack Obama was elected. They were convinced that what they considered the trampling of constitutional rights and civil liberties after the attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, would end. As a candidate, Mr. Obama, a former professor of...

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Karlos Dansby expects Dolphins to win AFC - NFL

27 May 2012 at 6:51pm  There's no shortage of optimism and self-belief around the Miami Dolphins these days. Earlier this month, Reggie Bush, he of the lone 1,000-yard campaign in six tries, declared his goal to be the league's rushing champion in 2011. Now it's ...

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The Temper Trap score No.1 album - heraldsun.com.au

27 May 2012 at 6:51pm  MELBOURNE band The Temper Trap have arrived home to a nice surprise - the No.1 album in Australia. Their self-titled album entered the ARIA charts in pole position yesterday after a fierce chart battle all week. Adele's album 21 had been dropped to $10 the ...

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Unconfirmed reports of another self-immolation in Tibet - Examiner

27 May 2012 at 1:36pm  There has been a great deal of efforts by Buddhists to encourage Beijing to respect the human rights of the Tibetans. And yet reports of continued repression in Tibet have continued daily. Now horrible images of the series of tragic self ...

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Researchers create contacts on semiconductor chip by self-assembly process - ...

27 May 2012 at 12:46pm  Semiconductor Research Corporation (SRC) and Stanford University have successfully created contact hole patterns for a wide variety of practical logic and memory devices using a next-generation directed self-assembly (DSA) process. Applying a relatively ...

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Iran will celebrate gasoline self-sufficiency in July: NIORDC - Presstv

27 May 2012 at 8:57am  The Iranian deputy oil minister says despite Western sanctions, Iran has become self-sufficient in gasoline production and foreign demand for the country?s Iranian oil products is on the rise. Alireza Zeighami said Sunday that the country would celebrate ...

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Michael Self Captures First K&N West Win At Brainerd - The Spokesman-Review

27 May 2012 at 8:50am  Moving to second place with 10 laps left in the Brainerd 125, Utah's Michael Self chased down leader Dylan Kwasniewski to take the lead on the white flag lap. From there it was clear sailing for the 21-year old's first career victory on the ...

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Man takes pry bar to self-check till - Seattle Post Intelligencer

27 May 2012 at 5:43am  Well, let's look at it this way: At least, this guy wasn't buying a blowtorch. But that age-old adage that patience is a virtue somehow slipped the mind of a man shopping at The Home Depot on Utah Avenue South in Seattle on Thursday. Around 9 p.m., the man ...

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?The Outsourced Self,? by Arlie Russell Hochschild

27 May 2012 at 12:00am  There’s one mistake I worry readers will make about this book, so let me correct it right away: “The Outsourced Self” is not a work of journalism. Though it isn’t exactly not one, either. I guess you’d call it popular sociology, but I think of it more as an act of mourning. Arlie Russell Hochschild’s look at how...

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EDITORIAL; Albany, Ever Self-Absorbed

27 May 2012 at 12:00am  Pandering to the antitax crowd, Republicans controlling the New York State Senate will not give a number of county governments the authority to raise their local sales taxes — even a small percentage on the dollar. What makes that especially destructive is that many of these communities are struggling financially after an ill-conceived...

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How Self-Talk Can Help Accomplish Goals - Huffington Post

25 May 2012 at 5:56pm  A new study sheds light on the best way to "self talk" your way through a task. The study was conducted in fifth- and sixth-grade students who were learning how to throw darts in a PE class. Self-talking aloud can have benefits, too. A recent ...

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The Outsourced Self,? by Arlie Russell Hochschild - New York Times

25 May 2012 at 8:09am  There?s one mistake I worry readers will make about this book, so let me correct it right away: ?The Outsourced Self? is not a work of journalism. Though it isn?t exactly not one, either. I guess you?d call it popular sociology, but I ...

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More Mental Health Care Urged for Kids Who Self-Harm - Philadelphia Daily News

24 May 2012 at 5:57pm  FRIDAY, May 25 (HealthDay News) -- Doctors have long known that some kids suffering severe emotional turmoil find relief in physical pain -- cutting or burning or sticking themselves with pins to achieve a form of release. But researchers now ...

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what's your favourite sit com?
Mine has to be Seinfeld. I never get bored of watching them. its just so well written and there are so many great and funny characters. I love the way the four main characters are so self absorbed and selfish, but very likeable at the same time. If I had to chose a British one it would be Peep Show. Whats yours?

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Should I tell her that I like her?
Sorry this is so long but I desperately need some advice. I'm in my 30's and I've never had a girlfriend, I've never even come close. Women just aren't interested in me at all and will (literally once) run a mile if they suspect I like them. I'm pretty ugly and have no self confidence and if I'm honest I'm pretty boring. I don't really have any friends either, no one seems to like me and I just find holding a conversation virtually impossible sometimes. Ok, that's the background. Last year I met a girl who I seem to have fallen for quite badly. She's been kinder and more friendly towards me than anyone I can ever remember, especially girls. No one ever texts me unless they absolutely have to, because of work etc but she has sent me quite a few texts just asking how I am, letting me know how she is etc. Then about a month ago she asked me if I would like to go to the cinema with her to see a certain romantic film that was out recently. I couldn't ever believe it was a date, I just thought she was being friendly and needed someone to go to the cinema with. I took her and it didn't go as badly as I throughout it would but nothing really happened, I just took her home and she thanked me for taking her. I didn't hear from her for a couple of weeks and then she sent me another text just asking how things were and letting me know what she was up to etc, since then we have been texting each other quite a lot and talked on facebook a few times. I know this probably happens all the time to most people but the point is no one has EVER, in my entire life behaved like this with me. I really, really like her but another problem is she is quite a bit younger than me. I just don't know what to do. I don't know if she is just being friendly. I feel like I would just be making a fool of myself if I was to say anything but I'm so fond of her, I don't want to miss a chance even if it might be a very small chance. Sorry, this is probably a question that a kid at high school would ask but but I would be VERY grateful of any advice! Thanks.

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Other people who self harm?
Hi, I would love to be able to know and talk to other people who self harm. I don't really know why, I just think it would be nice to be able to speak with someone who might understand better. Send me an email or post here if you self harm. Thanks, much appreciated.

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My boyfriend has become so aggressive but how do I handle this?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for less than 3 years now and overall I was very happy for 2 of those years particulary in the beginning when I found him charming, romantic and spontaneous. However the last 4-5 months there's been a complete change of pattern in his personality and demeanor in addition to having little self control he has been far more aggressive and violent towards me. He always says things like "I love you and couldn't live without you" or "I'd never hurt you" (bruisies on my arm says different) but its getting to a stage where I feel eventually my life could be in danger. I have no idea what would happen if I ever left him but believe me that really would be treading on egg shell's and so I know one way or the other im trapped with little way out.

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Why are Jews very unhelpful when it come to unravelling the myths surrounding them?
I think there are a catalogue of instances where I have presented them with the myth for review, and from start, they engaged in label-throwing and personal attacks, for even attempting to get an answer. They would rather abuse me than enter into a rational discussion about it. They refuse, and the refusal is made in form of an attack of me, this one person. They are uncooperative. There is another way things can be and it is not a bad way to be, I actually think it is better. They place the burden on the asker. If I ask: "Do Jews control western media?", they will say: - throw labels 1. antisemite 2. propagandist 3. racist 4. pseudo-intellectual 5. idiot 6. nazi - imposition the asker 4. where's your evidence 5. you are attacking the Jews 6. this is not a legitimate inquiry (there is probably more, I have to search the depths and describe, not always easy) - - - There are very rare keen honest answerers. Most are: 1. biased toward supposing the worst of the asker and the best of themselves. You are free to contradict me, I welcome it. I hope your position is well thought out. ============= My Request if you would: Required stuff: ? Explain your statements intelligibly. ? Make solid arguments for a position on the matter. Extra stuff: ? Referenced material ? Original thought Forbidden stuff: ? Ad-hominem, name-calling, insults ? unexplained statements or un-argued positions, inexplicitness, ambiguity __________ About the asker to allay prejudgement: ? Naturalism, I hold. ? I am against religions that deny the order of nature, that deny they have no evidence, that seek to impose an authoritarian state religion, that denys its members the opportunity to understand the naturalistic world-wiew beforehand to their initiation(they must convince knowledgeable naturalists to be regarded as safe and valid), and more than I have thought of here. ? Logic, Empiricism and Science are important tools in understanding the world. ? Morality is about developing better patterns of human organisation, a good system of behaviour will end up benefiting everyone. ? I have found 'Pragma-Dialectics' similar to my own style of debate, it is a method of resolving differences of opinion. I am still learning that developed system, but I am familiar with it by analogy with my similar style of debate. ? I prefer intelligent expression over spite. ? My views are open to revision and refinement, and any view I do hold is functional. I am open to correction, persuasion, andpossibilityy; I may seem fixed but I am really fluid in my ideas and actions, motives and intentions. I value logic, beauty and openness. _______________ If anything said is inaccurate, show me and I will self-correct for it. Actually, they were biased from the start. I did not cause their bias, it was there since when I started asking, so it can't be me. I did not create the behaviour of others as it was there from the start of my encounters with these Jews. I am lambasted simply for contradicting the Jewish. Or framing my question in a manner contradictory of the Jewish. But most of those question I have made the plea that I seek rational discussion. When I ask my question, I seek in-depth answers. More than yes or no, but a look into it, examining the suggestion and finding and pointing out the illogic of it. I seek dispassionate answers, that are not involved, but can answer in cool cold reason, and in a lukewarm kindness toward myself. And that do not become or are not biased against me or my question, nor that are biased on me for my history of similar questions. What I say "Jews very unhelpful", I mean in the same manner as "Humans are black" "Humans are white", it say "there is a case of humans who are black, but being black is not essential to being human". "there is a case of Jews who are very unhelpful, but being very unhelpful is not essential to being Jewish". In general I mean: "there is a case of A who are X, but being X is not essential to being A". ? ? A : A ? X ? ¬ ? A : A ? X

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