Sexual Attitudes
Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: Why do we choose to accept a first impression? It seems that we have grown up with accepting them and therefore it becomes a habitual act. This accepting a habitual act alone proves how many other aspects of our life can be clouded by judgements made from assumptions. Is accepting a first impression actually the first impression? More often than not it is the second impression. The first impression is a gut feeling that we discard incorrectly. I was out shopping with the family over the weekend and walked passed a tramp. The children stared intently at the tramp and after we had passed they gave me a barrage of questions. At eight and six years old my two girls were wondering was he a nice man or a naughty stranger, and why was he sitting on the floor? I explained the reasons for his need to sit and beg, but also continued with that we all would assume that he is a horrible person, because of his unshaven and unwashed appearance. Then I followed with, the way he appears on the outside doesn't mean that it is the way he is on the inside. He maybe able to laugh about his misgivings and have learnt some very valuable lessons in life, his soul maybe enriched with love and affection. We are better to reserve judgement than fill in the gaps and complete our first impression without all the facts. Yet, nevertheless as with our life, we seem to be making decisions with fewer facts than should be advised. To improve our self development we need introduce a goodness that prevents the proverbial first impression being accepted. Making assumptions means that you are taking risks, and taking risks causes heartache and problems. When you first see a tramp you show immediate empathy and sorrow; and only then do you put up your guard and make the recognizable 'first impression'. The more you assume the more you are making decisions without the full facts. This leads to inaccuracies in your life; you'll be continually going over ground you've already trodden. Spot the two first impressions accepted in this story. Watch also for the gathering of people who act as though they were sheep and follow everyone else's lead and make the same assumptions. HIS NAME IS JOHN His name is John. He has wild hair, wears a T-shirt with holes in it, jeans and no shoes. This was literally his wardrobe for his entire four years of college. He is brilliant. Kinda esoteric and very, very bright. He became a Christian while attending college. Across the street from the campus is a well-dressed, very conservative church. They want to develop a ministry to the students, but are not sure how to go about it. One day John decides to go there. He walks in with no shoes, jeans, his T-shirt, and wild hair. The service has already started and so John starts down the aisle looking for a seat. The church is completely packed and he can't find a seat. By now people are looking a bit uncomfortable, but no one says anything. John gets closer and closer and closer to the pulpit and when he realizes there are no seats, he just squats down right on the carpet. (Although perfectly acceptable behaviour at a college fellowship, trust me, this had never happened in this church before!) By now the people are really uptight, and the tension in the air is thick. About this time, the minister realizes that from way at the back of the church, a deacon is slowly making his way toward John. Now the deacon is in his eighties, has silver-grey hair, a three-piece suit, and a pocket watch. A godly man, very elegant, very dignified, very courtly. He walks with a cane and as he starts walking toward this boy, everyone is saying to themselves, "You can't blame him for what he's going to do. How can you expect a man of his age and of his background to understand some college kid on the floor?" It takes a long time for the man to reach the boy. The church is utterly silent except for the clicking of the man's cane. All eyes are focused on him. You can't even hear anyone breathing. The people are thinking, "The minister can't even preach the sermon until the deacon does what he has to do." And now they see this elderly man drop his cane on the floor. With great difficulty he lowers himself and sits down next to John and sits with him so he won't be alone. Everyone chokes up with emotion. When the minister gains control he says, "What I'm about to preach, you will never remember. What you have just seen, you will never forget." (Unknown Author) QUOTE: "Goodness is the only investment that never fails.' (Henry David Thoreau, Walden: Highest Laws, 1854)
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whatever sort of dickhead reports sum1 for advertising free porn on this site?
your either a nun or a geek,i say lets get back to the sexual attitude lucky buggers experienced in the 60's & 70's,love,peace,love,happiness followed by more love.
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hi i would like to have information about somnophilia or "sleeping beuty syndrome" and what the best treatment
how can i approach a long lasting normal sexual attitude and forget completely about it
thanks alot all friends and doctors psycologists are welcomed to answer
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does he really love me?
i happen to fall in love with a guy who doesn't like talking about his feellings, and he equally has an unsignificant lifestyle which is very weird.
i do love him, but i have tried to make him talk much, even at times, during love making, he will quickly get up during love making and go to use the bathroom, then he will then smile and say; iam tired...
i had to break up, to know if he truely loves me. he called after the first day but i didnt pick up, so he didnt call again.
after 2 days i didnt call him, so he called to know how i was doing, but would spend two minuites of silence and will hang up. he has a communication issue.
the only thing he says to me each time am upset with his sexual attitude, is ; ''relax, or be patient you will enjoy me more later''.
so guys what do you really think?
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sexual attitude in glorious Hinduism?
this tradition is rife in hindu culture
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/from_our_own_correspondent/2071612.stm
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Did you know that Scotsmen have been practising safe sex for years?
Edinburgh, Scotland - The Royal Society for Independent Studies on Sexual Attitudes commended Scottish men for safe sex practices. In fact, these practices have set the standard for most of Europe and the rest of the world today.
Exhaustive studies by the Society have proven what was suspected for many years. The Scots not only get laid more often, but have safe sexual practices well in hand!
For over 175 years Scottish men have diligently practiced safe sex, even before it was an accepted practice by the modern world. Others are now trying to duplicate this amazing record, but as modern Londoners have discovered, often with lackluster success.
Dr. Angus Williamson, Director of Medicine at Our Lady of Comfort Hospital, was asked how Scottish men who have sex so much, have made sexual safety such an important part of their daily lives.
His reply was to the point, "Well laddie, safe sex is a relatively easy process for us Scotsmen to follow...We simply spray paint a red 'X' on the back of the sheep that kick!"
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