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Today's Story on HAPPINESS: Happiness is having what you really want, or is it? Or is it allowing OTHERS to have what they really want? To WANT happiness yourself is fine, but it is how you achieve it or plan it that really counts. It is not the destination that is important but the journey. If you were to plan to travel to your promised land to find happiness, you are instantly limiting yourself to no further happiness until you arrive. It is as EQUALLY important to allow happiness to arise upon the journey. Notice the word ALLOW and how integral that word is to those first few paragraphs. Don't restrict or confine; allow! Today's story is an amusing look, but nonetheless loaded with ALLOWING, which brings happiness. Please enjoy... WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him, but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So the monarch offered him freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer; if, after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question: What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and, to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end. He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everybody: the princess, the prostitutes, the priests, the wise men and the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch--only she would know the answer. The price would be high; the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged. The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no alternative but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer his question, but he'd have to accept her price first: The old witch wanted to marry Gawain, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified: She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises... etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature. He refused to force his friend to marry her and have to endure such a burden. Gawain, upon learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He told him that nothing was too big a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table. Hence, their wedding was proclaimed, and the witch answered Arthur's question thus: What a woman really wants is to be in charge of her own life. Everyone instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was. The neighbouring monarch granted Arthur total freedom. What a wedding Gawain and the witch had! Arthur was torn between relief and anguish. Gawain was proper as always, gentle and courteous. The old witch put her worst manners on display, and generally made everyone very uncomfortable. The honeymoon hour approached. Gawain, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But what a sight awaited him! The most beautiful woman he'd ever seen lay before him! The astounded Gawain asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she'd appeared as a witch, she would henceforth be her horrible, deformed self half the time, and the other half, she would be her beautiful maiden self. Which would he want her to be during the day, and which during the night? What a cruel question! Gawain pondered his predicament. During the day she would be a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his home, an old witch? Or would he prefer having by day a hideous witch, but by night a beautiful woman with whom to enjoy many intimate moments? What would you do? What Gawain chose follows below, but don't read until you've made your own choice. * * * * * * * * Noble Gawain replied . . . . . that he would let her choose for herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life. Is there a moral here? . . . . . . . . . Certainly: Treat your woman (guys) with total respect (and love) and like the queen she is or should be, and watch how beautiful she will be. Or, (on the other hand): If your woman doesn't get her own way, . . . . things are going to get ugly! : ) (Unknown Author) QUOTE: "I believe the greater handicap, the greater the triumph.' (John H. Johnson)
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Do some ghost hunting at the library - Salisbury Post
19 May 2012 at 9:59pm Blum follows the work of the Harvard professor of psychiatry William James who founded the American Society for Psychical Research, and Henry Sidgwick of the British Society for Psychical Research. The book tells the story of these early pioneers of ESP ...Read more...
Skelton mum to climb Everest for Save the Children
12 May 2012 at 7:43am BRAVE Teesside former Royal Navy rating Lisa Sidgwick is going to climb Everest to raise cash for underprivileged children.Read more...
Skelton mum to climb Everest for Save the Children - GazetteLive
12 May 2012 at 7:06am BRAVE Teesside former Royal Navy rating Lisa Sidgwick is going to climb Everest to raise cash for underprivileged children. Lisa, 34, of Kentmere Avenue, Skelton, who works at Redcars Halifax, is married to Damian and has two children Oliver, 12 ...Read more...
LISTINGS: Outdoors, Enviroment May 17 - May 24 - Sheffield Telegraph
10 May 2012 at 3:40am 10am - 30pm (contact Sarah Sidgwick 2634335, email s.sidgwick@wildsheffield.com). Moss Valley Survey, Moss Valley Wildlife Group will be surveying Stoneley Wood, Charnock Wood and Carter Hall area for the Sheffield BioBlitz. Bring packed meals, strong ...Read more...
William`s daughter????
If Lord Longford had lived, I know I never would have been bereft of a book publishing contract. I know because he told me so.
Longford`s firm was my own publisher, Sidgwick and Jackson; and the then-editor was a rather fussy but very decent man named William Armstrong.
Because I was writing about popular culture, Wiliam would occasionally inject some remark about his own kids- one of whom was named Dido. (She was a singer-songwriter)
It is only recently that I have discovered that she is THE Dido.
I am at a loss for words, which is unusual for me.
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How did Sidgwick contribute to Utilitarianism ?
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Whats your view on Automatic writing?
The idea that corresponding through automatic writing-texts produced without conscious awareness in which a spiritual personality seems to be guiding the pen.
This form of spiritualism had it's beginnings in the late nineteenth century with people such as the philosopher Henry Sidgwick much of who's ethical work is still read today, Alfred Russel Wallace- co founder of Natural Selection ( along with Charles Darwin) and Aurthur Balfour President of Psychical Research and British Priminister (1902-1905) all being members.
do you have any views on automatic writing?
Sorry Butch I can't thumb up or down. I'm a lowly level one
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