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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

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Today's Story on HAPPINESS: Here is your Friday story, How do we find happiness? We don't need to search beyond where we are right now. All we need to do is think of a happy memory. We all know that works. So if we can be sad one moment and just by thinking of a happy memory we can become happy; what are we actually doing? We're allowing a change of view, a change of perspective to take place. It would seem to follow that to change from sad to happy at any moment all we need to practice is changing perspective. Is a cup half empty or half full? A thought I may suggest that I use in my own little world when everything seems to be going against me. How can this help? Well it reminds me that half empty is pessimistic and half full is optimistic. If a car bumps into the rear of my car in a traffic jam, by the time I've go out of the car to investigate the damage I've forgiven the other driver. The hindrance of swapping telephone numbers and contacting the insurance companies could well be a blessing in disguise. I just need to change perspective to find the blessing. Today's story illustrates how we can survive without having to change our address to find happiness. BE HAPPY I watched and listened to an irate customer berate a young fast food restaurant clerk. Young minimum wage workers appear to be fair game. The angry man grew red in the face as he yelled at the young man. What was the young man's sin that deserved this wrath? He gave the man onion rings instead of french fries. I advised the man to calm down, that he was making a scene. He told me to mind my own blankety-blank business. He quieted down only after he saw the looks being given to him by the other customers. I don't understand such behaviour. If you are having a bad day, that's a shame. Get over it. You are not going to make your day better by ruining the day of another. Misery needs to stop loving company. Our days are not going to be perfect. Find a bless in the mess. A neighbour once told me, "You might as well be happy, no one cares if you ain't." He is the same guy who was fond of saying, "If ignorance is bliss, how come there aren't more happy people?" The older I get the more I value time and good folks. The more I want my loved ones to be happy. The more I want to spend my time being happy. We owe it to our loved ones, our friends and our co-workers to be happy. Warren Zevon said it well in one of his songs, "Enjoy every sandwich." My mother was one who enjoyed every sandwich. She found joy in the joy of others. She believed in a principle called "Santosa." I doubt that she'd even heard of Santosa, but she lived it. Santosa means finding contentment regardless of outer circumstances. "It's good enough, " was something often said by my mother. She knew that things turn out best for those who make the best out of the way things turn out. She had a gift for appreciating life's pleasures. She rejoiced in a light breeze on a hot day, the song of the crickets and the full moon that illuminated the night. She felt that there was no reason to be unhappy when you could be happy. She taught by example that one of the best things we could do in life is to find happiness and then share it with others. I don't enjoy watching depressing movies or disturbing TV programs. I don't want to hear about any more conspiracy theories. I don't want to hear negative campaign ads. I don't want to listen to personal attacks on those willing to take leadership roles. I don't want to hear mean-spirited talk show hosts attack all who do not agree with them. What makes us happy? Perhaps it is as the cartoonist Charles Schulz said, "Happiness is a warm puppy." I do know that my dog is happy. It is easy to make my faithful canine companion happy. All I have to do is to say, while leaving the house, "You can go." James Thurber observed that, "Dogs are obsessed with being happy." Dogs need no reason to be happy. That's because they have every reason to be happy. We are told that money cannot buy us happiness. The stories in the supermarket tabloids-if only a few are true--have proven that. This is no reason for pessimism. No one will ever be rich enough to be able to afford to be pessimistic. Good memories make us happy. Memories provide more beginnings than endings. We gather good memories from our experiences. We should spend more on experiences and less on things. Travel produces great experiences and wonderful memories. We need to seek happiness, not pleasure. Pleasure alone does not bring happiness--as anyone who has ever been on a diet because of an appetite for fattening food can attest. We need to choose to be happy. We need to find joy in green lights, the antics of chipmunks, rainbows and the smell of sunshine. Barrow, Alaska is located 330 miles north of the Arctic Circle and is the USA's northernmost city. It is a place where polar bears roam and the minimum temperature is below freezing for 324 days of the year. Barrow is a place that when the sun sets on November 18, it does not rise again until January 23. That is a lot of darkness. 4400 people live there. How can they do that--with all that darkness? Ernie Banks said, "If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy any place." The residents of Barrow survive by remembering that the sun does not set at all between May 10 and August 2. The residents are given 82 days of sunshine. They survive by enjoying the northern lights that dance across their darkened sky. The aurora borealis brightens their world. We should all rejoice with the light rather than find sorrow in the darkness. Be happy. (Al Batt, 2004 He is a writer, speaker and storyteller) QUOTE: 'It is neither wealth nor splendour, but tranquillity and occupation which give happiness.' (Thomas Jefferson)

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Nomadic State of Mind At Bonnaroo 2012

24 May 2012 at 8:44pm  Nomadic State of Mind At Bonnaroo 2012 Nomadic State of Mind, the grassroots sandal company that specializes in handmade footwear, is gearing up for another year at the annual four day music festival, Bonnaroo. The crew at Nomadic State will be enjoying the people and the music (it's all about the music) and as always there will be good times and fun games going on in both of the stores they ...

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Stosur needs New York state of mind

22 May 2012 at 7:27pm  Former French Open champion Evonne Goolagong Cawley says Samantha Stosur needs to draw on her US Open triumph at Roland Garros.

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Mind Over Matter or Just a ?State of Mind?

21 May 2012 at 1:18am  Paralyzed woman controls robotic arm with her mind, heralding technology to come in Sven Michael Davison?s recently published ?State of Mind.?Los Angeles, CA (PRWEB) May 21, 2012 Sven Michael Davison?s recently published novel ?State of Mind? shows us a world filled with technological advances currently in development today and how they will affect a society of the near tomorrow. ...

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I am scared of having a lucid Nightmare?
I am a 12yo guy i am trying to have a lucid dream and i have been doing different teqniques but i am scared of having a lucid nightmare which i have read about and they are meant to be the most terrifing things that can happen, My greatest fear is a zombie chasing me through dark corridors like a tunnel system and it doing typical zombie things. How can i prevent or face a lucid nightmare. And i bought an ipod app made by innernode.com it plays noises and weird tones slightly deeper in the left ear and is meant to do somthing with the states of mind? or somthing like that. Does this work? It said on the it must have earphones to work becaise it plays certain frequencies in each ear and the brain finds an equal pitch whick cannot be herd from a speaker or SOMTHING like that

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I worry too much ? 10 points PLEASE HELP?
I am constantly worrying about everything ... I constantly think there is something wrong with me whether it is like feeling cramps or something ... I always think that once something happens to me I am going to die and then I look on google and it scares me even more ... Is there anything I can do about this ? What should I think about to keep me in a good state of mind ? I don't know how to just Luce my life without worrying that there is something wrong with me mentally or physically. PLEASE HELP GOD BLESS

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Question: Do You Agree or Disagree?
'Either heaven and hell are states of mind, or they don't exist period.'

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Another Rap I've Written . - Good Or Not ?
Going with the flow is like all I really know , but in order to obtain the life of success I desperately want to gain. I know I must refrain , from this old state of mind , and go against all grain . Then is due time , I'll get mine . So , I know I got to change , but I've been changing all my life . Dealt with so much misfortune it's hard to decipher wrong from right , day from night . I try to cope , light up the dope , strictly therapeutic except it , it makes me f***ing choke . Then once I clear my throat , I lay back , and regain hope . Really want feedback . Good ? Not Good ?

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Is it a good idea for me to try and join the Royal Marines Commando?
Here we go, I will try to be quick. I am English so we're talking Royal Marines not American. I am 17 (I know I can sign up, but it this too young for me to be making a decision that could effect my life?) I dropped out of college due to restrictions with my dyslexia which just made things too hard. (Could the marines be a way of getting some good qualifications?) I have pretty good GCSE's (A,B,B,B,B,B,C,C...) Including in English (B) and maths (C) <--- I took this a year early. (What options does this give me defining an angle of projection?) My mother and farther hate the idea, they just think "death death death" (What is the likelihood I will die or what is an argument/point I could make to them?) ^ No disrespect to anyone who has lost friends or family. I'm averagely fit and in the past I have done a triathlon and an expedition in the sahara desert and atlas mountains, although I'm no longer that fit now. (what's a good aim of fitness I should have so I'm at a good entry point) My eye sight isn't perfect and although I don't usually wear glasses, I have to for driving. Does this effect anything? As a person I would not say I'm stereotypically soldier material as I'm out spoken, confident and quite independent. Would this mentality make being a marine hard? Do I need to have the "state of mind" that doesn't think for myself but has that kind of dark 'no light behind the eyes attitude you see these men have in the adverts' or is that just to make them look hard a "cool" for propaganda or what ever you want to call it... One argument that I thought was fair(ish) was from my brother who says that the people in command do not care about you as a person, they except casualties and they are not the ones who are fighting so they well put you at high risk. He also pointed out that a lot of the time it is not "my fight" it is the conflict of pathetic governments and so I should not be getting involved. I guess what he means is that as a person I should only be fighting if I believe in the cause... (I'd love it if someone could present an argument against this but of course if know you can't choose your battles) As you can see I'm kind of arguing with myself here. Based on the information here what do you think? It would be appreciated if you at least had some sort of tie to the subject because a lot of people seem to have an opinion on things they don't know about these days. My thoughts go out to the soldiers and their families.

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