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 Tiny Buddha: Wisdom Quotes, Letting Go, Letting Happiness In
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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

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Today's Story on SOLVING PROBLEMS: We solve problems by dipping into our knowledge and experience and producing an answer. Most adults will have the chance of experience as it happens directly in front of them each day. As for knowledge few choose to gather any more; as a consequence they will always be disadvantaged. To search for knowledge need not be tiresome, in a day of MEASURE there is always room for study. A measured day equals a measure life. Measure allows abundance to flow and happiness to flourish. I recently watched a television documentary on a British entertainer, he was 75 years-old and still taking on television assignments. Moreover he was married to a former Miss World for the last twenty five years, who was 35 years his junior. What surprised me about this documentary was MEASURE. This energetic and lively entertainer scheduled very specific events each day to care for his health and well being. Not only was his body agile but his mind very active. Today's story illustrates the value of experience and how to turn it into knowledge. A GOODBYE KISS The Board Meeting had come to an end. Bob started to stand up and jostled the table, spilling his coffee over his notes. "How embarrassing, I am getting so clumsy in my old age." Everyone had a good laugh, and soon we were all telling stories of our most embarrassing moments. It came around to Frank who sat quietly listening to the others. Someone said, "Come on, Frank. Tell us your most embarrassing moment." Frank laughed and began to tell us of his childhood. "I grew up in San Pedro. My Dad was a fisherman, and he loved the sea. He had his own boat, but it was hard making a living on the sea. He worked hard and would stay out until he caught enough to feed the family. Not just enough for our family, but also for his Mom and Dad and the other kids that were still at home." He looked at us and said, "I wish you could have met my Dad. He was a big man, and he was strong from pulling the nets and fighting the seas for his catch. When you got close to him, he smelled like the ocean. He would wear his old canvas, foul-weather coat and his bibbed overalls. His rain hat would be pulled down over his brow. No matter how much my Mother washed them, they would still smell of the sea and of fish." Frank's voice dropped a bit. "When the weather was bad he would drive me to school. He had this old truck that he used in his fishing business. That truck was older than he was. It would wheeze and rattle down the road. You could hear it coming for blocks. As he would drive toward the school, I would shrink down into the seat hoping to disappear. Half the time, he would slam to a stop and the old truck would belch a cloud of smoke. He would pull right up in front, and it seemed like everybody would be standing around and watching. Then he would lean over and give me a big kiss on the cheek and tell me to be a good boy. It was so embarrassing for me. Here I was, twelve years old, and my Dad would lean over and kiss me goodbye!" He paused and then went on, "I remember the day I decided I was too old for a goodbye kiss. When we got to the school and came to a stop, he had his usual big smile. He started to lean toward me, but I put my hand up and said, 'No, Dad.' It was the first time I had ever talked to him that way, and he had this surprised look on his face. I said, 'Dad, I'm too old for a goodbye kiss. I'm too old for any kind of kiss.' My Dad looked at me for the longest time, and his eyes started to tear up. I had never seen him cry. He turned and looked out the windshield. 'You're right, ' he said. 'You are a big boy.a man. I won't kiss you anymore.'" Frank got a funny look on his face, and the tears began to well up in his eyes, as he spoke. "It wasn't long after that when my Dad went to sea and never came back. It was a day when most of the fleet stayed in, but not Dad. He had a big family to feed. They found his boat adrift with its nets half in and half out. He must have gotten into a gale and was trying to save the nets and the floats." I looked at Frank and saw that tears were running down his cheeks. Frank spoke again. "Guys, you don't know what I would give to have my Dad give me just one more kiss on the cheek, to feel his rough old face, to smell the ocean on him, to feel his arm around my neck. I wish I had been a man then. If I had been a man, I would never have told my Dad I was too old for a goodbye kiss." (Bishop Thomas Charles Clary) QUOTE: "A difficult time can be more readily endured if we retain conviction that our existence holds a purpose - a cause to pursue, a person to love, a goal to achieve.' (John Maxwell)

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A global partnership for peace

26 May 2012 at 1:42pm  At times it can be harder to keep the peace than winning it. All over the world, there are many conflicts which have shattered the ideal of peace. Some conflicts go on, while others have ended either through military action or negotiations.

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Dear Graduates: Push the Boundaries

25 May 2012 at 9:37am  As the class of 2012 heads into the real world, here's a reminder: Never be satisfied with the status quo. This time of year is full of commencement ceremonies across the country. In honor of this year's crop of graduates, the class of 2012, I've been thinking about one pithy lesson that I might convey to them as they enter the adult world. My inspiration comes from a book I read recently called ...

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Veteran counsels wisdom of listening

24 May 2012 at 12:01pm  Redd Griffin has been many things in his 73 years. A teacher, soldier, legislator, news reporter, patriot. But mostly he considers himself a student. Of history and his own life. Seeking answers more than conclusions. For the Oak Park resident and Triton College philosophy teacher, the past is prologue. ?The past is very relevant to the present,? he said. ?I want to keep the continuity with the ...

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Ancient China mined for marketing wisdom in new book

24 May 2012 at 4:23am  In ?The Market is Chaos: The Tao of Marketing? (ISBN...

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Some random thoughts on wisdom, suffering

22 May 2012 at 2:53pm  "Wisdom comes alone through suffering," or so said Zeus according to the Greek playwright Aeschylus. ...

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The bliss of reading

20 May 2012 at 12:30pm  India, May 21 -- I believe, as many of you do, that reading old books is like meeting old friends. And if you read an old classic after ages, you have the feeling that you are at home with a long-lost friend.It was last week that I had my tryst with some of such 'old friends'. The Story of Philosophy by Will Durant, Sceptical Essays by Bertrand Russell, The Discovery of India and An ...

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Maya Angelou Opens Women's Health And Wellness Center, Calls Disparities 'Emb...

15 May 2012 at 10:15am  Wisdom comes with age, and at 84 years old, Maya Angelou has lots of wisdom. But she says she picked up her most valuable piece of wisdom early on. "I learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side, be an advocate for myself and others like me," she said.

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For Mother?s Day, the gift of earned wisdom

11 May 2012 at 11:37am  Community writer Elizabeth Selby McCarthy questions the notion of a "parenting philosophy."

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Camilla Webster: Invest Like a Billionaire: The Seven Pearls of Financial Wisdom

6 May 2012 at 3:19pm  One of the best things you can do to build your own wealth is to copy the rich and develop an investment philosophy for yourself.

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Blackboard Rumble: Why Are Physicists Hating On Philosophy (and Philosophers)?

1 May 2012 at 11:02am  There are those in the physics community who have no room for philosophy. At stake in their stance is a critical question living deep in the foundations of modern physics: What are the limits of science?

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What is it that keeps happening to me?
right so this morning i woke up i'm fine, last night i wasn't fine, i just stared into space, got myself so confused and i felt quite low, last night i thought i need to get help for this how im feeling isnt right. But i woke up this morning and i'm like ahh it was nothing im fine now. About a month ago i cut myself for the first time and ever since its what i think of when i'm down/stressed, but i also think ahh its ok i won't do it again and i can control it. whats going on? oh and anyone going down the "you're an attention seeker route" dont bother commenting

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Im only 17 and I seem to be losing my erection lately?
Ive been with my girlfriend for over 2 years, sexually active majority of that time and only recently have I struggled to maintain an erection. Im starting to consider going to the doctors about it. I'm not stressed, Im confident with my body, any ideas?

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Does he like me still even if he doesn't love me? How do I get him back?
I was going out with this boy for 8 months, after being friends and flirting for about 4 months before that. We were absolutely crazy in love, we were each others first loves, and each others first time. I was sure he loved me more than I loved him sometimes! He used to say he wanted me forever, that I was perfect, he wanted to marry me, he'd give up anything if it meant he could have me and I knew he meant it. A month before we broke up, I got the news that I'd been rejected from all universities this year, and it hit me quite bad because I had worked very hard to try to get in. I started getting very irritable at everyone, Including him, and then eventually we fought on and off for about just over a week before he ended it. We were still on and off lovey dovey in between the fighting. He said he was crazy about me a few days before he broke us and and a week or two before that he said all that forever and marrying stuff still. I was heartbroken, I know it's not an excuse to take my emotions out on him but I was very depressed before we broke up, and he was stressed out with exams, there was a lot to account the fighting for. When he broke up he cried and kissed me and said he wanted to be best friends and not forget me but said we weren't working together. I thought I'd give him some space after to miss me and also to work for his exams, as his were before mine and he was really stressed out. But instead last week he told me he didn't love me and didnt ever want to get back together . He got quite annoyed and said he couldn't be bothered with this when I responded in an outburst of how hurt I was/loved him/reminded him of good times and that we could work through it. I just understand how he can block me out that easy, have no feelings for me at all? After his exams I want to give him more space so he has real time alone and then win him back starting from friends upwards. Do you think he still has feelings/thinks of me despite what he says? What do I do!!!!

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I'm not sure I want to be with my girl anymore.?
here is the story, I will b e as blunt and up forward as I can about it. I have been with my girl now for the past three and a half years, most of that time it has been long-distance where we only got three hours a day to talk at best. It was hard but we made it work. I bought myself a high-end laptop and tablet device with a backup connection for each so there was no chance of my connection getting in the way. I got a Blackberry that gives me the ability to email her from everywhere. I took an awful job in an office so I could take her on expensive holiday and buy her expensive things. Particularly I got her a matching set of ear rings and a necklace amounting to £260 plus insurance. They where made of gold, tiny diamonds and huge rocks of ruby,her favourite gemstone. Despite my warnings to wear it selectively and rarely and telling her to inform me if they went missing she wore them all the time and low and behold, she lost the necklace and informed me months later after the point I could have done anything. That being said our relationship was picturesque. Don't get me wrong we argued sometimes but it would always lead to the issue getting resolved. until a few moths ago. Recently she has gotten bored and disinterested, she says she hasn't but when she comes online I have to push the conversation on. she seems obsessed with me going back to college, whenever I talk about the future its all she cares about, I don't want it, I had a hard enough time getting to it last time and I don't want another 4-6 years of hardships and back breaking stress. She is never online anymore, she always has another activity to go to, i know its selfish to thing that way and I would agree but that's love. When we met up its utter heartache, we have the most fun we have ever had, going places, meeting people, seeing the local wanders all the while locking lips at any given opportunity. We played on my 360 and she actually enjoyed it, we listened to her favourite bands and loved it. but after it and before it I seemed mildly resentful that I was going to have to make the sacrifices to do it all over again. Recently the situation has gotten worse, I've told her my feeling time and time again in near tears and with big hopes that she sees what our ever stagnating love is doing to us but she brushes it off without second thought. The sex life is dead too. We used to have ways of doing it that she never wants to do anymore, when wee do it its like she's doing me a favour and its a complete turn off. I want love making to be mutual. Then we have the cam sessions or lack thereof, on the rare occasion she comes on cam she is always tired, always, like for the past six months she is tired even at ridiculous times of the day but here's where it gets insulting. she can.... entertain herself when I'm not around, I find it a little difficult as I need some stimuli but she is neither willing to stimulate nor will allow me to seek something that will. She doesn't do naughty pictures, she doesn't allow porn (and I would feel guilty if I did then watch it) and she doesn't want to offer any help what-so ever. so sexually I feel empty. Last night she came on cam. We where talking but she seemed more interested in her cat then me. it got a little bit later and she offered to put on a "show" to help me along. I was extatic that she wanted to do anything at all and this seemed like it was going to be interesting. The show consisted of her presumably on her bed, only her eyes and forehead in view and staring at me motionlessly for ten minutes, then disappearing all together to play with her cat. I stopped, told her it wasn't working and she made it clear that she didn't care, she claimed she was tired again but she told me herself she had a relatively lethargic day.I'f I'm honest I think she is no longer interested in it. I tried to tell her that I was getting nothing and she said what can amount to "okay", I told her I was going off her sexually and again she started playing with her cat pretending I wants saying anything and when I started saying I felt our love was ebbing away she started talking about her favourite songs. I stormed off. We are on a break now, I'm trying to sort out my head. She still wants to be my boyfriend, she seemed distraught and I think she wants me back but why? It makes no sense to me and I think she may have someone on the side. To make matters worse I don't think I could get another girl. I have an obscure taste in music, a hatred of most modern music, I'm a pale and chubby hefalump, I don't have a stable job, I don't have anything worth mentioning beyond a GCSE, I am cynical about a lot of things, I have an awful fashion sense and I have a stutter when I talk to people. I share all these things with my girl as she either likes them or does them herself but I don't think I will find two people like that in

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What's the point of being able to install games to an xbox 360's HDD?
i hear it's to reduce the noise and stress of the disk reading system and that it also reduces loading times for games but then when i hear that people are dissapointed that the PS3 can't do it i think what's the point? It's practically quiet, can read disks no problem even if you change the PS3's allignment and the disk drive wont get damaged. So is the feature to compensate for the fact the xbox has problems with just reading a game disk?

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