Team Building
Today's Story on SOLVING PROBLEMS: Few people will understand how to apply SACRIFICE. Today's story is the very good story that you will not forget easily, as it is the perfect illustration. The story is sad and it is sure to make you ponder over the possibilities, but I'll introduce it with some guidance. When you solve a problem you complete a task that prevents what was the problem coming back and causing anguish again. That being said, when deciding as a country's president or prime minister to go to war; or maybe to look at regular day events such as deciding whether to clean the fridge or not. In WISDOM you cannot deem a problem is a problem on the eventual consequences, although tempted as you may be. But to spot regular reminders that situations aren't improving and maybe need action right now. If you opened the fridge door over the period of a week and the same lingering smell drifted out, you'd need to take action. This is no different in solving the problem of whether to go to war or not. We cannot sweep the problem under the carpet and hope it goes away, we need to evaluate what would solve the problem the causes the heartache and act. We act following our good judgement. This can only be considered as good judgement if we actively and on a regular basis try to improve our skill at making good judgements. If that judgement hasn't improved for twenty years, then it may be in need of an overhaul. Looking once more at the bad odour from the fridge, you decide against cleaning it because you have more important tasks that lay ahead. Establishing priorities is difficult as today's story illustrates, but we must prevent an easily invented excuse from doing a chore that is essential. A bad odour could eventually cause ill-health. We NEED to sacrifice a more enjoyable task, such as shopping for clothes on a Saturday, to cleaning out the fridge. The one hour task will soon be over a done with and we still may find time to look around the shops. We NEED to SACRIFCE regularly to engage in more important tasks. Not as in biblical times to sacrifice an animal, but to sacrifice an otherwise desirable event to complete a more mundane chore. THE BRIDGE KEEPER There was once a bridge which spanned a large river. During most of the day the bridge sat with its length running up and down the river parallel with the banks, allowing ships to pass thru freely on both sides of the bridge. But at certain times each day, a train would come along and the bridge would be turned sideways across the river, allowing the train to cross. A switchman sat in a small shack on one side of the river where he operated the controls to turn the bridge and lock it into place for the trains to cross. One evening the switchman was waiting for the last train of the day to come, when thru the dimming twilight he caught sight of the train lights. He stepped to the controls and when the train was within a prescribed distance, he turned the bridge into position. Although to his astonishment, he found the locking control was not working. If the bridge was not locked in position it would wobble back and forth at the ends and cause the train to jump the track and go crashing into the river. And this would be a passenger train with many people aboard. He left the bridge turned across the river, and hurried across the bridge to the other side of the river where there was a control lever which he could operate manually to lock the bridge in place. He would have to hold the lever back firmly as the train crossed. He could hear the rumble of the train, and he took hold of the lever and leaned backward to apply his weight to it, locking the bridge. He kept applying the pressure to keep the mechanism locked. Many lives depended on this man's strength. Then, from the direction of his control shack across the bridge, he heard a sound that made his blood run cold. "Daddy, where are you?" His four-year-old son was crossing the bridge to look for him. His first impulse was to cry out to the child, "Run! Run!" But the train was too close; the tiny legs would never make it across the bridge in time. In the same instant, he almost left the lever to run and snatch up his son and carry him to safety. But he realized that he could not get back to the lever in time for the train to pass safely. Either the people on the train or his little son would have to die. It took a moment to make his decision. The train sped safely and swiftly on its way. No one on board was even aware of the tiny broken body thrown mercilessly into the river by the onrushing train. Nor were they aware of the pitiful figure of the sobbing man, still clinging tightly to the locking lever long after the train had passed. Neither did they see him walking home more slowly than he had ever walked before, to tell his wife how they had lost their son. QUOTE: 'Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside dreams; who looks inside awakes.' (Kahlil Gibran)
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Team meeting games/ideas?
Hi guys, I have been asked to come up with a few team building activities to create whilst we have our half hour weekly team meeting. We recently did the nuclear holocaust exercise which worked really well and im looking for similar ideas. The meetings consist of 8-10 ppl sat at a table so it can't be too practical.
Help please, all ideas are welcome!!
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Army training or team building exercises for schools?
I am a teacher and I would like to take my students out (or get a company like the Army in) to some team building/ training with my students?
Does anybody know if the army does this? Have they been to something like this with their school?
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Who should my character end up with?
Okay, so we had to write a story for English homework about Domestic Violence (we were studying that topic in our Philosphy class) and I decided to be a bit different so I made mine about a man named Noah Windass who is basically abused by his wife, Becky. When I got a good grade for it as my homework, I decided to expand it into a book. Yeah, I'm cool.
Anyway... I have three possible endings to it and I want to know which one you guys think is best for the story.
Ending One;
Becky is aressted and sent down. After she severs her term, Noah forgives her because he's still madly in love with her, even after she tortured him mentally and physically for four years. (Not the best, I admit.)
Ending Two:
Noah confesses what is happening to him at home to his best friend, Karen, who is a New Zelander beach godess. She eventually coaxes him into getting a divorce from Becky and they end up together. (A little more cliche, but I think I might possibly be able to make it work)
Ending Three:
Noah goes on a work team-building camping trip and shares a tent with a male colleauge named Will who is two years his juniour. In the cold and the rain, they decide to share body heat. And the best way to do that is to zip their sleeping bags together. After talking for a while, they realise that they have feelings for one another which they have surpressed all the time they've known each other. They end up together. (Okay, I know the description is a little longwinded but it takes a lot of explaining.)
Thanks :-D
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How can I handle being around this guy I hate at work? (in and outside of work due to mutual friends)?
This guy I work with is being really schitzo and passive-aggressive.
Basically ages ago we had a brief "thing" he came onto me first, we did end up doing stuff, but we didnt have full sex, I was a virgin and he wasn't comfotable about this, though he offered to continue, we didnt go through with it.
We tried being friends for a bit but he was always very flaky, and sometimes a bit mean, and I didnt like the way he talked about women. I told him I didn't think we should hang out anymore, I just said it's because I felt like he was grossed out I was a virgin, then he said I was the one acting weird and avoiding him when he tried making conversation at work, and that he didnt mind. Though I tried messaging him more about it he ignored me, I removed him off FB.
Evenetually we had to work together again, he acted like nothing had happened, he even tried flirting with me and touching me a lot again, Id be polite but not too friendly. Sometimes he seemed very odd, like he was eavesdropping on my phonecall once, and sometimes he would just stare at me intently, or he would "pop in" to work a lot on his days off. Once he just said out of nowhere as I was going past "amazing person"
Ok so this new girl also started working here, he immideitly chased her, they started sleeping with eachother (she was engaged to a guy of 6 years and was cheating on him, but now she has left him)
One day the guy heard me moaning about her (just a totally unrelated issue as I would moan about anyone who might have annoyed me at work) And he went and told her, he also told her all the details of what happened between us (or at least his version) He was trying to rub it in my face that they were together, he came and sat next to me at the staff meeting with her on the other side , and other things, And now he tries to make it out to people im jealous!!!! Im so angry I hate this guy, and he even tried talking to me during seeing this chick, still asking me about my college and stuff that is not his buisness, I have been polite but not friendly.
He even approached me the other day and said to me "I dont want you to pretend to like me" and wanted me to talk to him, I ignored him, he said "Im serious, if you have to tell me something, tell me, im not deaf and im not blind" he sounded so serious and angry but maybe even upset.
He has been trying to do me favours at work like staying later for me, or covering me on till, yet at the same time, he told a customer to complain about me to customer services, and was like slamming his locker and let a door close in my face when before he would hold it open. At the same time hell still approach me at work to ask for help or offer it occasionally when he probably doesnt even need help.
Another girl I work with knows what he is like (as he is a player and a massive flirt he had come onto her before?) and he also told a customer at work to complain to head office about her!
why is he even doing these things to me ???
In about a week I have to go on a "team building day" how can I tolerate being around him, not just that as we share a mutual friend hes been invited to one of our nights out, I cant ask him not to be invited but why should I not go just because hes going? HELP?
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Ideas for easter activity camp?
I am working with a group of older primary kids at an activity camp and am trying to come up with an activity they can work on all week or some group/ team building activities. Any ideas for both indoor and outdoor facilities??
****sorry meant to mention doesn't have to necessarily be easter themed (it's just over easter holidays)
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