Thinking Positively
Today's Story on SOLVING PROBLEMS: If you have all the academic skills in the world you may never be prepared for some situations that life throws at us. I have witnessed students in my fair city, of who could well embarrass most with their academic skills, but they seem to lack the quality of common sense. Common sense comes from experience of life. Eventually it becomes second nature to respond to difficulties with a confident and understanding attitude. We all know someone with this frailty. Too much knowledge, but not enough common sense, they seem to lack this important understanding. Why? It is because they don't realise that knowledge, although an important key, if not used or applied properly is wasted. Good instinct and intuition are as a result of a good application of common sense. See in this next story, how well a young child knows what to do from instinct. BIG BROTHER'S WATCHIN The little Downs' syndrome girl, a teenager the size of a ten year old, made her way through the McDonald's restaurant to the back and turned toward the restroom. After stopping and looking closely at the word on the door to make absolutely certain she was entering the appropriate one, she walked in. This was a happy evening for her. She and her family had just come from the roller rink with a group of friends from her church, and although trying to stay in an upright position while skating had been more work than fun for her, she knew now that it was certainly well worth the effort: was there, after all, any place in the world offering greater rewards than McDonald's? Her younger but bigger brother sat quietly, looking after her and noticed what she, thankfully, had not. A group of four teenagers, two couples, had taken an interest in the little girl from the moment they spotted her. Their eyes on her like magnets as she walked to the bathroom, they sniggered and whispered behind their hands, one even openly laughing, another pointing. Her brother watched them for a minute or so, then stood slowly, almost wearily, and walked casually across the restaurant to the booth where the merry couples were sitting. The two guys paled slightly, and the girls looked a little alarmed as this total stranger, a year or two their junior, placed his hands boldly on their table, leaning down slightly toward them. He, clearly in their space, and they, most definitely out of their comfort zones, studied each other. The stoic intruder stood up straight after several seconds and motioned with one hand for one of the couples to scoot over. Clearly, he intended to sit right down next to them. Somewhat in shock, and thrown completely off-guard, they made space for him and he lowered himself and sat, hunched slightly forward, his forearms resting on the table. When the silent tension reached ear-splitting proportions, the stranger spoke to this now-serious party of four. Quietly, he informed them, "I was watching you making fun of my sister." All four faces before him were now pale, and the boys stumbled over their words in their rush to defend themselves. "Who? Your sister? Where?" "We weren't making fun of anyone!" "Oh, that was your sister? We weren't making fun of her!" "We would never make fun of someone like that!" But he told them again, "I watched you." They babbled whatever came to their minds, knowing they had been caught red-handed and maybe, just maybe, even realizing that they had been not only rude, but cruel to boot. Maybe they even got a little glimpse of the love this fifth wheel had for his sister, and an inkling of the emotions he was dealing with. The brother appeared not to be listening to their denials as he turned and watched his sister head back to where she had been sitting with the church group. Each of the four looked away, making sure they looked absolutely anywhere besides at that little girl. Somehow, on her return trip from the restroom, not one of them found her the least bit amusing. Her brother watched her sit down with the others, then he slid out of the booth and stood. As he turned to walk away, one of the boys tried for one last line of defence: "Hey, we would not make fun of her. We feel sorry for people like that!" The little girl's defender stopped and turned back to their table, and placing the palms of his hands again on its surface, and leaning in close to his new acquaintances, he said hoarsely, "And I feel sorry for people like YOU." Then he turned and walked away. And, somehow, he suddenly blended right in with the Happy Meal atmosphere as he took his place next to his little sister. Just as if he were your average, basic McDonald's customer. And not a hero at all. (By Alison) Alison's story has appeared in Stories for the Teen's Heart, under the title "Brotherly Love." She also has a story in "Chicken Soup for the Grandparent's Soul." This one is called "Home Run." QUOTE: 'Having ability and intelligence is not the key. It's recognising that ability, confessing it, appreciating it, developing it, and then using it.' (Zig Zagler).
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Thinking Positively News
Struggling to put on a happy face? Wear a Camilla mask! - Daily Mail
27 May 2012 at 2:40pm By the weekend, I experienced two days of utter despair ? my body just gave out. Thinking positively, I took drastic action. Gave up painkillers. Shut up whinging about being a victim. Made an effort to stop thinking negatively. Stopped moaning about not ...Read more...
MLM Tricks - PR-USA.net
26 May 2012 at 5:16am Basically you need to be set aside all the negativity you're hearing from everyone else| thinking positively about your future}, and focusing in on how to be successful in this industry. This will increase you chances of success. Focus on your objective.Read more...
Report: Triangle growth to exceed national average - WRAL
25 May 2012 at 8:45am The data has Teshome thinking positively about the market, which PNC defines as Raleigh, Durham, Goldsboro and Rocky Mount metro areas. The state considers the Triangle market as Raleigh-Durham-Cary-Chapel Hill and says unemployment was 7.8 percent in March.Read more...
Extra effort not enough for Heritage - News-Gazette
23 May 2012 at 9:55pm The liner ended Heritage's (28-4) season, but coach Lisa Boyer still was thinking positively about her team after the loss. "We can only be proud of this game. We went eight innings in a sectional game against a team that is state-ranked and ...Read more...
Can You Think Your Way to a Thinner You? - Huffington Post
10 May 2012 at 10:36am My answer? Yes, but mostly no. Contrary to popular belief, positive psychology isn't all about thinking positively. Rather, it's about researching ways to help people thrive. If affirmations boost your confidence that you can implement changes, then by all ...Read more...
I oftenly dream about my dead father and scared and i think i am going to die . so anyone have solution?
I oftenly dream of my dead father who died 4 years ago. old people say it is not good. why it hapened to me?He say nothing but arround me?so next day i was so scared and think positively that something is going to happen wrong? So how can i save myself from these dreams?
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Feeling low about life?
A number of friends and myself feel really low about life these days-we are 16. It feels like there is no point to anything, that everything is just an endless cycle of routines. It's really scary and we feel like all our motivation and enthusiasm is going away. We are not emos or teenage angst wannabees, so please take this seriously. Is this just an adolescent thing and is there anything we can do? We try so hard to think positively and keep busy!
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If someone is insecure is it their fault?
How can someone have high self esteem or even think positively if they've been told they're useless and good for nothing alot of the time?
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Dream Interpretation and Relationship Advice?
I keep having a series of bad dreams about my boyfriend who is now my ex. However he is now begging to come back to me and saying I only have does dreams cause I don't think positively about us and I am afraid.
It was really hard for me to walk away especially as he wanted and still wants to make things work. We used to argue a lot, well I felt this way and he didn?t, he said we were only communicating and had to learn to agree to disagree. To me he just wasn?t listening to me, hence me continuously trying to get my point across and vis versa also as I am not perfect either.
There was a time I found some inappropriate emails between him and a girl and he says he never cheated on me and maybe he didn't but he also lied to me a couple of times. The last straw was when we were planning to get married and he only told me at the last minute that he had been married before and was in the process of a divorce.
The break up was only recent, less than two months and my decision to finally end things with him was pushed more by the hardship of the relationship and also two dreams I had shortly after the break up. Firstly that we were married for about 10years and with three kids and he left me and the kids, secondly, that he wanted to hug some of my family friends and they weren't receptive towards him.
Now I hadn't seen by ex for about 2 and a half weeks and bumped into him over the weekend. We weren't in contact as we wanted to really pray and think about what to do. When we saw on Saturday he asked that we should meet on Sunday to discuss the way forward. On Sunday when we finally met up, he begged me to give him another chance, just like he had been saying and that was how his spirit was saying that we should try. The thing is I didnt feel this, for me my prayers were an indication not to go back into relationship (especially because I have dreamt about things in the past and some have come true). He however said to me perhaps I only had those dreams because of the stress we were going through and people often dream of what happens around them.
Anyway we had another heated argument on Sunday evening because he said I wasn't giving us a chance while I thought although I would love to go back to him (especially because how he had begged), I felt so afraid and still feel so scared of him hurting me again if I let him back.
Now on Sunday night after arguing and seeing him again over the weekend, I had yet another dream. The dream: I was lying face up on what appeared to be a bed, and a big snake (almost like an anaconda) was going over me slowly, it did not bite me but I was scared, then it felt like when it was mid-way over me and still moving, it began to suck my hand from its belly (which is weird right, because snakes only bit or eat through their mouth). The snake was a brown and black (moth like) colour. I was so scared that I woke up.
What does this mean???
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Dream Interpretation, Relationship Dilemma?
I keep having a series of bad dreams about my boyfriend who is now my ex. However he is now begging to come back to me and saying I only have does dreams cause I don't think positively about us and I am afraid.
It was really hard for me to walk away especially as he wanted and still wants to make things work. We used to argue a lot, well I felt this way and he didn?t, he said we were only communicating and had to learn to agree to disagree. To me he just wasn?t listening to me, hence me continuously trying to get my point across and vis versa also as I am not perfect either.
There was a time I found some inappropriate emails between him and a girl and he says he never cheated on me and maybe he didn't but he also lied to me a couple of times. The last straw was when we were planning to get married and he only told me at the last minute that he had been married before and was in the process of a divorce.
The break up was only recent, less than two months and my decision to finally end things with him was pushed more by the hardship of the relationship and also two dreams I had shortly after the break up. Firstly that we were married for about 10years and with three kids and he left me and the kids, secondly, that he wanted to hug some of my family friends and they weren't receptive towards him.
Now I hadn't seen by ex for about 2 and a half weeks and bumped into him over the weekend. We weren't in contact as we wanted to really pray and think about what to do. When we saw on Saturday he asked that we should meet on Sunday to discuss the way forward. On Sunday when we finally met up, he begged me to give him another chance, just like he had been saying and that was how his spirit was saying that we should try. The thing is I didnt feel this, for me my prayers were an indication not to go back into relationship (especially because I have dreamt about things in the past and some have come true). He however said to me perhaps I only had those dreams because of the stress we were going through and people often dream of what happens around them.
Anyway we had another heated argument on Sunday evening because he said I wasn't giving us a chance while I thought although I would love to go back to him (especially because how he had begged), I felt so afraid and still feel so scared of him hurting me again if I let him back.
Now on Sunday night after arguing and seeing him again over the weekend, I had yet another dream. The dream: I was lying face up on what appeared to be a bed, and a big snake (almost like an anaconda) was going over me slowly, it did not bite me but I was scared, then it felt like when it was mid-way over me and still moving, it began to suck my hand from its belly (which is weird right, because snakes only bit or eat through their mouth). The snake was a brown and black (moth like) colour. I was so scared that I woke up.
What does this mean???
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