Understanding
Today's Story on CHILDREN: As we grow older we gain experience. These experiences are full of life's trial and tribulations. Yet sometimes we do not use them to grow stronger, we just use them to cast doubt on our next action. If the memory of the experience is strong enough it may be enough to dislodge our current view. Lessons in childhood however, seem to be the building blocks that establish our character, persona and attitude. So why do we allow these building blocks to remain in position, when equally important experiences follow in early adulthood? As we leave school our power of innocent attention is lost, and more regularly do we not fully comprehend a life lesson when it confronts us head on. A child will remain open-minded and believe whatever he is taught. Yet for some bizarre reason as we encounter the real world as a young adult, we are almost invited to put on blinkers. If you can continue to grow stronger through the trials that you encounter, rejoice in its beauty, because most people don't! The next story is about what a child can give and not realise he is giving. In fact the plot is reminiscent of the bible story of the Good Samaritan. It is certainly a lesson that when in child's life they may remember, but would an adult? A FRIEND One day, when I was a freshman in high-school, I saw a kid from my class who was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd." I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friend tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives." He looked at me and said, "Hey, thanks!" There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play football on Saturday with me and my friends. He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him. And my friends thought the same of him. Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, "Damn, boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!" He just laughed and handed me half the books. Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors, began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak. Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than me and all the girls loved him! Boy, sometimes I was jealous. Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "Thanks, " he said. As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began. "Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story." I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. "Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable." I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize its depth. Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life. "Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly." (Unknown Author). QUOTE: 'The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.' (Chinese Proverb).
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ok look dont feel sad for me i just need some advice........ok heres the story,.,., my old best friend matt well fromer friend i have not seen in 4 years so a few weeks ago i found matt on facebook and we talk the first thing matt asked if was come out i said maby then matt said come on mate iv not seen u for years i said im at my cousin brithday party how about tommorro matt said cool the tommorro we talk about smokin dope and drinking but after we talked about smokin weed and drinking the conversaison got boaring i tryed to talk about athhor stuff like moviesbut and we stop talking or more like he stop talking i said bye and matt said bye back and he was ment come down to my house but he never showed and i was talking to him last week and i dident ask him why he never showed up but i asked him if he wanted to come out matt said were i said i still live at my dads............. matt said cool .......then i trye to talk to him but he takes a long time just to answers me back i think we have driffed apart ................ i just dont understand why he never showed up we were best friend we were badboys we dun lots of crazy stuff ps a girl i know called linda she asked me out about 5 years ago i said no then linda started being mean to me her and matt were friend they few out like a week ago she lives just round the street were i live matt will go down to her house why the f**k will he did he not go to my house we were like brothers i dont understand this
p.s this is what i think matts trying to be a smart.A$$ i think matts annoyed by me oo and that linda and her friends uses to make fun of matt and i stuck up for and my old friends hated matt the only reason they dident beat matt up was becase of me .........and matt most likey things i have changes becase i like oasis i still like 50 cent biggie an 2pac
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how do i work out my cycle???? ttc?
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How can I know? and what can I do?
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how do i help my friend?
i'm almost 14.
my friend is 13.
for two years we've been friends, so since we both began high school.
but lately, I've been spotting scars on her arm.
after there was about 20 on each forearm, I asked her what they were about, and she told a lie and blamed her new kittens. i knew she had new kittens but they never do that amount of damage.
so every day for 2 weeks, I asked her about them. Every time she lied about them, until finally she told one of my other mates.
my other mate came to me and said to ask her again.
I did. And this time I got a truthful reply.
She was committing self harm.
And making herself bulimic.
she explained that her ex dumped her and she thought it was because she was fat. she isn't. so she went on a diet. she only eats gum until dinner (5-6pm)
she then eats around 20 chips or something like that and goes and pukes it up.
the arm cutting? she said that she had major problems and felt like she was the only person who would understand her problem.
there and then, she made me promise not to tell anybody. she said if it was found out , she'd need counseling or be classed as having 'mental issues'.
she is a lovely girl who is not intelligent, but she acts like it doesn't matter, my buddy was free and bubbly.
her mood changed badly when we found out and now always wears long sleeved shirts, never takes off her jacket in front of teachers and refuses to go swimming.
i'm really worried as many times she said she wanted to kill herself and nobody is taking it seriously. I didn't at first as everyone said it was her doing it for attention.
i'm really worried that something may happen.
how do i stop her?
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did he ever like me? is it too late?
yesterday was my last day of sixth form and i have a weird feeling i cant believe its all over, theres a boy i really liked for two years during sixth form and i always thought we would start talking or become closer throughout the years, but we didn't. I have always thought he might have felt the same way about me because we would look in each other's eyes for longer than usual and i just had that feeling like there was something between us even when he would walk past me. Then i found out he has a girlfriend who doesnt go to our school but even when he was with her the same long stares would carry on between us, but we would never talk to eachother, its almost like we could talk through our eyes - i know it sounds weird but i felt like he could understand my feelings towards him. His friends would also stare at me which made me believe this even more. Anyway, now i feel so depressed because its finally hit me that i probably wont see him again and i will miss him even though we didnt talk, the stares always gave me something to hold on to. i dont even have him on facebook so i wont be able to stay in contact and hes probably going to a different uni then me, i keep thinking i should have started talking to him earlier in year 12 when i first saw him, now i feel like its too late, what should i do, ive had crushes before but this time it seemed different- the first time i could sense something inside me that made think he felt the same( as cheesy as it sounds. Now i dont know what to do, i cant help but think of what could have been, a day hasn't passed that i havent thought about him, especially now, hes always on my mind
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