Use Common Sense
Today's Story on HAPPINESS: Here is your Friday story, How do we find happiness? We don't need to search beyond where we are right now. All we need to do is think of a happy memory. We all know that works. So if we can be sad one moment and just by thinking of a happy memory we can become happy; what are we actually doing? We're allowing a change of view, a change of perspective to take place. It would seem to follow that to change from sad to happy at any moment all we need to practice is changing perspective. Is a cup half empty or half full? A thought I may suggest that I use in my own little world when everything seems to be going against me. How can this help? Well it reminds me that half empty is pessimistic and half full is optimistic. If a car bumps into the rear of my car in a traffic jam, by the time I've go out of the car to investigate the damage I've forgiven the other driver. The hindrance of swapping telephone numbers and contacting the insurance companies could well be a blessing in disguise. I just need to change perspective to find the blessing. Today's story illustrates how we can survive without having to change our address to find happiness. BE HAPPY I watched and listened to an irate customer berate a young fast food restaurant clerk. Young minimum wage workers appear to be fair game. The angry man grew red in the face as he yelled at the young man. What was the young man's sin that deserved this wrath? He gave the man onion rings instead of french fries. I advised the man to calm down, that he was making a scene. He told me to mind my own blankety-blank business. He quieted down only after he saw the looks being given to him by the other customers. I don't understand such behaviour. If you are having a bad day, that's a shame. Get over it. You are not going to make your day better by ruining the day of another. Misery needs to stop loving company. Our days are not going to be perfect. Find a bless in the mess. A neighbour once told me, "You might as well be happy, no one cares if you ain't." He is the same guy who was fond of saying, "If ignorance is bliss, how come there aren't more happy people?" The older I get the more I value time and good folks. The more I want my loved ones to be happy. The more I want to spend my time being happy. We owe it to our loved ones, our friends and our co-workers to be happy. Warren Zevon said it well in one of his songs, "Enjoy every sandwich." My mother was one who enjoyed every sandwich. She found joy in the joy of others. She believed in a principle called "Santosa." I doubt that she'd even heard of Santosa, but she lived it. Santosa means finding contentment regardless of outer circumstances. "It's good enough, " was something often said by my mother. She knew that things turn out best for those who make the best out of the way things turn out. She had a gift for appreciating life's pleasures. She rejoiced in a light breeze on a hot day, the song of the crickets and the full moon that illuminated the night. She felt that there was no reason to be unhappy when you could be happy. She taught by example that one of the best things we could do in life is to find happiness and then share it with others. I don't enjoy watching depressing movies or disturbing TV programs. I don't want to hear about any more conspiracy theories. I don't want to hear negative campaign ads. I don't want to listen to personal attacks on those willing to take leadership roles. I don't want to hear mean-spirited talk show hosts attack all who do not agree with them. What makes us happy? Perhaps it is as the cartoonist Charles Schulz said, "Happiness is a warm puppy." I do know that my dog is happy. It is easy to make my faithful canine companion happy. All I have to do is to say, while leaving the house, "You can go." James Thurber observed that, "Dogs are obsessed with being happy." Dogs need no reason to be happy. That's because they have every reason to be happy. We are told that money cannot buy us happiness. The stories in the supermarket tabloids-if only a few are true--have proven that. This is no reason for pessimism. No one will ever be rich enough to be able to afford to be pessimistic. Good memories make us happy. Memories provide more beginnings than endings. We gather good memories from our experiences. We should spend more on experiences and less on things. Travel produces great experiences and wonderful memories. We need to seek happiness, not pleasure. Pleasure alone does not bring happiness--as anyone who has ever been on a diet because of an appetite for fattening food can attest. We need to choose to be happy. We need to find joy in green lights, the antics of chipmunks, rainbows and the smell of sunshine. Barrow, Alaska is located 330 miles north of the Arctic Circle and is the USA's northernmost city. It is a place where polar bears roam and the minimum temperature is below freezing for 324 days of the year. Barrow is a place that when the sun sets on November 18, it does not rise again until January 23. That is a lot of darkness. 4400 people live there. How can they do that--with all that darkness? Ernie Banks said, "If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy any place." The residents of Barrow survive by remembering that the sun does not set at all between May 10 and August 2. The residents are given 82 days of sunshine. They survive by enjoying the northern lights that dance across their darkened sky. The aurora borealis brightens their world. We should all rejoice with the light rather than find sorrow in the darkness. Be happy. (Al Batt, 2004 He is a writer, speaker and storyteller) QUOTE: 'It is neither wealth nor splendour, but tranquillity and occupation which give happiness.' (Thomas Jefferson)
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Use common sense to train canines - New Straits Times
26 May 2012 at 6:39pm ![]() New Straits Times | New Straits Times I have never received any training for managing dogs, but may have adopted a common sense approach, combined with a garden of reasonable size, adoption as loved pets of the family (albeit also used as guard dogs) and above all, without confining them ... and more » |
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Common sense key to WA's new cat laws - PerthNow
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Get real and use common sense - This is Staffordshire
23 May 2012 at 8:20pm This is Staffordshire Common sense would say if your door handle breaks, buy a new one. It would mean taking yourself away from Jeremy Kyle for an hour and taking eight screws out and replacing it, rather than getting on the phone and asking for a van with two workers in it ... |
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Our View: Use common sense and be careful on Memorial Day holiday - Silver Ci...
23 May 2012 at 1:58pm Silver City Sun News Keep perishable foods refrigerated until use, and then don't leave leftovers sitting around. Being safe - driving, boating, grilling, whatever you're doing and however you're celebrating - is mostly a matter of common sense. and more » |
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Is River Safety Just a Matter of Using Common Sense? - Patch.com
22 May 2012 at 6:54pm Patch.com For West, the issue seemed simple enough: Use common sense and exercise foresight. Yet, West was also quick to admit he's seen his fair share of river rescues, and he's aware of the inherent dangers the river presents. "I keep ropes handy (pointing to ... |
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My Turn: Inspectors should use common sense - Salisbury Post
21 May 2012 at 8:31am Salisbury Post If it isn't already written into ?the code? by the state legislature, then it should be stated that a building inspector, within certain obvious limitations, can use common sense and exercise some degree of judgment and latitude, particularly where ... |
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Environmental regulations on industry should use common sense - Deseret News
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Bicyclists need to use common sense when sharing the road - NorthJersey.com
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Stafford jury must use 'common sense,' should 'rise above emotional ... - Nat...
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NOT RELIGIOUSLY speaking...Why shud one be virgin till marriage ?
Speak as a human being. Nothing religious or cultural. What's wrong wid pre-matiral sex ? Or NOT wrong wid it
Don't personalise here. Use common sense and some logic 2 answer.
Cheers.
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Proof of address, again.?
I have been asked to supply proof of address, even though I am still on their computer, to a local doctors that I left and wish to rejoin.
ALL proofs must be under 3 months old.
Mortgage agreement,
Council Tax bill
Housing Assc. Rental Agreement.
Utilities bill
Current account bank statement- SHOWING TRANSACTIONS!
Now I don't know about you, but that looks like a nonsense, as all of the above can be up to a year old, or in many cases not available, I do on-line banking and the same with the utility.
The secondary list is even more bizarre, baring in mind the 3 month bit.TV license, Car Insurance, Final Benefits letter, Driving licence, Building insurance.
Why can't these people use common sense?
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what do you think of UK banning michael savage?
i live in london and listen to him online on youtube sometimes and i tell you what, this guy is not a criminal .......... he is the few americans in the media who uses common sense and he is only expressing his freedom of Speech (he never swore in his show or attack people the way msnbc attack the people that oppose their view)
you may hate him or love him but he is being ban for having an opinion
today's labour government really feels like the soviet union during stalins time
what do you think? is this right?
whos next? o'riley? hannity? rush?
banning people who have opposite view
and the thing that pisses me of is that they allow people who would burn the uk flag and shout death to this nation
i bet they did not even listen to one of his show
ban as not alowing them to enter the country
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xrH9GgZBUxg
you can hate him but banning him for speaking out is just crazy
here is an example of his clip
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSg3SFFAt0o
here is his reply
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GkTfXgPqUTc
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Does anyone here actually use or read Al-Qur'an to help answer some of their questions?
Is it not the book of guidance and a message to all mankind?
Why is it that so many depend solely on people to answer every little thing that comes into their head? Do many here use common sense and logic?
I am just trying to understand why so many seem to make Islam soooo difficult when it is an easy religion?
As a revert, at times i am just soo bewildered at how some of you manage to function at all in life!
Take care
Salaam
Thank you for your answers so far, but my question is not in relation to answering questions here, its more based on answering your own questions on life, haram and halal, using your own common sense to decipher whther sometihng is really good for us or bad for us, using logic to determine if what we hear is the correct advice etc. etc
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What's so bad about a girl being seductive?
Most guys seem to like a girl who is and high five each other. Acting all guy-like. Sorry guys, but you know how you are. However, society as a whole, especially other women, look down on it and judge each other. Why care?
Have you noticed a lot of questions here are basically related to that? "How can I turn a guy on?" "Which dress is cuter?" "Can I get a STD if I'm stupid?" sex, sex, sex? blah blah, blah. It's on every ones mind and that's normal but nobody wants to act on it without some kind of approval from members of "society". Why tip toe around it?
So big deal, if I like a guy, I want to do something about it. Don't get me wrong, my decision making is NOT made without processes but I certainly don't need approval. I am in control of my life. Are you?
Wouldn't we ALL be much happier and relaxed if we just did our own thing without worrying about what other people think or say? Wouldn't it be easier to live without fear and scepticism? Just be careful and use common sense and you won't have any regrets.
Anybody reading this?
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