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Quiet Your Mind and Just Play (in 20 Ways)
by Angela Marchesani
24 May 2012 at 11:02pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Angela Marchesani ?If it?s not fun, you?re not doing it right.? ~Bob Basso I spend a lot of time contemplating and philosophizing about life. According ...
How Can We Identify What We Want and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
24 May 2012 at 11:01pm
by Lori Deschene IMPORTANT NOTE: This post contains two poll questions and a giveaway for an autographed copy of the Tiny Buddha book. If you?re reading this in your inbox, you ...
The Key to Beauty and Acceptance Is You
by Jaclyn Witt
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jaclyn Witt ?To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don?t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.? ~Thich Nhat ...
When We Think Other People Are Better Than Us
by Justb
23 May 2012 at 8:48pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Justb ?No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.? ~Eleanor Roosevelt. I have a very bad habit. It pokes me when I stop to ...
Tiny Wisdom: The Heart in Our Homes
by Lori Deschene
22 May 2012 at 10:17pm
by Lori Deschene Before I found this Flickr image, I had never read this Irish blessing before. What a beautiful idea! I remember in college, I spent a semester abroad in the ...
What We Really Need to Be Happy
by Sasha Peakall
22 May 2012 at 10:16pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Sasha Peakall ?The real measure of your wealth is how much you?d be worth if you lost all your money.? ~Unknown Standing, getting crushed on ...
Be a Master of Where You Are Now
by Alanna Levenson
21 May 2012 at 11:12pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Alanna Levenson ?Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion.  With these, you can handle anything.? ~Jack Kornfield I hadn?t taken a yoga class in ...
Why Do We Ignore Our Instincts and Tiny Buddha Book Giveaway
by Lori Deschene
21 May 2012 at 11:11pm
by Lori Deschene This is the 9th post in a 10-part series. (It’s the last week!) If you?ve been following this series since I launched it, much of this post will ...
How to Feel More Loved: 9 Tips for Deep Connection
by Lori Deschene
20 May 2012 at 10:01pm
by Lori Deschene ?It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.? ~John Bulwer If there?s one thing we all want, it?s to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected ...
How to Love Without Losing Yourself
by Jennifer Gargotto
17 May 2012 at 10:04pm
Editor?s Note: This is a contribution by Jennifer Gargotto “We love because it is the only true adventure.” ~Nikki Giovanni  Last night I sat with an old friend who has recently broken ...

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Today's Story on SELF DEVELOPMENT: Why do we choose to accept a first impression? It seems that we have grown up with accepting them and therefore it becomes a habitual act. This accepting a habitual act alone proves how many other aspects of our life can be clouded by judgements made from assumptions. Is accepting a first impression actually the first impression? More often than not it is the second impression. The first impression is a gut feeling that we discard incorrectly. I was out shopping with the family over the weekend and walked passed a tramp. The children stared intently at the tramp and after we had passed they gave me a barrage of questions. At eight and six years old my two girls were wondering was he a nice man or a naughty stranger, and why was he sitting on the floor? I explained the reasons for his need to sit and beg, but also continued with that we all would assume that he is a horrible person, because of his unshaven and unwashed appearance. Then I followed with, the way he appears on the outside doesn't mean that it is the way he is on the inside. He maybe able to laugh about his misgivings and have learnt some very valuable lessons in life, his soul maybe enriched with love and affection. We are better to reserve judgement than fill in the gaps and complete our first impression without all the facts. Yet, nevertheless as with our life, we seem to be making decisions with fewer facts than should be advised. To improve our self development we need introduce a goodness that prevents the proverbial first impression being accepted. Making assumptions means that you are taking risks, and taking risks causes heartache and problems. When you first see a tramp you show immediate empathy and sorrow; and only then do you put up your guard and make the recognizable 'first impression'. The more you assume the more you are making decisions without the full facts. This leads to inaccuracies in your life; you'll be continually going over ground you've already trodden. Spot the two first impressions accepted in this story. Watch also for the gathering of people who act as though they were sheep and follow everyone else's lead and make the same assumptions. HIS NAME IS JOHN His name is John. He has wild hair, wears a T-shirt with holes in it, jeans and no shoes. This was literally his wardrobe for his entire four years of college. He is brilliant. Kinda esoteric and very, very bright. He became a Christian while attending college. Across the street from the campus is a well-dressed, very conservative church. They want to develop a ministry to the students, but are not sure how to go about it. One day John decides to go there. He walks in with no shoes, jeans, his T-shirt, and wild hair. The service has already started and so John starts down the aisle looking for a seat. The church is completely packed and he can't find a seat. By now people are looking a bit uncomfortable, but no one says anything. John gets closer and closer and closer to the pulpit and when he realizes there are no seats, he just squats down right on the carpet. (Although perfectly acceptable behaviour at a college fellowship, trust me, this had never happened in this church before!) By now the people are really uptight, and the tension in the air is thick. About this time, the minister realizes that from way at the back of the church, a deacon is slowly making his way toward John. Now the deacon is in his eighties, has silver-grey hair, a three-piece suit, and a pocket watch. A godly man, very elegant, very dignified, very courtly. He walks with a cane and as he starts walking toward this boy, everyone is saying to themselves, "You can't blame him for what he's going to do. How can you expect a man of his age and of his background to understand some college kid on the floor?" It takes a long time for the man to reach the boy. The church is utterly silent except for the clicking of the man's cane. All eyes are focused on him. You can't even hear anyone breathing. The people are thinking, "The minister can't even preach the sermon until the deacon does what he has to do." And now they see this elderly man drop his cane on the floor. With great difficulty he lowers himself and sits down next to John and sits with him so he won't be alone. Everyone chokes up with emotion. When the minister gains control he says, "What I'm about to preach, you will never remember. What you have just seen, you will never forget." (Unknown Author) QUOTE: "Goodness is the only investment that never fails.' (Henry David Thoreau, Walden: Highest Laws, 1854)

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Ohau fine it is - New Zealand Herald

27 May 2012 at 3:30pm  Someone once told me the best way to make a small fortune from wine is to start with a large fortune. Wise words and I take my cap off to all those wineries that have managed to weather the financial storms of the past four or five years. Big harvests ...

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Wise words on sustainability - couriermail.com.au

27 May 2012 at 8:21am  ENVIRONMENTAL responsibility, sustainable development, ecological viability. These have become common catch phrases to capture the balance humanity is seeking between progress and preservation. Five new books look at this complex issue from divergent ...

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Hird heeds wise words - AFL

25 May 2012 at 4:06am  WHEN a 253-game player has one coach for the duration of his AFL career, there's always going to be a special bond. Throw in a couple of premierships and it's understandable why James Hird still sees Kevin Sheedy as a mentor he can talk with in times of ...

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Paxton kindergartners show they're ready for the first grade (SLIDESHOW) - NW...

24 May 2012 at 7:16pm  Things you learn in kindergarten include reading, how to use scissors and how to wait your turn. Those are some of the wise words that the 2012 graduating kindergarten class of Paxton School might have shared, had they stepped up to the ...

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Hate-Filled Human Pustule Condemns Insensitivity of Everyone Else - Gawker

22 May 2012 at 8:48am  Why wasn't his pervy gay lover brought up on charges of indifference? Wise words of progress and forgiveness, as always. Pray tell us Andrea, as you gnaw at the charred leg of a stolen baby, who else should be prosecuted for this tragedy? Why prosecute a ...

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Play and Lose: Weight Loss JigSaw Puzzle ? Angel of Flower Power - Belief.Net

21 May 2012 at 3:23pm  Angel of Flower Power, our this week?s Weight Loss JigSaw Puzzle was inspired by the wise words of the Buddha ? ? ?If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.? Remember ? clicking burns ...

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Jacobs grads encouraged to embrace change - Northwest Herald

19 May 2012 at 10:28pm  HOFFMAN ESTATES ? Speaking to the Jacobs High School Class of 2012, valedictorian Allison Dianis praised her class Saturday for its achievements and recalled the wise words given to Spider-Man. ?With great power comes great responsibility ...

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'EastEnders' Roxy to face Alfie heartbreak - Digital Spy

14 May 2012 at 4:57pm  Roxy (Rita Simons) decides that it's time to move out of the Queen Vic in the coming days following some wise words of advice from best friend Christian Clarke. However, she is given fresh hope when a lonely Alfie (Shane Richie) tells her that he doesn't ...

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Love hate, hate love, such are the wise words of the Satan?
Love passion, despise rancour such are my mottos- that of a girl of pure intentions. Likewise let us play a game of pun, in which we mock out realities of the world like Admire Trees, Nature provides us, but let it be bold. Start with flowers, rocks, mountains, forests, birds, animals, jealousy, hatred, love, intelligence, colours, materials to end up with angels & demons. We'll see who has the biggest imagination out there. Let's breathe in oxygen and travel to the wonder of nature; forests, trees, animals, birds, plants, rocks & flowers. GOOD LUCK! Whose imagination is raw and fertile out here? Let's find out. -Because Satan is not intelligent, but C v s r is. Thanks Holly, oh Ben; very funny. Oh No ZonK, it's not. It's word play, chill. c v s r and Ben Titus r on the right track, who wants to do better than them or who can do better than them euhhh?

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Worried about my scan..Any wise words?
Sorry,this isn't so much a question,I just need some wise words as I'm a little worried..I'm 19 weeks and I have my 20 week scan next week but very worried they could tell me somethings wrong,ie,no heartbeat etc.I've been having cramps and pains in one or both of my sides where I've had to use a hot water bottle and really bad back ache.Plus for the past week I've felt the baby kick slightly and it's usually around this time but so far I've not felt anything today,is there anyway I can get it moving?Just to know it's okay?!Anyway could really do with a few wise words,if people have the same sympthoms etc,I know the baby doesn't move all the time at this stage but it has been doing at night for the last week

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Worried about my scan..Any wise words?Pregnancy?
Sorry,this isn't so much a question,I just need some wise words as I'm a little worried..I'm 19 weeks and I have my 20 week scan next week but very worried they could tell me somethings wrong,ie,no heartbeat etc.I've been having cramps and pains in one or both of my sides where I've had to use a hot water bottle and really bad back ache.Plus for the past week I've felt the baby kick slightly and it's usually around this time but so far I've not felt anything today,is there anyway I can get it moving?Just to know it's okay?!Anyway could really do with a few wise words,if people have the same sympthoms etc,I know the baby doesn't move all the time at this stage but it has been doing at night for the last week Thanks people,I drank some cherry aid and a few mins later pretty sure I felt it,a few times,maybe 4,and I'm certain it's not gas bubbles as it's like a little punch,feels good but also strange lol..So thank you

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What "wise words" did your ........?
...... grandma used to tell you ???

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My husband has left me, I'm pregnant and have two children, please help?
Please help me, I really need to hear from anyone who has gone through anything like this or who can offer wise words. I met my husband 6 years ago, when I was 21. He is now 38. I have a daughter who is 8, he is not her biological father but she calls him dad and he has raised her since she was 3. We had our own baby who is now 19 months old. Last year we got married and decided to have a second child together. I am four months pregnant. Our relationship has had many problems and has got particularly bad since we got married. Although I don't think that is the cause. He has left me this week and says he isn't coming back. I am shot to pieces. Has anyone got any advice on how to get through this? I can't see a way out. I am struggling to cope with the aftermath of him abandoning the children, our youngest really misses her Daddy and I can't even begin to think how difficult she will be when I have a new baby to tend to also. I hate being this dependent on another person but we have built a life together, we had so much going for us. What to do now he has decided he doesn't want it any more?????? Thanks for the replies. It may sound like he is a complete loser but he is a decent guy, he just struggles to cope with all that is demanded of him, and believe me, that is a lot. I don't often make life easy for him and I think he has just blown up with stress and seen the door. I need to get him back, I need to make him realise that marriage is worth working for. And obviously to give the children what they deserve. Am I blind and needy or do I just believe some things in life are worth working for?

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